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    What do you girls think when a guy ejaculates when your giving a lapdance in the back? and can you girls notice it if the guy doesnt say anything or if you cant see anything?

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    Hey VIP, I would guess they notice LOL

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    LMAO! I don't think it would take a rocket scientist to figure it out. Let's see hard and dry to soft and wet. What coulda happened? Doh!!!

    Someone posted this same question under the name Jack Car I believe. Jack somthing eruther anyway. A couple serious answers and a few that ripped him pretty good. I believe the consensus was the guy is a F'ning asshole.
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    Well, let's see........I'd be really disgusted [puke] and if the guy should happen to get anything on me......I'd probably kick his ass. [devil]
    Just curious here, but did you honestly expect a dancer to say that they really like having a stranger release their bodily fluids around them? Did you think we'd be pleased and excited by the prospect? ???

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    I used to think it was kind of like a janitor cleaning toilets. Yeah, they're disgusting, no the janitor doesn't enjoy it; but it's a job, and you get used to it. Maybe not though, huh? Kind of like how for some women, they couldn't dance on a stranger's lap and would be all "euww," but for women who've danced for a while it seems to be more like "oh well, just another night on the job."

    Allright, I'll admit to being a little confused about this issue for a couple of reasons. First, if for whatever reason (condom, lots of layers tucked in, thick underwear, etc.) the customer's pants stay dry and clean on the outside even after an accident; does that significantly cut down on the "euww" factor or only a little (i.e. doesn't make a difference)? I would think if it's not getting on you (which I totally understand is disgusting and a health issue) that it wouldn't be that problematic.

    Secondly, maybe the clubs around here are a little different (they are a bit pricey: $40-50/song) but their goal seems to be to "grind the guy off." I once bought two laps from a dancer and at the end she remarked "Gee, you're not quick," commenting that I hadn't cum yet. Other times I've been told at the end of a couple songs "Do you want another or are you all set now?" and in the context of the conversation it was clear she meant am I all "finished" and don't need any more songs. It just seems like these dancers were expecting me to "finish," and while I'm sure they weren't thrilled about it, it seemed like they accepted it as just part of the job.

    So I guess I'm just confused between the consensus online here and at SW, and my experiences with a majority of the dancers in the clubs around me...

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    Lestat1:

    Your clubs sound quite different than most. Evidently, you get the full grind and contact throughout the songs. BB actually talked about lapdance liners which facilitate getting off.

    SF being an exception where everything and anything is available, Sac. is quite tame. I mean 5 seconds on. 5 off. A mixture of one way contact and full nude air. Tough to finish under those circumstances. Although one girl told a story about this 18 year old cumming as soon as she took off her top. LOL. Air dance all the way after that.
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    If you really want to finish during a dance with a girl who's not a "mileage" dancer, just accidently spill some of your drink at the same time. Be apologetic for spilling some of your drink, and I don't think her dances will change after that. It might be best to wear dark colored pants and a long shirt.

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    Well N/A, actually it should be N/B for no balls to register.
    I hope your drink is warm, cause she'll be able to tell the difference, believe me :o
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    So I guess I'm just confused between the consensus online here and at SW, and my experiences with a majority of the dancers in the clubs around me...

    -lestat1

    For the most part, dancers who post on dancer-specific boards like the old - is it still there? - Exotic Dancer Forum and SW are there to vent. Dancers who are comfortable in dealing directly - at a fabric level - with the bonerific nature of male sexuality have little reason to join in the splooge-bashing.
    Of course, each dancer is free to set her own limits and deal with her job as she sees fit, and guys need to respect those limits. Luckily, you and I don't have to buy dances from the internet "ick" girls - we can go to our local clubs and fight off the offers. So don't worry about vomiting Smiley faces, an orgasm is just a paycheck away.

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    Gotta agree with bostonboy and lestat. Where I go the dancers all seem to want to accomodate, as long as you dont get it on them. Of course none of them post on these boards! And if they do post, they put up a good front and stay "hush hush"

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    I used to think it was kind of like a janitor cleaning toilets. Yeah, they're disgusting, no the janitor doesn't enjoy it; but it's a job, and you get used to it.
    This has always been my impression also. If a dancer is good at her job it is unfortunately (or fortunately depending upon how some people look at it) going to happen from time to time, any dancer should know that when they start dancing.

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    You're right about if the guy is wearing a condom or a thick pair of pants with boxers or something underneath..............it obviously wouldn't bother me if I didn't know about it.
    My earlier post was more directed to when a guy cums in the open (i.e when it has a chance of getting on me or the chair or the floor, etc.) comming into contact with someone else's bodily fluids is a very unsafe thing to do. (not to mention disgusting)

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    You're right about if the guy is wearing a condom or a thick pair of pants with boxers or something underneath..............it obviously wouldn't bother me if I didn't know about it.
    My earlier post was more directed to when a guy cums in the open (i.e when it has a chance of getting on me or the chair or the floor, etc.) comming into contact with someone else's bodily fluids is a very unsafe thing to do. (not to mention disgusting)

    Needless to say, health comes first and *all* contact involving precious bodily fluids should be entirely voluntary.
    But a follow-up. What if he covers up properly as you suggest and you *do* know about it. Would that bother you?

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    Yeah, it probably would. Like I said in another thread I'm a pretty big germ freak. And although it might not be touching me, if I know it's there......it's going to gross me out.

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    P.S. That's not to say that I don't, in some respect, take it as a compliment. If he's cumming then I'm obviously giving a super dance.........honestly though, I'd just prefer a guy to say "great dance." And that probably comes from (just as much as the health risk/gross factor) the reason why I started the thread on lesbian dancers. If you put sexuality on a scale of 1-10 with 1 being completely and totally hetero and 10 being totally lesbo then I probably rank about a 9.8.
    Which may also have something to do with why I'm a little grossed out by sperm.

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    . If you put sexuality on a scale of 1-10 with 1 being completely and totally hetero and 10 being totally lesbo then I probably rank about a 9.8.
    In for a penny, in for a pound. Time to dump the 0.2.

    Which may also have something to do with why I'm a little grossed out by sperm.
    Apparently, a significant fraction of escorts are lesbians. I figure that since semen is totally divorced from sexuality in their minds, it just becomes "stuff".

    No claim to understanding the lesbo mind here... just musing.

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    I don't think in all fairness I could dump the.02.........my boyfriend might be really pissed about that, lol. The .02 is there to account for him. Only once in a great while do I ever come across a man that I am truly attracted to. I've met lots of guys who I think are attractive men, but almost none that I am personally attracted to.........after all........boobies are so much nicer

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    if you two like boobs, you'd love me. i happen to have a great rack myself ;-) lol. i realy dont see anything wrong with getting off...but i would out of curtessy for the girl just mention to her BEFOR you cum that you're about to, so she can decide whats best for her...ive found in my experiece, most keep grinding anyway. and ive NEVER had a girl get mad at me for cumming.

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