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    When you're looking for an ATF... or even just a dancer to give ya a lap dance/air dance... how do you go about choosing her?
    How closely do you pick a dancer than you would pick a girlfriend in real life? Do you look for a girl with the same expectations you would if you were looking for a relationship?... are these expectations higher or lowere in real life?
    A couple of us discussed this in a chat once and I thought I'd bring it up for those of you who did not honor us with your presence! lol
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    Although I can't say that I have ever really had an ATF, per se, I have had some memorable dances with dancers who I have gone back to see again.

    For me, I tend to be one of those gullible types (I probably shouldn't admit this, but...) who tends to go for the first nice attractive girl who comes up to me (given a situation where I'm not waiting to see a particular dancer....). For me I don't like to wait around a long time for the "right" opportunity to arise...I've found that if a good opportunity arises I should take it because you don't know how long it will be until the next one comes... If you wait around you may be disappointed.

    If an attractive girl takes the incentive to notice my presence, comes up to me and chat and asks me for a dance, I'm usually willing to give it a whirl. It's kind of how it works say in car sales (or any sales position)...if you take notice of the customer before the other salespeople, show him a car he likes, and get him into a test drive, there's a great chance you will sell him that car. It's important to make the sale immediately-- strip club goers, like car buyers, buy on impulse.

    The smart dancers can make the rounds and get to as many customers as possible while also making them feel comfortable enough that they'll want to do a "test drive" and "buy the car". If they especially liked your personality and service...they'll do repeat business and recommend you to their friends....

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    Basically I pick a dancer to get a dance from after getting a scouting report on her! I see how long her dances last (usually the longer the dance, the better she is), if I can somehow get a peak of her private dance, I will use my eyes as judgement. And finally, talk to the other customers. I will never get a dance from someone that is new. That is sort of like buying a car. You dont buy the model the first year it comes out, so they have time to get the bugs out! LOL
    As far as picking out a g/f, it is like apples and oranges! A dancer you want to most mileage to get a good bang for the buck! A g/f you want to get along with as it isnt just physical.

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    There are a lot of variables as to whether a lady becomes an ATF and they are all in her control. Although the first encounter was initiated by me after finding her very attractive… nice smile, beautiful hair, great ass with a body to go with it and asking her for a dance, the rest was up to her.
    1.She gave a sexy and sensual dance, made lots of eye contact and smiled as if she was really enjoying herself.
    2.She spent a few minutes chatting after the dances and didn’t just run to the dressing room.
    3.She made eye contact with me during her stage set and made me feel she was dancing for me.
    4.After the set, she made it a point to sit with me and chat for a few more minutes, actually more than just a few, it was a slow night. Our conversations were pleasant and fun, we laughed and found that we had mutual interests. This of course led to another sexy and sensual dance. This time she asked me what I liked in the way of dances and changed her dance style just for me.
    5.She gave me her addy and told me to let her know when I was coming in again.
    6.She Actually answered my e-mail (wow what novel idea) with genuine conversation.
    7.Each time I went to the club, things just got better than the time before.

    And an ATF was born!
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    For me, I tend to be one of those gullible types (I probably shouldn't admit this, but...) who tends to go for the first nice attractive girl who comes up to me (given a situation where I'm not waiting to see a particular dancer....). For me I don't like to wait around a long time for the "right" opportunity to arise...I've found that if a good opportunity arises I should take it because you don't know how long it will be until the next one comes... If you wait around you may be disappointed.
    I too have gone home from the club kicking myself because I didn't get a dance with the fine looking gal who asked me for a dance 10 minutes after getting there, thinking she'd be back after I declined with a "maybe later" that I REALLY meant.
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    The smart dancers can make the rounds and get to as many customers as possible while also making them feel comfortable enough that they'll want to do a "test drive" and "buy the car". If they especially liked your personality and service...they'll do repeat business and recommend you to their friends....
    Which is great if the smart dancer gets to you. I've gone on nights where a dancer gets so busy with customers that she can't make the rounds because one or two high rollers have tied her up for the next two hours. I'm sure some of the SW gals have confessed to having a night where despite their best efforts they couldn't get to a few people before the club closed of the customer just got tired of waiting.
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    I'm not an ATF kind of guy, but when looking for a girl to give me a dance I'm very shallow, it's all about physcial attraction, it is a strip club afterall, she could be the nicest girl in the club but if she's not my type I won't be getting dances from her, this is obviously not how I go about choosing a G/F, where although looks are important it's not the end all.

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    When you're looking for an ATF... or even just a dancer to give ya a lap dance/air dance... how do you go about choosing her?
    It's accidental.

    My current ATF had me when she said "Hello. Would you like a dance?"

    I hadn't even noticed her in the club up until that point. Although granted, if the conversation and the dance hadn't been to my liking I would not have done a second dance.

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    Well, getting my ATF just kinda fell into place. She just came up and started to talk with me. I thought she was such a bad ass. I bought a dance from her. And she's been my ATF ever since.

    As for what I look for a dance. Friends is first of course. People I knew outside the club I go for it. I go for the hot new girl that never danced in her life. I seem to have lots of fun. And anybody I pretty much find hot. I don't go for "Do you want a dance?" Eventhough, I did last night because I was in a really good mood. And I'm glad that I did. I always wanted one from her. She definitely is one of my favorites. I don't know my club is very strange. The extremely hot ones are really really quiet do really talk to anyone. Don't hussle for nothing.

    I'd guess my ATF would be my ideal GF. There's maybe a total of 2 people she actually trusts and honest with. I happen to be one of them.

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    I met the really hot ones sit in a corner and don't talk to anyone.

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    Both my ATF's just flat out knocked my socks off and made my tongue hang out when I saw them on stage. It was like: Daymn!!! I gotta get some dances from her!!! Once I got the dances, their personalities were the determining factors in going to ATF status. The 3rd top money earner from me was the one who approached me cold. She won me over with her personality before I got dances. Most of the girls I pick solely on looks for dances. After that whether we click and connect determines whether there are more.
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    Someone with eyes that will melt iceburgs
    Don't make me spank you!

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    Heres how I break it down. I don't have an ATF so the selection process goes on often everytime i go to a club.
    Ok first off, I do research, finding out what she looks like on a website or something. Then I go deep into the archives to find out her history and try to guage her to find out her quarks and personality traits. If all things look good from the intel, its time to put in the field time.

    Inside the club I only have limited resources and so I try to limit them to around three girls. Who is the lucky three? Well a general rule of thumb for me is 70looks/20personality/10misc(x-factor). All of this is weighted to my subjective tastes so, if a dancer looks like a ten, but is boring and we don't click she is only a mere 7.

    X-factor plays a big role in the selection process especially if there are a lot of girls that I like on that particular day. It could be a new perfume, a new outfit, new hairstyle or just a new person, anything to catch my eye.
    whats a PL to do?

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