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    I've mentioned that I haven't set foot in a SC in over 9 months but I find myself wanting to get back into the game again. My last junket with my then ATF (well she was actually far beyond an ATF) developed way beyond the norms of customer/dancer relationship. It eventually bombed out with lots of scars all over me (and maybe a few on her I dont know) Anyways, I would appreciate some advise on how to develop the proper mindset so that I can have some fun and not go off the deep end lol I'd be a sucker for another 5' tall,tanned, curly haired beauty. If you throw in green eyes it would be deja vous all over again lol [love]
    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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    FBR – It’s easy to fall for these wonderful ladies. You have some experience (albeit bad) under your belt. Learn by it. Don’t make the same mistakes. Put it all in perspective, they want your money, not you!
    Trust me; they make it difficult not to believe they are interested in you, that’s their job, to provide the fantasy that you’re willing to pay for.
    If you’ve got a lot of free cash to spend, share the wealth, don’t rush out and get another ATF.

    At least not right away LMAO
    "when it comes to staying young, a mind-lift beats a face-lift any day" ~ Marty Bucella

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    Well... you can always turn down their phone number and e-mail addy when they offer. LOL. I'd say make fewer visits. I already know that doesn't work. You just spend more each visit to compensate.
    When the man says, "I do," it is the happiest day of her life.-Al Bundy

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    FBR,
    Maybe you can go with friends,they can help you get back into it. Did you find you got in trouble by yourself? I do...
    Don't make me spank you!

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    FBR: If you go to a stripclub looking for an empty wallet and a broken heart you will surely find those things....If you go looking to have some fun, socialize with some beautiful woman and relax you will find those things as well. I've been on both sides of it and found the best way to avoid making a fool of yourself is to keep perspective on why these women are here-it's fun for us, it's work for them-remember? I used to be a one woman man in clubs and found that to be very dangerous as well. Any relationship that is based on momey first should be connsidered a business relationship in most cases. I have an ATF but I also have several other girls that I spend on regularly. If you limit your spending and your time to just one woman you will start to place unrealistic expectations on both the dancer and yourself.
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    If you’ve got a lot of free cash to spend, share the wealth, don’t rush out and get another ATF.
    If you limit your spending and your time to just one woman you will start to place unrealistic expectations on both the dancer and yourself.
    The above sounds like a great way to ease yourself back into SC's. Spread your money around on many different dancers, don't go to the same club on every visit.

    To help with your mindset, don't buy into all the stripper shit, realize it is work for the dancer, they are there to make money, you are there to have a good time, end of story. Here's what I do, I also always ask myself, would this girl be giving me the time of day outside of the club without money being in the equation, and more often than not the answer is no, I realize this and and I'm fine with it, it makes it that much easier for me to check my emotions at the door.


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    You guys have been giving me so insightful advise...I appreciate it! I've missed clubbing so maybe its time to stick my toe in the water again damn that sounds kinky lol
    Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.

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    Only get dances from the fat ugly annoying women who smell bad... That'll ensure you don't get into the same trouble. :-)

    Besides, it leaves the pretty ones for me.

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    blue...I'll just drink 6 beers and take off my glasses lol I'm not sure how to deal with the smell thing tho hahaha
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    This is sooooo perverse! Here we have a recovering "Stripperholic" who has been on the wagon for months an he is asking certified junkies for advice. And we are trying to hook him again. Like we could kick the habit anytime we want. LOL. Yeah right! Yoda gave some great advice! I do have a problem with the spreading the money around. Why take a chance on getting maybe what you want when you can get exactly what you want every time by using the same girl?

    Kinda like having a choice between premium champagne and MD 20-20, paying the same price and taking the Mad Dog. Okay. Okay. Maybe a slight exageration. LOL. There are plenty of other hotties.

    I would say if you do find one girl you like, just use the reality factor. She has your phone number and email right. Does she call just to talk when she knows a visit is two weeks away? Does she write just because she likes getting your replies? Does she spend time with you off the clock outside the club? Slap yourself. It is just business. The better she does her job, the more real it will seem. I love my ATF. I'm not "in love" with her. Enough money changes hands that I know that is all it is. After a particularlly good visit, I do have to remind myself, even slap myself a couple of times to keep things in perspective.
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    This is sooooo perverse! Here we have a recovering "Stripperholic" who has been on the wagon for months an he is asking certified junkies for advice. And we are trying to hook him again.
    LOL, I think were called enablers.

    I do have a problem with the spreading the money around. Why take a chance on getting maybe what you want when you can get exactly what you want every time by using the same girl?
    I understand your point but sometimes history repeats itself, it would seem to me that should he find another ATF chances are much higher that he would run into a similar situation.

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