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    Unfortunately that is a standard for alot of waitresses. they seem to think they should be getting a cut of everything, just like that damn clubs and managers. What's worse is those same waitresses will 'force' dancers to help them get the 'tips' they want (they want us to tell customers to tip certain amounts) by sending only dancers who comply to good tables, and sometimes even by taking dancers who don't go along away and replacing them with those who do. It amounts to extortion and some waitresses are more unscrupulous in this regard than managers! They see dancers making money and get the idea in their heads that they should make the same or more even though they can't / aren't willing to take their clothes off. Some waitresses do take home more than some dancers because of this extortion. Of course you should tip the waitress according to the bar tab and add a little for the tab and extra trips she may have made to bring you funny money, but a % of the entire dance tab is excessive in any case! The waitresses where I work are happy to get a $20 tip on a $400 VIP tab because part of it is funny money and they also get a commission on that tab from the bar, plus they don't have to make many trips to take care of the table.

    ML don't worry about that waitress. Go to whatever club you want. A good way to solve that problem is to get cash instead of running a tab. If the club has an ATM, use it - it will cost you less in surcharges anyway. Some clubs don't advertise the fact that they have ATMs because they prefer you use their funny money so they can bilk you even more. Ask ask ask. Many dancers will tell you about it when a waitress or manager will not because the dancers want to keep dancing and prefer cash anyway. I worked at Aggieed's second home for months before I knew they had an ATM system at the bar where customers could withdraw cash - management didn't want girls telling guys about that. When I was hired there I was told they didn't have an ATM when actually they did. That is common in many clubs. Also, most club ATMs have like a $100 withdrawal limit and charge $7-$8 per withdrawal, but what many customers don't realize is if they want more cash than that they can do more than one transaction. The club ATMs may be more expensive than regular ATMs, but it's still cheaper than 10-25% plus dealing with a waitress who expects a 15-20% on top! It's always best to hit the ATM before entering the club, but you can't always plan that, so the ATM at the club is your next best choice. Avoid using funny money if you can!

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    I never would never start a CC tab in the first place. Too much of a hassle. I always just use cash is the best way to do business like a place like that. I would just set a limit don't over spend your limit. If you like what you see you can always go back. And I would suggest don't use the ATM if the club has one. Everybody would just jump on you like flies. Hell, since I have a membership I go to the 7!! across the street to get cash if you need it. And if I wanted to I would go back in and have some more fun. Unfortunately, I'm lucky it's in town and not out in the middle of nowhere.

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    Yes it's generally a good idea to avoid running a tab at a club, but some guys prefer it or don't mind it for various reasons. Sometimes a good idea is to run a tab just for the drinks and use the ATM for dance money. Or just withdraw as much as you want to spend in cash, then when you've spent it, go home. Like Fan said you can always go back another time. Either way, unless you have a specific reason that makes running a tab for the entire bill a good idea, don't do it. Avoid funny money because it comes with too many extra charges!

    Oh and if you have a tendency to overspend after getting a buzz on, just make it a policy to leave the cards at home and only bring what you can afford to spend in cash. This way if you get loaded and are having a good time, you will HAVE to leave when you run out of cash. Once you're out the door you'll get over that feeling of wanting more quickly, and will be happier and more ready to go back another time without feeling guilty or having to deprive yourself of dances for a while

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    A $25 tip is more than I've given any waitress!

    You could bring me drinks all day and I wouldn't pay $25. Hell, I'll get my own drink!
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    Pryce $25 is not unreasonable at all for the tab he had. Standard tipping amounts are 15-20% of the total bill, so for his drink tab of $66.25, a $25 tip was just under 38%. While that is nearly 40% and seems high, we have to consider the waitress probably did have to make extra trips to bring funny money, and it is common practice for customers to tip extra for the waitress to keep a tab, especially in a strip club where waitresses often offer eye candy rivalling dancers. I don't think his tip was either excessive or too low.

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    ML,

    Remember fellow aspder that credit cards are bad. There is a post on aspd about credit cards and cocktail waitresses padding the bill by putting extra drinks, especially when you get drunk.



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    Well so you just learned a valuable lesson is all. Only take what you can afford to spend in cash to the club, and leave the cards at home.

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    Thanks to my willingness to open up a tab or pay dances with plastic, I'm on hiatus from strip clubbin'. In my case if I do what Bridgette has suggested, it makes no difference simply because I have to take care of my bills and usual single guy expenses. Plus I have to constatly remind myself that there are other forms of entertainment and need funds for those.LOL.



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    I have had a credit card tab for drinks and food, but dances are paid strictly by cash. This way whatever you tip the waitress, is from the job she did!

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    Credit cards, alchohol and a naked women should not be in the same room together...EVER! Nothing good can come of this....Waitresses in some upscale clubs really let it get to their heads that they should be getting a piece of the action. I avoid these types of clubs and when I do go I always bring cash and never walk in with more than I want to spend.
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    ML:

    That's a hard lesson that all of us have learned. What I do: leave all but one of my credit cards at home. I bring the one with the lowest limit and leave it hidden in the car, in the event of some sort of emergency going to/from the club.

    I also leave the debit card in the car as well. That way, I can still go get it, but I can force myself to think hard about it first. I can also replenish my cash that way if I go to a second club.

    Tips: $1 per drink, plus anywhere from $5-$20 for referring a dancer to me, depending on how I felt the dancer matched the description of what I asked for. Because that's a bit of a drain on money otherwise spent on dances, I tend to avoid clubs with waitresses, or else I just sit at the bar.

    Hell, $25 on a $65 drink tab is a fabulous tip. Also, consider that 15% of your $341 tab would have been about $51. You gave her about half of that, for not much work. I think you just found a bad apple. Sucks how that can bring down your whole experience...
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    I find it a good idea if you are going to stiff the tip for bad service, and you happen to put it on a CC, write a note on the receipt that you sign. That way the manager will see it at the end of the night when closing out the drawer. Maybe s/he can correct the problem.
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    LEAVE your ATM/credit card in the car!! When I go into a club I take in all of my cash and then stash my empty wallet in the glovebox. That way I have a set limit and wont be enticed to go over it.

    Yes, there were times when I wanted more cash and I even went out to my car for my card but by the time I got in the car and reached in the glovebox for my wallet I came to my senses and left.

    There's always tomorrow!

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    Ok here goes,
    I am a bartender 3 shifts a week and dance only one now !!!!
    I have bartended off and on for 12 years, and steady now for the last 3 years....

    I never ever would tell someone I was unhappy with the tip they gave me !!!!!!!!!!!!
    I Have had customers that when I have first waited on them they have never tipped, they keep coming in, send money, and I don't see a dollar.........
    Then slowly, because I keep smiling, keep their drinks fresh, ash tray empty, light thier smokes ect, GUESS WHAT, they start tipping me like you would not believe.............
    Great Sevice comes with no expectations, and when you give it with no expectations, you get your returns in thee end !!!!!!
    I hate to hear about this kind of service, she did not dance for you, and 25$ for a tip, she should have smiled, and told you thank you, and that I hope to see you again........
    Give me a few months, and a few more times of waiting on someone and I would turn it into a 50$ tip because you would have been served like a king !!!!!!!!!

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    Tip? What the hell is that?

    Seriously, how about those waiters who have such a great memory that they decided to impress us by not writing down your order and memorizing it? Sure enough, there's food missing when you food is served.

    I don't care if you're friggin Carnac! Write it down and bring me my food!

    Then they wonder why there's a quarter on the table.

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    Blackeyes, I gotta stand up and correct you on this one !!!!
    I maybe the biggest pot head out there, But ya know what, I don't write anything down, and you will get everything you ordered, like your extra side of ranch and extra napkins that you asked for, and your coke will be refilled before you can ask me for it !!!!

    Sorry if I sound bitchy on this one, not meaning too, who says pot kills your short term......... LOL
    I will say, for more then 6 people, I'll grab the pen and pad, but under 6, my little brain can handle it.......
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    EvilCyn, that is just so talented of you.

    When I'm sitting at the table, I don't care about that great talent. Write down my order and bring me my food.

    If your boobies were hanging out though, I'd probably be too distracted to even notice whether or not you were memorizing or writing down.

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    Ok, I don't know exactly how it works with waitresses in SC's but in bars and restaurants a waitress is taxed based on the amount of the bill. There is a set percentage used to determine what her tip probably was, I also don't know what the percentage is although I think it's somewhere between 7-10%. If this is the case, I could understand why a waitress may be upset. If the bill is $350 and she is being taxed on a $35 tip but only received $ 25 she probably would get upset even though it's a fault of the system and not you. Again, I don't know if this is how it works, maybe someone could fill us in.

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    Normal tip % is 15 % for standard service .....
    The drink total was only 65$, so by normal standards on the drinks she served becasue she didn't do the dancing for him would be 9.75$..
    She should not expect to get tipped on an amount that included dances, she didn't do them, she served 65$ worth of drinks.........
    So that 25$ tip should have made her very happy, and ready to kiss his ass next time he came in............
    I don't get bitchy about much in life, this one will send me through the roof........
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    my bar, we claim a fair amount as tips. if they(management) thinks we underclaimed, they boost it up accordingly. its not based on sales. we also claim our tips befor we count them all up anyway. so theres no way to tell exactly what they are. we always underestimate...but you cant claim $5 on a friday night, thats just not beleivable.

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    Last week when I went to my bar here in town, I needed some extra money (had a customer with me) so I got $100 cash on my CC tab. I went ahead and tipped my waitress for the total. Shes a nice girl and so far has worked her butt off taking care of me when I'm in the club. Plus I know she only makes about $5.00 an hour. Hell, I can afford it. I guess if I didnt like her I might feel different but as long as she takes good care of me I'll take good care of her.
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    Like you, FBR, I tend to overtip. I figure they're making less than anyone else at the club, and way less than me. If they give me great service, I'll sometimes tip them the full price of the bill because they made the time so enjoyable. A drink tastes the same anywhere, but to have a really enjoyable time, you need someone there who flawlessly and cheerfully takes care of you, is attentive to your needs, and makes you laugh and feel special. The great ones can even sense when you shouldn't be interrupted, like during the punch line of a joke, or a moment when you're in serious conversation with a client. A huge tip is well worth it and usually ensures the same level of service next time.

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    I don't drink, but when I stop by the bar for change I'll get a coke. The waitress always checks on me so a couple of trips ago I tipped her a couple bucks for looking out after me. Now when she sees me she goes out of her way to see if I need anything and comes over to talk.
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    e_h that was cool....money makes the SC world go round. I know I feel good when I can afford to be generous. 2001 was a very bad year for me biz wise and I felt shitty that I couldnt be as generous as I wanted to be with the dancers and servers. That was part of the reason for my sabbatical (...ok...fine...it was mostly being screwed up over my ex-ATF LOL). Things are better now so I'm back to spreadin some wealth. I'll enjoy while I can
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