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    Ok, here’s my problem. I’m a 50 plus year old married guy, married over 25 years to the same wonderful woman. Sex with my wife is still great! I can have it anytime I want.
    I’ve been going to strip clubs off and on for 10 years now. But lately it’s more on than off. Up until a year ago, I would go to a club, get some dances, go home and be horney as hell. No harm, no foul.
    But lately, I’ve been living a secret life, spending a lot of money, seeking out dancers who are willing to take things to the next level, those who are willing to meet for dinner and meet in hotel rooms for dancing and fun. I live for my next stripper encounter.
    Now I know some of you are going to find it hard to believe, but I still love my wife. (I think) But I can’t get these strippers out of my head. What’s wrong with me? Is there anyone else out there that is going through the same turmoil as me? What’s the answer? Help!

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    I know what your saying NH. I'm not sure there is anything wrong with you,maybe just something missing? I hope you find the key my friend,and if you do how about tossing it to me when you get done.
    Don't make me spank you!

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    I hate to say it bro but it seems like a mid-life crisis without the shiny new corvette. I aint no shrink but I assume you been living the charmed life too long now and the young ladies are fresh, young and bring new life to you. They make you feel young and full of energy and I bet you like shifting into the fast lane with them. Dancers have always had a way of making me feel good when I'm down, more like a man's man and it gets addicting.
    whats a PL to do?

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    I feel you're pain NH.
    "when it comes to staying young, a mind-lift beats a face-lift any day" ~ Marty Bucella

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    I'd guess you've gotten into a private world of your own that fits your fantasies. I'd also guess you wouldn't want to take your wife to the club, and want to keep it in your own private life. Seems like mid-life to me. You're on a search for something new and exciting that's outside the space of your marriage, but don't want a divorce, still love your wife, but have this new world that allows you to be someone else for a little while, and it can be very seductive. Maybe not addictive, but powerful because it completes a part of you that currently isn't fulfilled. Go with it for a while, and try not to get in too deep. I'd suggest going to as many different clubs as you can and not developing an ATF at any of them because you might fall overboard. It's not a rational world that you're in right now which is OK, but can lead to marriage problems if you allow the seduction of your life in strip clubs to pull you too far. Careful my man. It's way to easy to fall overboard. There is nothing worth losing your good marriage for, and believe me, that can happen if you're not careful. It happened to me. Email me if you want to talk about it more. I've been exactly where it seems you are right now.

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    NOthing wrong with you. your just horny! and thats not a bad thing

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    I wouldn't say there's anything wrong with you, but the guys are probably right about having a midlife crisis. That is a very real thing that can cause problems. You should be very careful not to let it get too out of control like michaeldane said, because if your wife discovers your new habit, it could spell divorce. If you've been married 25 years I'd say you probably don't want to throw that away! This goes beyond being horny - you stated you can have sex with your wife anytime you want and the sex is still good. Midlife crisis is just as real and just as potentially problematic as horrendous PMS and menopause!

    I'd suggest cooling it at the clubs for a while and see what happens, and possibly seeking some type of counseling or just someone you can talk to that might be able to give you some good advice. Also if you're spending loads of money (sounds like you are) that could be a problem all on its own - nothing is worth putting yourself in a financial mess and risking your marriage.

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