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    What do you do when you find out your ATF (that has been single) now has a boyfriend?
    ...or even worse is <gulp> engaged? :o

    I know it shouldn't make a difference, but do you think it sometimes does? ???

    Do you think that it makes a difference for a dancer in her dances and the way she deeals with a customer if she has a boyfriend or not?
    If you think it makes a difference... do you think it is a difference that is truely there or one of your imagination only (she's now not only yours)?

    Luv,
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    I don't think it would make a difference in her dancing if she does have a bf, unless the bf start making demands as to how she should treat her clients, which would be very unfortunate. If on the other hand the client is bothered by the fact that she has a bf, then the dancer should talk it over with him or stop dancing for him.



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    Just last year a girl i got dances from was working, and she just got engaged (she was showing off her ring). So I figured, let us see if she is just as dirty now that she is engaged. Well she was dirtier! I guess she had to start saving up money for the wedding! LOL But I wouldnt turn down someone just cuz they are engaged married or whatever! You never know what you are gonna get!

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    Well if an ATF gets a BF and it diminishes the quality of her dances and the attention she is paying to me, goodbye ATF. if nothing changes, I'm cool with it.
    Most of the clubs I go to do not allow BF's in the club while the lady is working for just this reason, and I agree with this policy. I don't want some BF lurking around watching everything his GF is doing then following me outside to let me know he's not happy with me.
    So Amber, you should probably tell Earl to stay at home with the animals and the BMW’s when you’re working.
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    Aw, Amber's got a boyfriend Kidding



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    If she has a BF than its probably ok as long as she maintains the quality of her dances. Hell, if she has a boyfriend than thats good for me cuz then its means no more "shopping" dates lol.
    whats a PL to do?

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    I almost always assume that the dancer already HAS a boyfriend, fiance, or husband. Let's face it, a lot, if not most of them, do. Anybody woman who is attractive enough to be dancing in a strip club is likely to be attractive enough to have a mate in the real world, right? To me, I'm more surprised if she DOESN'T have a SO. While there are plenty of dancers who are single (and some single moms... ) I think that it's always safer to assume that they're not single....

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    I almost always assume that the dancer already HAS a boyfriend, fiance, or husband.
    ..or girlfriend...can't leave out the bi/lesbian dancers!!

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    Not for nuthin' but.... the day I start worrying about the private lives of dancers please put me out of my misery.

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    I don't ask if a dancer is single/married etc. becuase it doesn't matter to me in the least. If she brings it up that she is in a new relationship or engaged I'd offer best wishes or congrats to her just like I would anyone. I would probably even buy an extra celebration round of drinks or bottle of champagne for an engagment.

    If a dancers services changed for the worse for any reason I'd start spending time and money on a differnt dancer. But just finding out thast a dancer is involved wouldn't change my perception or enjoyment of the entertainment she offers.

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    Does not matter to me,the only thing that matters is the time spent together.
    Don't make me spank you!

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    unless everyone has PMed amber, nobody has asked whether or not she has an S.O or not. Is it cuz of ignorance is bliss or you don't care. For me its the latter, an even if she did have an S.O she'd still be my electronic ATF.
    whats a PL to do?

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    Certainly, I'd like to feel that my ATF is 'available', but if its just meeting up with a gal for a few dances, then no big deal really.

    And considering what a perfect practice that good ol' fashioned honesty is in a strip club, guessing what the truth is, is just that, a guess. Besides, I came to the club to have a good time, not crab about a particular gal's relationship status.

    I've seen married dancers feign being single to make themselves more attractive to customers, I've seen single dancers feign being married (or otherwise commited) to chase certain customers away, and I've seen some gals who were either single or married, feign that they are 'divorced' just to have a nice balance between the two.
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    unless everyone has PMed amber, nobody has asked whether or not she has an S.O or not. Is it cuz of ignorance is bliss or you don't care. For me its the latter, an even if she did have an S.O she'd still be my electronic ATF.
    She already told us she had sex with someone on this board LOL It's gotta be an SO
    I don't care either way, as long as she still gives a good dance she could be married for all I care.
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    She already told us she had sex with someone on this board LOL It's gotta be an SO
    I don't care either way, as long as she still gives a good dance she could be married for all I care.
    how do ya know it was an S.O? it could have been a one time thing because amber likes to play the field. not that its any of my business or care if it was lol. Amber, if your on the west coast PM me, I love to be your next play thing.
    whats a PL to do?

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    She already told us she had sex with someone on this board LOL It's gotta be an SO
    Well, who's the lucky guy
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    My guess Amber has a BF or SO or she wouldn't have asked the question. What am I saying??? She askes questions about everything!!! Anyway, there's a fantasy about this business that's important to lots of customers, among them thinking she likes you the best. I know, it doesn't work with a rational mind, but lots of clear-headed thinking disappears in a club. If I were a dancer, I'd never talk about my boyfriend and if asked would twist the question around so I didn't have to answer it in order to preserve the fantasy that the customer is the only guy she's interested in. Like you said, Chuck, you thought it was great when the dancer said, "I'd ditch anyone for you..." I think it's better if the customer doesn't think she has a BF/SO. I'd avoid mentioning yours, Amber, to preserve the fantasy, even though Chuck said he doesn't care. And Porcupine wouldn't have much fun licking the bubbles off if your boyfriend was sitting in the hot tub either.

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    My SO and I would go to the clubs as customers to have fun. We don't care if she's married, single, gay, straight, etc..... We still have fun and that is what's important!

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    I'm not sure of what my reaction would be, but I think I would be not as confortable as before to get dances from her. The point is that I would be thinking at what the SO would think knowing that someone is touching his/her GF. Not sure how would you feel in having a dancer as SO. I know.... some of you would just say "not my problem!"

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    Amber? Do u have a bf? How many dancers would you say have significant others? I would venture to say that 50% of them dont have a SO. What do u think?

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    I'd guess 20% of dancers have SO's who can get them off consistently. No other stat really matters.

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    LOL... Earl's gonna be in the hospital for a while now... took a turn for the worst last night. Outlook doesn't look too good.
    I'm very sad.
    But, I guess it's one less guy for my customers to worry about! LOL
    Luv,
    Amber
    Now Amber, I thought Earl's only love was his kumquat farm and his '66 Ranchero that he drives back and forth between Iowa and Woonsocket. LOL

    Oh well, I guess we all move up a notch!

    Hey, so what if a gal has a 'real life' away from the club, including a SO. I kind of find it rather refreshing that a dancer has other interests in life that don't require gyrating half naked around a pole. What's the ol' dancer saying, "I am not what I do."?
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    Default Re: She's got a what????

    unless everyone has PMed amber, nobody has asked whether or not she has an S.O or not. Is it cuz of ignorance is bliss or you don't care. For me its the latter, an even if she did have an S.O she'd still be my electronic ATF.
    Great new term! Yes, I'd have to say that Amber is my EATF!

    She already told us she had sex with someone on this board LOL It's gotta be an SO
    I don't care either way, as long as she still gives a good dance she could be married for all I care.
    Amber? Do u have a bf? How many dancers would you say have significant others? I would venture to say that 50% of them dont have a SO. What do u think?
    Well, who's the lucky guy
    :o
    On no...this topic again....getting confused. I think I have to go sit down in the corner again. My poor head![frustrated]

    -lestat1
    p.s. Amber, don't you just love us all discussing your lovelife and sexual encounters in a public forum?
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    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    Amber, don't you just love us all discussing your lovelife and sexual encounters in a public forum?
    She loves every minute of it and so don't we
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    Hey guys! She said many times she doesn't have a life! LOL. Do you think she would spend as much time posting if the was an SO around to take care of her every whim?
    When the man says, "I do," it is the happiest day of her life.-Al Bundy

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