Most girls who strip shy away from having sex with guys they meet as customers for several reasons. For one, it's difficult to develop a real, meaningful relationship with someone they meet at their club. Everyone, including them, is to some degree putting on a show, and that show isn't the real person. The guys go for the fun of having a naked girl writhing around on their laps, and the gilrs are there to make a living. Many girls thoroughly enjoy their work, meeting guys, flirting around and dancing. But on some rare occasions, the relationship in the club tries to move to outside the club. In some very rare cases it works, usually when the girl and guy have known and been with each other a very long time as regulars (1-1 1/2 years or so). And then the relationship needs to develop carefully and slowly outside the club until a solid bridge of trust exists. In reading the thread "Would you marry a girl who gave extras?", the answers from most guys here were a resounding "No". It's my sense that most guys wouldn't marry a stripper, either. They'd sure f#*k one, but not marriage. That's most guys. It doesn't apply to me because I'm going to marry a girl I met in a club. But it's the girls who need to be careful of falling overboard for a guy they've met in their club. You're both putting on a show for each other, and the real person behind that show is sometimes difficult to find.



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