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    Default Do you call guys "sweetie" and do they like it?

    Just curious about how many of you dancers call your customers (or any guys at the clubs) "sweetie" and do you think they really like that? Why do you call them that?

    Personally, I absolutely HATE being called "sweetie" (and, no, it's not because I'm a sour-puss!) . The term just seems so demeaning and vacuous and phoney (and, at the very least, it's an overworked term).

    And what about you customers? Do you enjoy being called "sweetie"?

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    Ya I like it. But only when my ATF say's it
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    Ya I like it. But only when my ATF say's it
    Ditto
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    doesn't matter to me what they call me as long as it's not asshole or cheap bastard. (that would be a lie or a very late truth). come to think of it I wouldn't appriciate being called gay either, which was never the case.
    whats a PL to do?

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    I don't like it even from my GF (when I date one).

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    They call me honey, I call them darlin'. Hard to complain about a girl half my age showing me her coochiel.

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    doesn't bother me. i think its stupid if ive never seen the girl before and she just starts reffering to me as that...atleast wait till ive gotten a dance!!! but after that sweety, hun/ey, sexy, hot piece of ass with a huge cock, i like it all.

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    I don't use it dancing, but when I bartend, everyone is Baby, for the most part, then bebe, sweetie ect.

    I don't use then dancing though, only behind the bar, and guys will tease me that, hey, you just called me baby, and now he is your baby....I need to get there attetion alot of times to know what they want to drink, or give then thier change( I never leave it on the bar) so I use those terms alot back there..... Licks Cyn
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    I call guys "sweetie" all the time, especially when they are in the process of giving me money for dances. ("Oh, thank you sweetie...") At this point it is a force of habit and I never really thought about whether they like it or not. Most of the time I call them sweetie b/c I forgot their real name.

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    [email protected] I thought sweetie was common place for all dancers so they did not have to remember names.

    After 3 months I had to ask my ATF to start using my name. I figured after that much time and money she should know my name and use it.
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    Now that I think about it, I'm pretty sure that I probably use surgary terms of endearment like that all the time and with just about everyone. Guys and girls alike. It just seems to fly out of my mouth without my thinking about it. And although I guess I do use those terms for guys I don't know or havn't danced for before, I don't really consider it to be phony or contrived. I guess because when you are putting someone on, most people watch what they say and script their conversation carefully. I try not to think too hard about what I say to people. (except for the "cheap bastards" and "asshole" comments. I do try to keep those to myself)

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    I'm a first-name kind of guy and my ATF has never called me a generic name. I guess that's unusual.

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    I have no problem with it. It's just a little more personal form of address made to a total stranger. Female bartenders I have worked with over the years have called guys that, and it always seemed okay. It makes things a little more personal without getting too personal, which is good for any inter-personal business. Thats what I personally think, personally

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    Interesting point, because when I'm alone with my ATF, she always wants me to use her real name.

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    Interesting point, because when I'm alone with my ATF, she always wants me to use her real name.
    I like to use a ladys stage name when in the club. It keeps the fantasy going.
    If I have any contact outside the club, I prefer to use a ladies real name. It kinda keeps the friendship and the fantasy separate.
    As I said before, Sweetie, Babe or Darling is fine with me.
    Actually I love they way those southern bells say "Darlin".. I think it’s sexy
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    Well I like being called by any of those little terms of endearment. But every once in a while the dancer should call you by your real name (just to prove she remembers it). Otherwise I think she just doesn't know my name and then it's not sweet, it's just a cover-up.
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    Default Re: Do you call guys "sweetie" and do th

    My ATF and a few favs call me by my name or a few non-generic pet names that we have for each other. I also tend to refer to them by their real names when no one else is around. The "sweetie" thing doesn't bother me since I'm not going to be talking to that girl for any longer than it takes to turn her down....
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    I don't mind it. Some people use it when they forget my name even when I was just talking to them the week before. I think only my ATF really uses my first name maybe a few more but that's it.

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