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    Default What attracts you to a dancer

    Pam asked on the sister site and I was wondering what the answer would be here?

    :-) Upon entering a club what catches your eye about a certain dancer?
    I mean the very first glance/look/stare...what is it that attracts you to a particular woman? Even before she opens her mouth to speak to you. That "FIRST" impression. And what will make you go back to her again?

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    For me its her face and brunettes. She doesn't need to be a super model face. The girl next door look usually gets to me first. And her eyes. Almond shape eyes with just enough makeup.

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    For me it's a brunette with a pretty face and a geat big smlie. That's were I start, then I work my way down to the "butt" . She has to have a nice "butt" to get me to give her a second look. Not a skinny one, a nice round firm "butt"
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    Call me "oldschool" but onstage performance always catches my eye. I really enjoy watching a dancer get into her routine while smiling and looking at me in the eye. I do reward these girls once they get offstage. They deserve it.

    The ones that tiptoe around the pole and roll on the floor and looking bored as hell are the ones who'll continue to wonder why they're not making money.

    However, it's not to say all is lost as there is still a margin of hope. She can still get my attention offstage by engaging in seductive conversation, a technique that some successful veteran dancers use on me, and it works. Hence, the real reason behind the importance of conversing with customers.



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    I'm a butt and thigh guy. That place where the butt meets the thigh, when highly defined, gets my wallet warmed up
    I have a difficult time meeting ladies!

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    unfortunately, most dancers dont "dance." i mean they sit in front of you and rub down their bodies for $1, but when they get up they just walk the stage. most of them dont care. at delilahs, there is really only one girl who qualifies for excellent stage performance. that girl is beth. whether doing upside down pushups, sliding down the pole and stopping right before the stage floor, contorting her body or simply dancing to any music being played, she is truly one of the best. go check her out at sa every fri and sat nite.

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    I'll be 100% honoest. First thing is the rack, it's an issue I have, it comes with being a part of a generation raised on sex based advertising. Then it is hair, I have a weakness for long brunette hair (short hair is evil). Then the eyes, but you can't see those until she's close. I usually sort all the girls, put them in "hottie order," not on purpose, it's just something men do. Then I file that list away in the back of my head and try to look for the girls having the most fun, and talk to them. I could meet a playboy playmate, and if she's in a sour mood I'll take a dance from her less attractive friend. That's my MO.
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    Butt,Butt,Butt,Butt,Butt,Butt,Butt,
    "when it comes to staying young, a mind-lift beats a face-lift any day" ~ Marty Bucella

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    Chuck that makes me happy most guys would say tits. And butt I have.

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    Small girls usually catch my eye first. Probably has something to do with me being short

    Next is a smile. If a girl can't smile at me, I'm not interested.

    Eyes go right along with the smile.

    Then I have to agree with Chuck, it's all about a nice butt! The top end does not do near as much for me.


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    What attracts me to a dancer is the fact that she's scantily and/or provocatively clothed. Then it's her demeanor. She has to enjoy what she's doing, otherwise it will give clients negative vibes. As to physique, well she has to be well proporcioned, whether she is slender, buxom, etc. She can be a bit chubby but please, no obesity here!!! And of course, she has to be friendly.



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    TiNi.....I guess it depends on how old you are. The young guys go for tats, while us older gents go for facial or butts.

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    there's nothing I love more than a nice toned body.

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    My god.... if all of you had been frequenting the last club I worked, I probably could have made a fortune there!

    Unfortunately, that place seemed to mainly draw the boob/anorexia/blonde lovers...

    C'est la vie...

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    I suppose I can let my hormonal crazed side out just once!

    Cute girl next door face. Hair color means nothing to me, although I do admit a SLIGHT preference for blondes.

    I like a short gal (under 5'6") with long hair, (short hair is ok IF it is styled right, but no "butch" looking haircuts),
    slender form (she needs meat on her bones!), nice natural breasts, B, C, and D cups (I don't mind fakes as long as they don't look silly), curves like a mountain highway, great legs, and painted nails on both fingers and toes.

    I don't mind small tattoos (under 4 sq. in) as long as they're not in certain areas (never on the arms, legs, shoulders, torso, or abdomen). Body jewelry should be kept to a minimum. Ear and navel rings are fine, but I don't care much for pierced noses, lips, eyebrows, nipples or labia.

    I prefer simple colorful outfits as opposed to anything "themed". Something that she can put on and take off repeatedly.

    Expression wise she has to carry herself around well. She has to have a sincere friendly smile, a professional workplace attitude, and appreciate my business. Ladies, never underestimate what that little peck on the cheek can do.
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    >>"Butt,Butt,Butt,Butt,Butt,Butt,Butt, "

    yippeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!

    ok, so i like butts.

    for me, it's presense... how a dancer carries herself and commands attention without really doing anything at all. some women just seem to be human magnets that grab and hold the eyes.

    >>"I don't mind small tattoos (under 4 sq. in) as long as they're not in certain areas (never on the arms, legs, shoulders, torso, or abdomen)."

    call me crazy, but that list of unacceptable body parts doesn't really leave any body parts left (other then the head) as an acceptable place for a tattoo... was this just a clever way of expressing you don't like tattoos anywhere?

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    Some dancers I've seen seem to be walking piercing warehouses: they're full of 'em!!



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    Unfortunately, that place seemed to mainly draw the boob/anorexia/blonde lovers...
    McCain
    Where is this place? I would love to work there! It really seems like all the customers (especially those on this board) want are small-breasted, brown-haired, plain-jane, girl-next-door-types and I'm definitely not that. Not that those girls are not good. It just seems like no one appreciates a blonde bombshell anymore.
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    >>"I don't mind small tattoos (under 4 sq. in) as long as they're not in certain areas (never on the arms, legs, shoulders, torso, or abdomen)."

    call me crazy, but that list of unacceptable body parts doesn't really leave any body parts left (other then the head) as an acceptable place for a tattoo... was this just a clever way of expressing you don't like tattoos anywhere?
    :o You know Alanna, come to think of it, you're right! I must have been really pooped when I posted that. (I have a night job).

    The torso particlularly is a large area. I should have said MOST parts of the torso, namely the upper sections. Maybe I should say where I COULD find them acceptable:

    - On the lower back at the waistline
    - On the back sides of the hips in towards the buttocks
    - On the ankles or feet.

    Definite no-no areas:

    - Upper torso area, both front and back
    - Anywhere on the arms
    - Thighs or upper calves
    - And no definitely NOT on the head.

    Hope that clears things up.
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    Heather I'm a big fan of blonde bombshells. It seems to me that dancing has become such an acceptable occupation that more and more women then ever are giving it a try, whether they have the body for it or not, and that is watering down most of the clubs. There is ONE club in my area that is pretty selective about who they hire and it is easily my favorite club.

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    HEather, said area would be Boise, Idaho - which is your region. But the laws there are both strict and weird, and the club pickings are a very mixed bag. You could go with one of the Spearmint Rhino clubs, which have their own set of problems, a low end club where the money isn't great but you won't be asked to compromise yourself, a mid level club where the girls get really out-of-line... the whole gamut. The thing to remember in Boise is that there is a reason why street-level prostitution is pretty much non-existent....

    The club I worked at was the KitKat in the Meridian suburb - pretty clean, low-mid-level, comfortable with potential, but the worst location in town. If you want a real lead for the Boise area, go with the Torch which is a downtown bikini bar. They have stricter hiring standards than Spearmint Rhino's clubs. And initially you will probably think of the place as a dive, but it has the best location in town, and the girls working there consistently make the best money because it is where EVERYBODY goes (including the college guys). Recently voted Boise's Best Strip Joint by the annual Boise Weekly poll. However, rumor has it that sometimes they run a waiting list for new hirings.

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    well now there, Doc Catfish, i was hoping you didn't prefer head tattoos... especially if they're more then 4 inches.

    i love the work of Chris Haas. i finally let him do one for me, and it's fabulous. i let him draw me up something and it came out great. you can see some of his work here:
    www.paradiselosttattoos.com
    (i know, shameless plug, but he does do really great work).

    personally, i'm a lot more appreciative of a tattoo depending on the quality of the work rather then the location... i've seen far too much crappy work on skin where ever it was done then i'd like (is that ugly bad blackwork on the base of the spine some kind of requirement for females these days?).

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    My answer would be the same for the other post. If her rack is out of proportion to the rest of her body, it gets noticed. Be reasonable guys, if the girl is across the room and turned away from you there is no way you will notice any of her facial features.

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    thanks for sticking up for the blondes Heather! LOL! I am a blonde big tittied blue eyed girl and guys were listing the plain boring girls. I was getting a bit worried! Every guy is different though. Looks draw you in but personality is what keeps you intrigued.
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    Bikerdoll: OK, anyone who lumps you in with "plain and boring" needs to have his head examined! That being said, it's always eye contact with me. I have my preferences for body type, hair color and even nationality but it all goes out the window if a woman gives me "that look".
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    Ass and eyes!
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