Let's face it, if you're at a site called Stripclub Junkies, you're either a regular or would like to be; here's some friendly advice from an old hand.
Location, location, location:
Pick a club close to home or near to work, it sounds obvious but if you want to be a regular you need to stop regularly even if it's only for an hour after work.
Size the club to your wallet:
Clubs come in all sizes and price ranges; pick one you can afford to go to on a regular basis. How can you be a regular if you spend your monthly allotment in one visit?
Check your attitude at the door:
Dancers are there to entertain you, not to take your crap, they deserve the same respect you'd give to anyone else. Will dancers dance for a jerk, you bet as long as you pay well; will you get better dances if you treat them with respect, ABSOLUTELY!
Personality goes a long way:
What's yours like? Do you sit there staring at every set of boobs that walks by or do you try to have conversations with the girls? Friendly customers generate friendly dancers; smile, say hi, thank them for the dance, being nice costs nothing and goes a long way.
Learn their names:
I don't mean just your favorite dancer; people like being called by their names (and yes I know most have stage names, doesn't matter); it shows you have noticed them and let's face it, lot's of dancers like to be noticed. Even if she's not your cup of tea, saying "No thanks, Courtney" sounds better than just "No thanks". Don't forget the bartenders or the waitresses, they are more attentive if you establish a rapport with them.
Money talks, and bullsh*t walks:
Tip, tip and tip again; everyone in the club works for tips, this is how they pay their bills. How would you like it if your paycheck was less than expected because your boss didn't care for the outfit you were wearing. Bring enough cash to cover the time you spend there, don't blow your wad and sit there for two hours nursing a Coke and staring at free tits! Bartenders and waitresses also work for tips, not only is it the right thing to do, but they will often tell the girls what a great customer you are; this will get you more frequent dances and the girls will approach you with a better attitude. If you can't afford to do this, find a cheaper club or stay home!
Get to know some of the other regulars:
Believe it or not, lots of decent guys go to strip clubs, not just loser pervs. I've met a lot of great guys, started a pool league team out of my club and play poker with a couple. Regulars know the club and know the girls, they can warn you about the bad eggs and introduce you to bartenders, managers etc. The more people you know in a club the better service you'll get.
Remember, friendly, polite and generous!
So, why become a regular; the same reason you become a regular at a bar, it's just more fun! Who doesn't like going to a place where everyone knows your name, what you drink and what you like to talk about. One of my favorite reasons is that I love the stories I hear, when you become a trusted regular dancers will tell you all kinds of interesting things. Just remember, if they share personal stories about themselves, a customer or a coworker it's between you and them; if you blab it all over, they won't talk to you again. I've had bartenders and dancers throw me a little birthday celebration the last two years in a row, who wouldn't enjoy that? Likeable regulars get better service and better dances and you might even make a couple new friends!



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I go the same area on business at least once a month and spend a week. I found a local club that I visit at least 2 or 3 times in that week and am now considered a "regular". I have found a "special" girl. She e-mails her schedule and I plan my trips so I can see her when I'm there. I only do LD's with her, and all the other girls know it, but I always tip each girl evertime they go by, even if I'm sitting and talking with my "special" girl. This really goes a long way in making my trips to this club special. I also leave a good tip for the bar maids. This assures that after my 1/2 hour LD with my "special" girl, my drink is still on the bar and my seat is saved. On occasion, my "special" girl is not there but I'm never lacking for attention. Several of the girls will ask me to dance with them. Become a "regular" follow Dharmabaum's advice and your trips to strip clubs will become more enjoyable. Rock On!!!!







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