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    Strange ramblings from a conversation with the guys a few nights ago:

    Even though none of the dancers on these forums do extras (wink) and most dancers are not CSWs in the textbook definition of the term, the SC does seem to straddle some boundaries. Some would say it is the Adult Entertainment industry, but in my mind porn movies are the biggest part of that industry. Are dancers in that league? Would they want to be considered in that league? Although, I have seen more at most SCs than can be seen on some porn movies (soft/hotel porn).

    In the clubs the dancers are sexy. What they do for a living is after all, sexual. So, do SC dancers work in what many would consider the Sex Industry? I’m not passing judgment here. Maybe it is not fair to categorize the job at all.

    I don’t really think of it as the Sex Industry myself. Actually my experience is that I have a better chance of having sex at the neighborhood pub than at a SC! When you go to a SC, do you think of it as just another neighborhood bar?
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    It being a sex industry job is what got me into it to begin with....
    When I started dancing I had been swinging for about 7 years, and had to see if I had the guts to do it.....
    After my first night I fell in love with it......
    5 years later, I am still swinging , and love it, and still in this biz, just behind the bar more.... (there is more money behind the bar if your a good bartender)

    I have days where my job turns me on, good guys in, having a good time..... Those days are alot of fun, and good money.....
    Yes I have days where the smile and everything is forced cause I'm just not into it......
    No your not really gonna get laid but its fun, and the job is centered around us being sexual and sexy for you !!!!!!

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    In the clubs the dancers are sexy. What they do for a living is after all, sexual. So, do SC dancers work in what many would consider the Sex Industry? I’m not passing judgment here. Maybe it is not fair to categorize the job at all.

    I don’t really think of it as the Sex Industry myself. Actually my experience is that I have a better chance of having sex at the neighborhood pub than at a SC! When you go to a SC, do you think of it as just another neighborhood bar?
    I do consider the clubs as part of the sex industry, although its very clear that strip clubs by and far the one segment of the sex industry that has mainstreamed the most. Going to the strip club with your buddies is considered a rite of male passage, but you still trek by yourself (or maybe with your SO) to an adult shop at 2 AM for fear of being spotted. Why do you think the latter is open 24 hours?

    When you're spotted at the club, it says to others that you enjoy the live hotties performing for you. When you're spotted buying porn (or even an innocuous Playboy), it says to others that you'll be launching the space shuttle by yourself tonight.

    I just bought a Playboy Newsstand Special at a mainstream bookstore last night. For the record, I only COLLECT them (although that Kitana Baker on the cover, a.k.a. the brunette from the Miller Lite "catfight" was HOT). I got absolutely itchy at the stares from female customers while carrying that magazine to checkout with the green plastic over it. It was like they were saying "you're objectifying us, you pervert!"
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    I just bought a Playboy Newsstand Special at a mainstream bookstore last night....I got absolutely itchy at the stares from female customers while carrying that magazine to checkout with the green plastic over it. It was like they were saying "you're objectifying us, you pervert!"
    I think it is ridiculous for women to say that porn is bad because it objectifies women. Of course it treats women like sex objects, it's supposed to, its porn. When I am looking for some material to spank off to, I am only looking for displays of women of a sexual nature. It doesn't necessarily mean I am always just thinking of them in a sexual way when I am not spanking off.
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    I don't judge aother people who buy porn or whatever... there may always be someone waiting at home that likes it just as much (me LOL).
    Women that think "you're objectifying us, you pervert!" are just unsure of themselves and their own sexuality. I think the only reason alot of women object to it are because of insecurities they have about themselves and their own bodies. Almost everything is a competition for most women... getting porn and looking at nearly perfect naked women can make alot of people very selfconscious about themselves.
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    I agree with this totally......
    Alot of women miss out on how good sex can be for themselves because of that......
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    Some would say it is the Adult Entertainment industry, but in my mind porn movies are the biggest part of that industry. Are dancers in that league? Would they want to be considered in that league?
    I would say dancers are certainly in the adult entertainment industry but not in the same league as porn by any means. I doubt they would want to be considered in the same league. Kind of like how football and basketball are both sports but very different games.


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    One has a better chance of having sex in a strip club if it's offered, duh.



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    I personally wouldn't do porn, at least not at this point in my life. ...
    What about "performance art?" Would you masturbate for a customer? Discreetly in the club? In a private setting elsewhere? Fingers or toys?

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    I personally wouldn't do porn, at least not at this point in my life.
    Well I think the Amber sex thread is close, without the video I'm sure someone has printed it out and is using it for bathroom reading material LMAO
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    Dang, I'm only allowed to subscribe to one mag per month :-/ Does this mean I have to cancel my subscription to Hot Bike ???
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    Miss Amber please make it an e-zine like FBR I'd get killed if I come home with one more mag.
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    Amber, you have to do both! An ezine for EH and FBR and a real one complete with graphic pix for those of us that won't get in trouble and live too far away to visit.
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    Well I think the Amber sex thread is close, without the video I'm sure someone has printed it out and is using it for bathroom reading material LMAO
    Reading material - I had it made into wallpaper! [smokin]
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    LMAO... So should Istart a monthly magazine along with my book?
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    I was thinking of the Amber channel myself.

    I know that would make me cough up an extra $20/month for digital cable.
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