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    Rant time again for sandy...

    We talked earlier about extras and all that crap and breaking the rules...

    what pisses me off to no end(ok, just irritates me somewhat) is that it seems female customers are allowed to break rules a lot more than male customers. By that i mean, almost everytime i see female customers in an SC, they seem to be getting more milage in plain view of everyone. mostly breast touching.

    im not reffering to one dancer touching another dancer, thats different. but is it not wrong that just because someone has a paticular sex organ they are or aren't allowed to enjoy certain activities in the clubs? If i was to put on a wig and a dress would i be allowed to touch breasts too in clubs?

    Dancers, what do you think about it? at the same time, do you find that women also think they are allowed to break the rules more and you find it a hassle/anoyance?

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    You're right - fair is fair. Of course, you could go to a gay club and get your "rights".

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    strip clubs with male strippers and female customers is even worse......

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    There was this one dancer that had a funny comeback to this.

    I made a comment like "That's no fair, I don't get to do that."

    and she said something, I can't remember the exact wording but it was like "Well at least not here you can't" said in a really suggestive tone. I tipped extra for that one, it was cute.

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    Women all feel that it is ok what ever they do when getting a dance !!
    I am all for dancing for women and enjoy teasing and turning them on just as much for dancing for men, but I don't get why they think they don't have to follow the rules.......
    If she is hot I am all for getting her all wet, and as much as I may want to do more, it is my job that I can still get in trouble if I don't stop her......
    Then they look at the dancer as just beinga bitch when when we don't just let them grope all over us!!!!
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    Some dancers have the attitude whatever they do for a woman is fine but men have to adhere to all the rules.

    I've known dancers that think nothing of going down on a female customer going commando but if another dancer is letting a man do anything, she is a dirty whore and they would tell the bouncers.
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    I've known dancers that think nothing of going down on a female customer going commando but if another dancer is letting a man do anything, she is a dirty whore and they would tell the bouncers.
    Yes, I've seen this many times WTF
    While getting a VIP one night I looked over and saw a couple getting a dance. The dancer was going down on the chick. I looked at my dancer and asked "Why can't I get some of that"? her reply was "You're a man silly". WTF
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    Not to mention, women always get French kissed even at the tip rail while guys are lucky to get a peck on the cheek. So women are less likely to have STD's. Gimme a f____ing break! Sorry! This has been a sore spot ever since I started going to SCs. Sandy is right.
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    I don't feel women should get treated any different...... They are customers just like the guys........I love dancing for them, but I don't want to fight off a drunk chic any more then I want to deal with a grabby guy...
    I don't get why they think they should get more, I think maybe it is thee attention they get of the 2 girl thing, and having the guys watch them get what you are not !!!!!
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    you're joking, but i wouldn't put it past me...not to get you introuble, just to get some action... whats the policy on hermaphrodites at k2u? what clubs are you going to that females need to be escorted by a male to the club? i can think of plenty where they can go alone.

    its not that dancers allow female extras, its that itll happen in plain view and the management turns a blind eye...but they wouldn't turn a blind eye to guys getting extras.

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    PS... Sandy... you can come to my club dressed up as a woman... then when I get into trouble, I'll use the excuse, "Hey... I just thought it was an ugly chick!" j/k... you know I luv ya!
    There's a thought, ladies night... all the guys come dressed as ladies and get all the "extras" they can handle. LMAO
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    Whether its justifiable or not, it is part of the SC experience. Many dancers allow more and give more attention to female customers than male. Is it right? Nope.. its unfair. Will it change? Nope. I don't get worked up about it, I just accept it,

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    Oh, I've also been pulled up on stage and had a stripper remove the majority of my clothing! I've never seen that happen to a guy.
    Believe it or not, I have seen that...I saw a particular entertainer at a particular club who dragged a guy up on stage, took his clothes off and basically blew him, more or less (wet mouth on tighty whities). [shocked]..but you're right...that is extremely rare...!


    I think what's fair for one should be fair for everybody!
    But hey, I guess I'm just truely into equality in everything... if I can eat out a girl, well, then damnit... I wanna be able to blow a guy!
    Well, makes sense to me...! Of course, we know you're not that kind of girl .... but the dancers on here will start jumping down your throat for even making the suggestion, kidding or no... [nono]

    Yeah, clearly there is a double standard.....this esp goes for special "shows"...you're way more likely to see random girls pulled out on stage for actual oral sex. But that goes for movies and TV, too...show a woman's T & A, and it's a PG or PG-13 film, show a guys ****, R at the very best, probably MA or X. :o For some reason it's more of a taboo to see the male anatomy than the female anatomy...when you see a couple having sex in a movie you are also always way more likely to see her naked than him. Guess it's just a societal thing...

    if you want to start a new trend, Amber, fine by me [oogle]...but somehow I don't think the club will approve...lol

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    You know, I'm really not sure on that one. I know there are heterosexual women that are sensative about other women touching them. They are homophobic as well. Then again, contact between women is more socially accepted than homosexuality is. Excepting the gays, guys do not touch each other as much.
    I think it's more of an individual thing.

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    Female customers are generally allowed more slack because 1) they tend to be less aggressive than men - most men always try to take more than they're given; the women usually just take what they're given, 2) if a woman gets a little too handsy she's generally much easier to control than a man in the same circumstance, 3) many male customers enjoy the show and it's good for business if the club allows a little girlie fun, 4) many male bouncers/managers enjoy the show and are willing to allow a little slack for their own enjoyment.

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    Well that's us men, give us an inch and we think we have seven, no I mean we take a mile.
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    LOL chuck I keep getting called "metric man" at the club whatever could she mean???
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    The GOOD thing about the double standard is that when you get 2on1 dances, both dancers tend to do more, and the gooder girl will often do whatever the badder girl does. I call them "breakout dances."

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    Well that's us men, give us an inch and we think we have seven, no I mean we take a mile.
    Notice in my previous post I said MOST male customers always try to get more. Some are very good at relaxing and letting the dancers go their thing, but MOST do get more aggressive than they should - even when they ask about the rules and the dancer tells them straight out. Female customers rarely get aggressive.

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    Notice in my previous post I said MOST male customers always try to get more. Some are very good at relaxing and letting the dancers go their thing, but MOST do get more aggressive than they should - even when they ask about the rules and the dancer tells them straight out. Female customers rarely get aggressive.
    Ok, I think I'm getting this. Dancers feel less threatened by female customers, so they can concentrate on giving a better dance rather worrying about Mr. Hands! Right?

    So does that mean if I sit on my hands, a dancer will do all the stuff she does for a female? Shit I'll give it a try !
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    If you try cross dressing at the same time, it might just work Chuck. Otherwise rots of ruck Charlie.
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    LOL Chuck it's worth a shot! I personally do get more friendly with the guys who relax instead of doing the octupus dance. Especially in lower mileage clubs where I really have to be careful to keep the hands in check in order to keep myself out of trouble. Where I'm working now the manager is always watching on the cameras and if a girl is not visibly doing something to control a handsy customer, she gets in trouble. It is damn annoying to have to constantly spatula his hands away instead of concentrating on doing a good dance. I can't imagine the guys gets as much pleasure that way either - because he's not going to get nearly as good a dance as if he'd just let me do it. Anyway I'd definitely feel more immediately comfortable (and friendly) with a guy I don't know if he sat on his hands! I know alot of other girls feel the same way.

    I do tend to feel more comfortable right away with female customers (most of them) because I know they're not going to make me do the 'spatula' all through the dance!

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    LOL Chuck it's worth a shot! I personally do get more friendly with the guys who relax instead of doing the octupus dance.
    I do tend to feel more comfortable right away with female customers (most of them) because I know they're not going to make me do the 'spatula' all through the dance!
    Hey "B" I think you may have come up with two new dance crazes. "The Octupus" and "The Spatula"
    Are those dances best performed to rock or hip hop ? LMAO
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    These new dances anything like "Kung Fu Fighting"?
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    It is damn annoying to have to constantly spatula his hands away instead of concentrating on doing a good dance. I can't imagine the guys gets as much pleasure that way either - because he's not going to get nearly as good a dance as if he'd just let me do it. Anyway I'd definitely feel more immediately comfortable (and friendly) with a guy I don't know if he sat on his hands! I know alot of other girls feel the same way.
    I think to make customer behave, a dancer should find a creative and interesting way to MAKE him keep his hands off, like bring a pair of handcuffs in with her and cuff him behind his back, or just tie him to the chair. Although, I gotta love those gals who reward my good behavior with good misbehavior on their part.
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