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    HI guys! Just finished a really crap ass night at work! PLEASE tell me most of you limit your use of certain "lingo" when speaking to or around us dancers...
    Words to PLEEEEAAAASE avoid:
    Pooper
    Shitter
    Beaver
    Cunt
    Meat
    Can

    I don't know what it is but I just can't get past these terms, even if the guy is TRYING to compliment me....Do any of you regularly use these to dancers and if so is it just to get a rise out of us or are they actually part of your regular vocabulary?
    How can I politely respond but at the same time let on them know it was a bad choice of words?
    I can't ALWAYS just act like an idiot and giggle!

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    "Pooper , Shitter , Beaver ,Cunt , Meat, Can"

    And they were trying to complement you? Geeze, you did have a bad night LMAO
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    Okay, here's the deal. I'll won't use those words if a dancer stops saying

    fuck (in any of its forms)
    shit
    asshole

    (Guys, this is how you negotiate. I never used those words anyway.)

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    Ah Sporty, I like it when a dancer sez fuck!
    Don't make me spank you!

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    How about words like "broke"? [s] $$$ [/s]

    And I don't mean my arm or leg. Although if a guy stiffed the wrong dancer I'm sure she could have that arranged.


    I did use "can" once. But I was just telling the dancer where I was going to pee.
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    I can say thee only word in there that bothers me is pooper.......
    How in the hell is that sexy at all.........
    I think it is so funny to think that someone would use that term and think it will get me all hot and bothered........ Might wanna take a shower after hearing it but thats about it.....
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    Kennedy:

    Those words are definitely not in my SC vocabulary!!! I can't imagine anyone using them when talking to a dancer at all. I agree with Chuck, you did have a bad night.
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    I've seen guys dragged out of a club backwards in a headlock for dropping the "C-bomb". Where are the bouncers in your club?

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    LOL...she said it was meant as a compliment. Soooo when he saw her lips he probably said: Nice cunt." ROTFL...instead of "you f_ing cunt." A distinguishable difference. One would difinitely get you bounced. In either case poor word choices.
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    I don't use them in SC as well as in everydays conversation.

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    I didn't realize that you had to be so damn politically correct to visit a strip club nowadays. I remember saying something rather on the wild side to one of my fav's years ago. I was pretty well gone at the time, just after I said it, I realized how offensive it was. She looked at me with a straight face and said, "you can saw anything you want it doesn't bother me." She meant it too. Her day job was a ER nurse, she was very tough emotionally. I admired her for it.

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    I think political correctness is not something expected in a strip club, but if you are going to talk like that,,, perhaps you should not use it as an opening line but rather feel out what type of woman you are dealing with. If you MUST use this type of *ahem* vocab, use it in the presence of a girl who might not seem to mind. I think you can tell which kind you are speaking to by how she approaches you. I wouldn't disrespect an over weight guy with an opening line like "hey that's some gut on ya! Musta drank a whole lotta beer to get that baby!" I am not saying it's okay for us to be offended by comments on our body etc. , that's a part of the job and frankly, I don't mind it anyway. "Nice ass" is not overwhelmingly flattering if I am not at work, but on the job,,,it's alright, it's a strip club. "Nice pooper" embarrasses the guy saying it more than it offends me. Not to mention it won't get him too far with alot of the dancers.

    I am glad to hear most of you gentlemen agree with me. This is the most dancer-positive men's site I have ever found on the web, and it's great for us dancers to read and pick up info as well, without the typical ranting and flaming and trash-talking of most strip club sites! Thanks guys!

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    Here's some armchair psychoanalyis.
    The guy who says "you have a nice shitter" to a dancer isn't doing it because he thinks it will turn her on - unless he's totally clueless. More likely, he's doing it for the pleasure of talking dirty to a woman and getting away with it. The thrill of breaking a language taboo is more important to such a pinhead than the pleasure of seeing beautiful women naked. The thrill for said dick is in the humiliation he imagines himself subjecting the woman to.

    Go figure.

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    That is one of those mysteries of life! LOL. You will have to ask the next guy that blows on you. LOL. Most seem to think it is a way of touching without touching. Here are 2 pages of answers. http://www.goldclubcenterfolds.com/b...pic.php?t=1554
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    I have found that its really wrong to get into a discourse over Karl Marx's refuting of the "Young Hegelians" in his "German Ideology" with a dancer who subscribes to Hegel's statement that "an individual is a blind link in the chain of absolute necessity, along which the world develops". Thats SUCH a no-no in a strip club.

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    Don't even explain "what you do" in more than two words. My all-time favorite response was, "I don't fuckin get it."... When a dancer says the F word reflexively, I know I can't take her anywhere. I like girls that I can take anywhere (in the figurative sense, of course).

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    Amber -
    Sorry to hear that the conversational skills of the dancers in your club are sub-par. Maybe its just because the music is to loud.

    PJ -
    I find it particularly annoying when one the strippers keep trying to switch philosophical discussions to German. I haven't used it since school. How do you deal with this problem?

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    Kennedy,

    I never talk like that. In fact, there are a bunch of guys from this site that you can tell the way they write that they wouldn't either.

    As far as letting them know they said something stupid, forget about it. We could talk all day on which fire back lines to use. I definitely don't like the giggle and "don't get it" idea. Just look at them with the "what are you stupid??" face. You won't have to say a word.

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    Amber -
    Sorry to hear that the conversational skills of the dancers in your club are sub-par. Maybe its just because the music is to loud.

    PJ -
    I find it particularly annoying when one the strippers keep trying to switch philosophical discussions to German. I haven't used it since school. How do you deal with this problem?
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    Speaking german sh** here.

    Amber - Do you really think I blather on like that at a Strip Club???

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    Ok... so dirty talkers say "nice shitter"... got it... but what about all those guys who blow on a girl's body part that is placed near them... is this just a natural reaction for a guy? I don't get it... help me out here!
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    Hey PJ, great sense of humor!! I got a great giggle fit out of this thread. You are one of those guys that I would sit with all evening for free just to chat and listen to your jokes and witicizims. Unfortunately the guys that like to talk about how great my "hooters" are, are the ones I make the money off of because I am able to cut to the chase immeadately.

    I also understand that there are a certian number of customers that come to the strip clubs just for the privelidge of degrading women. One guy said to my friend that she was just eye candy without any substance. This statement really upset her, especially because this guy was handsome and well groomed.

    I'm going to turn philosophical on ya now... ready??

    I feel that sometimes when the guys at the club start saying such hurtful things to the girls, it is really them reflecting what they feel about themselves. We are their mirror, therefore they project their own flaws on us, the dancer, because we are strangers and about as safe as you can get when it comes to revealing secrets. When I approach my job that way, and LISTEN to what these guys are saying I can not only feel good about myself, I can also help the customer feel better about himself (if only for the moment).

    I am odd in that I can find the silver lining of almost any cloud.


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    <GRIN>

    PJ -
    Thanks. I had to wait until after my co-workers left to sound out what you posted. My reading skills are entirely shot. (Must be due to the low lights in the club.) Keep up the hard work.

    Chuck -
    C'mon guy, we've got to keep in practice. Not all of the Eastern European ladies who start dancing have good learned English yet.

    </GRIN>

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    bitch, slut, whore, white trash lol

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    A group of guys were at the club making asses of themselves in general. The last straw came when one of these guys tried to stiff one of the more popular girls on stage. He said: "You aren't worth my dollar!" That was it. The dancers didn't even wait for the bouncers. They jumped these guys and forced the whole group out of the club before the bouncers knew what happened. LOL.
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    SC's are for fun...I don't know why anybody would cop that kind of attitude...it sucks
    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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