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    Stopped by my local club late this afternoon. I was tired and kinda stressed out from work. I wasn't necessarily looking for dances...just to have a couple beers and relax. Anyway, as soon as I sat down a dancer whom I hadn't seen for over a year came over immediately and gave me a big hug and a kiss. It was nice We sat and talked for about an hour shooting the shit about old times. Over the course of the hour or so I tipped her I think about $50 plus about $10 when she was on stage. After I left, I got to thinking...damn was I a chump? LOL It felt good tho...especially since my trip to this bar after my sabbatical have been a spending/lap dancing orgy. Have you guys ever just gone in and hung with a lady...apprciating her time and tipping accordingly?
    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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    Yes,it felt good to you and was fun that is what it is all about!
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    e_h thanks for the affirmation. As a money hungry guy from the old school, I tend to put too much emphasis on return on investment sometimes LOL It was nice to just relax with some friendly conversation. This chick kind of reminds me of my ex-ATF from Indy without the curly hair and fake boobs...and sans all the baggage we had.
    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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    Sounds like you got more than your monies worth
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    Have you guys ever just gone in and hung with a lady...apprciating her time and tipping accordingly?
    Yes and no. Yes, I've just hung out "shooting the shit" with dancers, but no I don't pay for just conversation (although I will tip when they go on stage). The dancers know this and usually only come around when things are slow and there's nothing better to do.
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    Sure, on my last visit to the Isabela, PR club were I've been on occasion I sat and talked with one of the dancers. I bought her drinks, but instead of lap dancing me on my barstool we sat in front of the stage and watched the show. Kind of unusual for that particular club, but it was enjoyable nonetheless.



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    I tend not to pay for conversation, mainly just because I usually decide pretty quickly if I want a dance or not. If I decide I don't, I politely let her know so she can find a paying customer. If she hangs around, well, that's her business. As long as she isn't scaring the other ladies off.

    If I do want a dance, I usually let her know in a song or two, so I'm not wasting a lot of her time. I appreciate that the ladies need to find a dance or move on (at least when it's busy) so I don't drag things out. I guess I'm not huge on conversation - it's a factor, but that's not what I'm there for. Times when I end up having long convesations are usually after having several laps, and the lady and I just end up chatting. Even then, if I'm not getting more laps, I'll say so so she can move on if she wants to.
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    FBR: You did the righ thing, A woman's time is always money in a stripclub. Anyone who calls you a chump for treating the lady well is a chump!
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    I don't have ANY problem with him spending money on the gal just for conversation. It's his money, he can do what he wants with it. I was just answering his question. I don't pay for conversation.
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    i used to spend time just chatting and not getting dances often about a year ago. there was sortof a thread dedicated to this "in my honor" a couple weeks back. i didn't tip her, but i would buy her a drink and split lunch with her. usualy wouldnt' even go to the stage...only if it was dead and she/they just wanted soemone to talk to so they wouldn't be just dancing for nobody. then they'd usualy just sit on my lap at the stage and we'd chat...usualy without even asking for a tip. they knew i had no money, and knew that when they were with me they wouldn't be making any money...but if they had nothing better to do(i.e. nobody was getting dances) theyd hang out with me.

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    Think of it this way FBR... you got off cheap! If she had been lapping ya, you would have been down $250-$400 depending on how much per dance and how long the DJ talked between songs. LOL. I don't think you were a chump. I'd feel guilty taking up that much of a dancers time if she didn't make any money from me.
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    You did the right thing, FBR. She is working the whole time she is there, and she decided to be nice and come catch up on how things are with you rather than hustling the crowd for dances. You showed her that you appreciated it by tipping her, and in fact she tipped you back by giving up on the dances she might otherwise have gotten so she could catch up with you. Sounds like a win-win situation to me.

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