Sorry but this is going to be a bit of a "mini-rant"....today I went in to the club, right. I got a two for one from one dancer I had never met. It was nude 2 way contact, right. Now I am always very respectful of a dancer's private zones. I am always mindful of how much contact they feel comfortable with etc. Now this girl was fine with two way contact, and so I gently rubbed her legs, back and waist etc. Did not touch her breasts or anything like that. Everything was fine, no prob. Then a little later I got a full-price lap dance from another dancer. First of all, for the same price she didn't do nude...that should have been a tip off right there. Then she proceeded to basically give me an airdance. Mind you, she was very attractive etc. However, since RI is full contact, airdances are silly and don't do anything for me...I'd go to MA if I wanted one of those. Then when she puts her leg on me, I touched the back of her calf and I got hand checked!!! At first I wasn't sure if she was really hand checking me, so I tried to touch the back of her calf again...hand checked again!!! Twice more even! Now I never EVER get hand checked. Like I said before I am very respectful and I only do what the dancer will allow...and I have never had any complaints, etc. So I was like WTF?!? I felt like it was a "pre-emptive strike" or something...like she wanted to prevent me from the POTENTIAL touching that might occur from touching the leg. After three hand checks I was grinning and bearing it, but I was pretty turned off by that point...it ruined it for me. I didn't say anything to her about it either, I just kept my hands at my sides and grinned like a buffoon, making small talk. Silly me I even got a second dance from her, just to see if it would be the same...and of course it was. So I spent more money for less [grr].
I'm not the kind of guy who gets pissed off at a dancer and I can respect her boundaries. And I think that this dancer was nice (although I would never get another dance from her again...). However, I get irked when someone is hand checking me for no apparent reason...when I haven't done anything (in my book) to earn it.
Have you ever been hand checked for no apparent reason? And what did you do about it? Did you say anything or did you just let it go? What's the least amount of contact that you've been handchecked for (this goes mainly for contact clubs)? And did you get any more dances from her, despite the fact that you had been unfairly handchecked? Just curious... ???


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