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    Default Re: Ok, I don't understand this?

    Geezzzz!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sporty, Chuck, This stuff happens to you guys too???? Just last night a beautiful dancer begged me to let her spend her entire night with me even though I had only planned on paying her $20 for a 2 for 1 dance special... At the end of the night she threw herself in front of the door and wouldn't let me leave the club until I promised to meet her for breakfast....I knew those self-improvent books would pay off someday!
    I guess I'm the only one this never happens too...
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    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    Default Re: Ok, I don't understand this?

    I did. She all for it. I've just been extremely patient on when we can do it. Her new job is the problem. Training 6 days a week. Dancing 1 night a week sometimes 2. Hopefully, we go out sometime next week. I have to talk to her about it tonight.

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    The difference is the institutions you are patronizing. At a s.c. you go to entertain a fantasy. It is not a dating or singles club. When you go to a grocery store you are there to buy groceries not neccessarily shopping the baggers.

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    There's no harm in asking. But Fan be aware that

    1) Even if she says yes, you may end up negotiating for some weeks or months on when that will happen and it never does. One situation I had similar to that was when one dancer (one of my ATFs) said we would go out club-bing together (I didn't ask, mind you) and when I brought it up again twice. The reply was "it's just a matter of when". I just dropped it after that. There was another situation that occurred which was similar with another dancer. So now my reply is "That's up to you." Some clubs and dancers are into that as part of the game.

    2) Caveat Emptor. If you do get to go out with her, be aware that she will run into all sorts of dudes she knows from the clubs and she may end up doing business which seems like flirting. Which is another situation I have had with a third. I guess what I am saying is, you may not get her undivided attention as you would get with a girl who is not a dancer. Dancers are a wonderful breed, though.

    Some dancers find the concept totally wrong as Brigette did. I understand that, but it's a little harsh and limiting. But sometimes things do happen. P.S. there is a natural tendancy for dancers to not want to go out with their clients for another reason: even moreso than with other women, guys may just be expecting sex and that's all they want.

    Lestat1 - I don't know if you are kidding about being the only one who hasn't. Sometimes its just a matter of being around and a comfort. They are under the cover also women, not just dancers. NICE COVERS, though... :o

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    Default Re: Ok, I don't understand this?

    Amber wrote:
    Not to sound harsh, but if a grocery clerk flirts, she probably likes you, if a stripper flirts... that's her job, it doesn't mean much, but too many guys think it does!

    Oh Amber, it's the truth, we all know it, but it hurts

    Thanks for your insight!

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    Sadbuttrue69 is absolutely right.....I remember the first time i got asked out from a dancer, I got all worked up for a date that never happened.....

    Also, oddly enough, a good friend of mine has a cousin thats an ex-dancer and I would always see her when I hung out with my friend. well she would occasionally say like "hey we should go out later tonight..i'll call you, you'll be free, right?", but she would never call.......
    "So I was sitting in my cubicle today, and I realized, ever since I started working, every single day of my life has been worse than the day before it. So that means that every single day that you see me, that's on the worst day of my life."

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