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    Default Would you ever tell?

    I am asked often to go beyond my call of duty...
    I always respond with a smile and a, "But that's against the rules here..." (for the first time anyways, then it's... lol) and I usually get... "I won't tell if you don't" (or "rules are meant to be broken... but that's irrelevent right now! )
    If a girl does go past the legality or acceptable rules... would you ever mention it to anyone?

    Luv,
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    Default Re: Would you ever tell?

    There are certain things i dont tell people. However, with regards to posting things online, whenever i speak of extras ive gotten i never mention the dancers name(actualy will only mention her name with regards to dances saying, "i got dances today with dancer Y. shes hot" or something to that extent.) and i also rarely even mention the club. im smart enough to realize that by telling people about extras ive recieved may lead to more scrutiny of the club or the girl...possibly even the girl getting in trouble. if this occurs, my chances of getting simmillar treatment from her or others in the future dramatically goes down. plus id feel bad about getting her in trouble...not to mention the fact that its just not polite. i may describe what type of dance a dancer gives, but believe it or not, i know when to shut my trap.

    in summary. yes, but i dont mention where and most importantly who.

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    Default Re: Would you ever tell?

    Amber, what are you thinking here Are you trying to get me up to Woonsocket?

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    Default Re: Would you ever tell?

    Ok Amber you asked for it. I'm gonna tell everyone here about your Extras.


    You're -
    Extra intelligent
    Extra Beautiful
    Extra fine dancer
    Extra sensual
    Extra considerate of the customer

    and your extra special!!!

    There I told and those are the only kind of extras I talk about
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    Ok Chuck, when are you coming back down to NJ? LMAO

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    Default Re: Would you ever tell?

    that was cute, Chuck.

    Amber, every club has its official rules when it comes to what's legal and what isn't... they have to. but every club is different on how willing they are to enforce those rules. most clubs do turn a blind eye to rule breaking especially if it's a boarderline break. you could probably get away with boarderline rule breaking in most clubs as long as you're discreet. discression is the key. if it's too obvious, those people that are offended by it, either dancers or customers, are going to be pissed, and management would have a difficult time "overlooking" the indescression.

    despite what some people may believe, there's always a certain amount of rule breaking going on in just about every club. there's really an art to pushing the envelope even in front of other people where it's so well hidden that even those people looking for it aren't quite sure if they're seeing a no-no or not.

    be attentive to what's going on around you. after awhile you'll get a jist of what sort of rule breaking is going on, how much and how management deals with it. for the sake of your job, though, don't try pushing limits until you're a lot more aware of what's really going on in your club and how violaters are dealt with... breaking the rules isn't worth losing your job for. realize that crossing the line is like walking a tightrope... it could either work for you or against you, and you have to be willing to accept whatever happens should it go wrong.

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    why would any guy tell. I understand when guys push rules and the girl doesn't like it. But from a guy standpoint he has no reason to tell, I mean if he didn't want her advances then she stops, plain and simple. That would be funny site to see a guy storm out of VIP and complain to Mgr saying that the girl was way outta line shoving her boobs in his face and grabbing his crotch.
    whats a PL to do?

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    Coolshot,

    Not all dancers are as well behaved as the ones you've met. Sometimes, just like the guys, the ladies don't understand that "No" means no. Either that, or they just don't make a practice of listening to what the customers say.

    Luckily, some non-verbal means of communication have worked for me in these situations. I've never had to get management involved.

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    Nice post Chuck! [clap]

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    Default Re: Would you ever tell?

    Sweetie, if you are beautiful you don't have to do extras! Now, if you want to that is a different story, LOL
    I think some guys tell and some don't. There are some boards online that mention dancers names and where they work. I know of a couple of clubs in my town where everyone knows what goes on so if you work at a club like that you are already deemed an extras girl.

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    I normally find one or two dancers at the clubs I go to and do 95% of my lapdances with them. Whatever happens between me and the girls is always strictly between me and the girls. Like sander8some, I may discuss things more specifically on this board, but I would never mention a dancer's name or the club she works in on this board, which is why I haven't answered Amber's request to know who we are. I've already posted some things on here before she asked, and wouldn't want to disclose where or who those things pertain to. And I agree with Chuck's comments verbatim. You're a lucky guy to know a girl with Amber's intelligence and gleeful personality, Chuck.

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    Well when I first read this post I interpreted as telling on her for doing something you didn't like but if you taliking about telling people what ya did with a dancer, then it happens alot. SFredbook is site dedicated to all forms of prostitution; escorts,message parlors and street action. But there is a section on SC's and the guys there pretty much post a trip report and include a play by play reveiw of the girls. I lurk there sometimes to find out whos who in an unfamilar club. I don't post cuz I don't have anything to contribute about the extras and the girls that provide them. Usually the posts are about a 411 on so and so and inquiring about services available and prices. If a dancer has done extras chances are there is a review somewhere on a board.
    whats a PL to do?

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    I would come out of the room.And announce " just got a BJ from that girl...!!!" " coure no one in the club would talk to me after that...
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    Thank-you for your concern... ... I do appreciate it... but maybe with my question, I have put forth an incorrect image... I am not looking to do extra's... this was just a question I had since alot of guys somehow think if they say they won't tell, it's gonna make me wanna do them... which led me to think if someone says they won't tell, then there will be someone out there that would... and Mike has come through and confirmed my suspision.
    most guys will tell someone. let's face it, guys do like the bragging rights. maybe they'll only tell their closest friend, but even still, word gets around. i hardly think there's many guys that would feel the urge to make some kind of public announcement.

    my guess is that those guys that are trying to convince you to do more then what's allowed by saying they won't tell, is to see if you're only reason for not doing those things anyway is the risk of getting fired. it's a stupid thing to say though... what guy is going to march up to the manager and say their dancer of choice broke the rules unless they're an undercover cop?

    There are alot of things that "appear" to go on at my club, but all the girls say, "I don't do that!" Just trying to figure out the likelyhood of the situation... if that makes sense to you!
    makes perfect sense. and if you're seeing things that "appear" to be happening, chances are they probably are. that's a perfect example of the discression matter i brought up... dancers learn how to be so discreet that even when you're looking at it you still can't really tell if the line is being crossed.

    incidently, i wasn't necessarily talking about extras as in HJ, BJ, etc. those kinds of acts are a whole lot harder to hide in a public setting, if it could really be hidden at all. what i meant about breaking the rules mostly is those things that your club doesn't allow... like boob touching for instance. clearly, this is against the rules at your club, but you better believe, girls are allowing it. certainly not all of them, but at least some. since it's against the rules, they're probably going out of their way to be discreet about it and management just "overlooks" it when they do see something that "appears" to be a no-no. but it would be difficult for them to "overlook" booby touching if it was a full on blatant breast examination clear for anyone that looks to see.

    girls who break rules blatantly are usually the ones that management has a problem with, not necessarily just girls who break the rules. like i said, discression is key.

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    I was going to say that ASPD is another place where guys talk about their strip club experiences. About a year ago, though, I stopped posting dancer's names even if they were very "clean" dancers...it seemed just about any dancer I named would quickly gain popularity and keep me from enjoying their company for more than a few minutes at a time. Now I use goofy nicknames like Redhead Kryptonite, The Undercover Freak, Super Freak, Protein Shakes, Miss Not-So-Naughty-Schoolgirl, and so on and so forth. In order for me to give a guy their real names, I have to have met them personally and trust them. Like I said, popularizing a dancer for what she does (especially if she's "breaking" any rules) just doesn't sit with me too well anymore. What can I say, I'm a selfish bastard.
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    I figure what goes on between a dancer and a customer is almost like attorney/client privilage. You don't discuss details of dances or pricing arrangements except in very general terms.
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    I've told on dancers for several reasons: 1) One told other dancers in the dressing room that she did really bad things with me in champagne. She wanted to scare them away, so I told the dancers I liked what really happened. 2) Another dancer consistently grabbed me, offered HJ's, and wouldn't stop. She sold pee in beer cans as well, so I ratted her out to a bouncer. She got caught in the HJ act and fired. Lots of dancers thanked me.

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    I very rarely get dances with dancer who do not know me well. To Know me is to know that I in no way accept any illegal extras, and that I am a consummate rule follower. The rules say no touching somewhere, then I don't touch there. If a dancer guides my hands in the off limits areas, of course I am not going to say anything. I have built a trust with a number of dancers that they are safe with me, and for my part I don’t built up a relationship with a dancer who would have a proclivity for extras. If a new dancer offers HJs, BJs or sex for money outside of the club, I WILL say something to someone. Those sort of things will eventually threaten the existence of my favorite clubs, and the livelihood (and maybe police record) of dancers who I consider friends. Will I run crying foul to management? Nope. Will I mention it on the side to another dancer who I trust? Yup. I would rather see one person get fired than the whole thing get fucked because of it. Maybe my story will get management to watch her closely, which will hopefully make her stop or, if neccessary, get her fired (and I would rather see her stop than get fired).

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    Wouldn't tell anyone...none of their business...it's not my place to interfere. That's the management's job, not mine. I think if someone breaks the rules, that's their choice...who am I to snitch on them??

    Of course if anyone broke the rules w/ me....I'd post it on here explicitly for everyone and their Uncle Fred to read...esp. if it was Amber...J/K!!!!!!


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    Men tell war stories, and what is the relationship between the sexes if not a form of war. (BTW - I'm not a cynic, just a realist)

    Bragging about what happened, (so she takes off her shirt...), about what didn't happen (...in her mouth...), and what ain't ever gonna happen (And, then, she paid me for the dances), is part of the mythos of being male.

    We're not hunters anymore, most of us don't skydive, climb mountains, or wrestle alligators, so we need to speak of some exploits that make us seem larger than life.

    And what better adversary to conquer, even if only in our own minds, than the opposite sex.

    As long as no names or locations are mentioned, and no one gets in trouble, what harm?

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    Bragging about what happened, (so she takes off her shirt...), about what didn't happen (...in her mouth...), and what ain't ever gonna happen (And, then, she paid me for the dances), is part of the mythos of being male.
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