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    Have you ever got a lap dance from somebody that just felt wrong? I had my first one that felt wrong today. I don't know what it is maybe I was just bummed my ATF was working at her other job tonight instead of dancing. Anyway, so I decided to get a dance from one of her best friends. We chat every once in a while I said why not. Well, she started to dance and it felt like I was getting a lap dance from my sister. Strange? You bet ya. I don't know if it was the booze or I was bummed or something. I mean she is one of the hottest in the club it just felt wrong.

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    Sounds like that scene from Back to the Future where Marty kisses his mom.

    You been visiting ol' Doc Brown, fan? ??? LOL

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    I've had the other problem where my ATF's best friend got me harder than my ATF did. In my (pathetic) experience, love always messes up good sex.

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    I have a fav who has a younger sister that dances in the same club with her. I had never danced with the younger sister until one night when I showed up and my Fav was unexpectadly not dancing. I decided to get a dance from her sister. It just felt wierd. She had many of the same moves and many of the same features as her older sister but it felt like I was getting a lap dance from a clone of my Fav. I stopped after 1 dance and felt bad-I could tell she knew something was wrong.....Sporty: That was the single most profound statement you have ever made on the internet.
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    It wasn't good because mentally you felt you were cheating on your ATF, and you wouldn't let it be good, or maybe because they are friends she purposely didn't give you her best effort. She knew she had no future steady income from you. Maybe you are better off that it worked out this way so you won't have to consider switching or wonder how an ATF relationship would be with the substitute. There is definitely a code of ethics amongst dancers because if you're an ATF of someone, the other girls won't dance with you even if your ATF isn't there. ( If it's only for one night and she'll be back in a day or two ).

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    radiowinz: not sure if you are responding to my post here or in general.
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    Some of the best sex I ever had was with a girlfriend's sister, so lapping a dancer's friend certainly wouldn't bother me. If your connection to one dancer prevents you from enjoying the company of another, it's time to dump the whole "AFT" business.

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    If your connection to one dancer prevents you from enjoying the company of another, it's time to dump the whole "AFT" business.
    That's the way it is for me. Some guys like the ATF thing, but I avoid getting too into one lady. I go for variety, adventure, change of pace, etc. Sure, I have the dancers at my favorite club pretty well scoped out, and there are some I will always prefer to others. But when strip club life gets to be too much like "real life" - can't enjoy a dance with one lady out of loyalty to another - then it defeats the purpose, at least for me.
    This is where the catchy witticisms go. Forgive me if I'm too jaded to cough one up. If you must have one, may I suggest Bartlett's Familiar Quotations: http://education.yahoo.com/reference/bartlett/

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    I've had the other problem where my ATF's best friend got me harder than my ATF did. In my (pathetic) experience, love always messes up good sex.
    It's been like this for me also. The more attached I feel to a dancer, the more difficult it tends to be for me to relax and clear my mind in a way conducive to getting properly aroused by a lapdance.

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    The more attached I feel to a dancer, the more difficult it tends to be for me to relax and clear my mind in a way conducive to getting properly aroused by a lapdance.
    Lap, I hadn't thought of it before but you're right. Over the course of about a year, my ex-ATF and I spent more time talking during our dances than getting down to business. She still made the same money (or more) but didn't have to work half as hard. Well, I'm back in the game after a 9 month sabbatical and I think this time I'm gonna keep "properly aroused" as a priority

    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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    Some guys like the ATF thing, but I avoid getting too into one lady. I go for variety, adventure, change of pace, etc. Sure, I have the dancers at my favorite club pretty well scoped out, and there are some I will always prefer to others. But when strip club life gets to be too much like "real life" - can't enjoy a dance with one lady out of loyalty to another - then it defeats the purpose, at least for me.
    Not to offend any of you with ATF's, but I feel the same way, I have my favorites at the clubs I visit but no ATF, give me variety any day, it also seems to keep my head clearer.

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    Oh, I have my other favorites too. I go in all the time where I sit and talk to my favorites all the time. My ATF actually encourages me to get other dances from other people. I just felt wrong doing getting one from one of her best friends. To me anyway.

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