Results 1 to 15 of 15

Thread: Competition amongst dancers

  1. #1
    Senior Member Joe12601's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2003
    Location
    New york
    Posts
    156
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Competition amongst dancers

    I just mentioned this on my Joker Poker threadd and wanted to carry it out a little further.

    Is the competition amongst dancers over money or is it more than that ? Everybody loves an ego stroke.

    Watch our ATFs expression if you tell her your getting a dance with someone else.

    Ladies..if you get a dance with someone elses regular do you mention it??

    And is thier a coompetiton between guys? I think so.. Do we really love the attention or do we love the act that we're getting it as oppsed to the pl sitting next to you.
    "I'd rather die when I'm living, than live when I'm dead..."
    Jimmy Buffet

  2. #2
    God/dess
    Joined
    Apr 2003
    Location
    Renaissance City
    Posts
    3,343
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    Dancers compete for desirable guys, and guys compete for desirable dancers.... For dancers it's about multiple objectives: money, fun, attention and affection. If a dancer has a boring loser who talks for four hours and gives her $600, dancers won't compete for him. I've seen dancers give boring regulars to other dancers.... On the other hand, if a guy is tall, good-looking, athletic and fun to be with, dancers will compete for him if he spends $100.

  3. #3
    Featured Member Chuck149's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2002
    Location
    Massachusetts
    Posts
    1,231
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    Well in my case 2 out 4 ain't bad Plus I spend a lot more than $100
    "when it comes to staying young, a mind-lift beats a face-lift any day" ~ Marty Bucella

  4. #4
    Veteran Member
    Joined
    Jul 2002
    Posts
    400
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 12 Times in 2 Posts

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    Is the competition amongst dancers over money or is it more than that ? Everybody loves an ego stroke.
    rarely is it about anything else other then money... not just money right then but possible income loss from that customer in the future.

    i wouldn't bother competing at work for ego strokes.

    Ladies..if you get a dance with someone elses regular do you mention it??
    it depends on the dancer. if i feel that the particular dancer would have a problem with it and possibly cause trouble for me, i'll mention it, but other then that, no. i'm of the belief that a customer can spend their money on whoever they please, and if they want a dance from me, i'm not going to ask anyone's permission. since i also feel that all dancers should also be of the belief that customers can spend their money on whoever they please, i don't mention it to the dancer unless i'm aware of them as being one of those girls that may make an issue of it. i wouldn't move in on a customer that i knew was someone's regular because it's undignified and would make me look like a money grubber. but if i notice he's been on his own for awhile, i'd approach him. if he's content to wait for her, fine... if not, i'm available if he wants a dance (as long as i'm still available).

    part of the attraction that most customers have for strip clubs is that they get the attention of a lot of attractive ladies. it creates the wrong atmosphere if customers are ignored just because they're someone else's regular. besides, being a dancer's regular is also being a club regular, and club regulars should expect to receive a certain amount of attention from most of the girls there so they know they're appreciated.

  5. #5
    God/dess
    Joined
    Apr 2003
    Location
    Renaissance City
    Posts
    3,343
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    Alanna raises the important dual objective of present and future income. Smart, confident dancers have a better focus on money.

  6. #6
    Veteran Member
    Joined
    Feb 2003
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    289
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    I sometimes mind if a dancer goes over when I need to go on stage or go to the bathroom, etc.. and trys to bang out a few dances in the short time while I am gone.
    It is really annoying when some girls just wait till you have left to hit up your customer. That way they can get dances without having to really work for it.
    They don't have to spend any time talking to the customer or entertaining them they are just trying to get a few quick dances in as short of a period of time as possible. Since they know you will be back and so does your customer it is a great situation for the hit and run dancer.

  7. #7
    God/dess Bridgette's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2002
    Location
    Gettin the fuck outta Dodge!
    Posts
    14,241
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    Yes it is extremely obnoxious to me when a girl knows a particular guy is a regular of mine and/or is sitting with me, and waits specifically for me to go to stage or bathroom to hit him up. Fortunately, at my current club all dances are done upstairs, not on the main floor, and it's more about VIP than dances so the girls have to do a bit more convincing than the usual few minutes I'll be gone. Still, I can't stand the girls who try to steal a customer while I'm on stage.

    It's really mainly about the money - both present and future. Especially if it's someone who wasn't really a club regular until I spent the time on him to develop the relationship - some girls look for those guys and will do just about anything to take them away because they know I've already spent the time and effort to cultivate him as a customer, and they can take advantage of him and my hard work easily. I have plenty of guys I genuinely like, but that's not my main concern. Furthermore, I have a few who enjoy the company of others while I'm gone, but when I'm there it's all me, and of course when I see them I waste no time getting to them. The only time I make them wait is if I already have someone upstairs and have to finish the time, or have to go on stage.

    Quote Originally Posted by pheno View Post
    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

  8. #8
    Featured Member
    Joined
    Apr 2003
    Posts
    1,717
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    When my ATF goes on stage, I always sit at the rail. Girls aren't allowed to solicite there. If she dances right up until she is supposed to be on stage, that presents a problem and I arrive late or just stay in the VIP room. The other dancers don't solicite there either. It is pretty obvious you are waiting for someone.
    When the man says, "I do," it is the happiest day of her life.-Al Bundy

  9. #9
    God/dess Bridgette's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2002
    Location
    Gettin the fuck outta Dodge!
    Posts
    14,241
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    Well at my club there is no rule against aproaching any customer anywhere on the floor, or really anywhere in the club for that matter. It is really the only big problem I'd like to see rectified. When girls are allowed to approach any customer anywhere, it leaves things wide open for those unscrupulous girls who operate as bottom-feeders rather than real businesswomen.

    Quote Originally Posted by pheno View Post
    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

  10. #10
    Member BoneDaddy's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2003
    Location
    Earth: ...mostly CA, NY, & TX
    Posts
    35
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    On May 26th, Jenny wrote:
    I sometimes mind if a dancer goes over when I need to go on stage or go to the bathroom, etc.. and trys to bang out a few dances in the short time while I am gone.
    It is really annoying when some girls just wait till you have left to hit up your customer. That way they can get dances without having to really work for it.
    I totally agree that when a dancer who is spending time with a good customer takes a temporary recess (for the purpose of going on stage or tending to nature's calling), other dancer's should not do the hustle on her good customer nor should the customer seek other dancers.

    But what if the "etc." includes the dancer taking leave of a good customer for the purpose of going over to do just a couple of dances for another customer (maybe one who hasn't been around for awhile)? Should the first customer just "cool his heels" and deny the bottom-feeders a chance to earn a few bucks?

    Seems like in this situation, the first dancer has gone to see the second customer for the purpose of marketing (for future time). Isn't that the same purpose of the second dancer hustling the first customer? Only difference is the two marketers have two separate targets.

  11. #11
    Veteran Member
    Joined
    Feb 2003
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    289
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    to Bonedaddy... perhaps you are not spending enough on your ATF so she feels the need to supplement her dance money with other patrons??

  12. #12
    Member BoneDaddy's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2003
    Location
    Earth: ...mostly CA, NY, & TX
    Posts
    35
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    To Jennymodel:
    [glow=red,2,300]touche'[/glow] [clap]

  13. #13
    Veteran Member
    Joined
    Jul 2002
    Posts
    400
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 12 Times in 2 Posts

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    It is really annoying when some girls just wait till you have left to hit up your customer. That way they can get dances without having to really work for it.
    well, if the dancer with the regular hasn't gotten any dances from her while she's been spending all this time with him and when she leaves for a brief period another dancer is able to get him to buy a dance from her in that short time span, seems to me the customer is just excerising his right to choose... and he didn't choose the dancer that spent all that time with him. it isn't "stealing" a customer since no dancer "owns" any of her regulars. any customer should feel free to spend his money on whoever the hell he wants to. the easiest way to lose a regular customer (or any customer) is to behaive like you own him, and make him feel like he needs permission to spend his money or his time as he pleases.

    no, i don't like the bottom-feeders that pounce on other dancers' regulars the moment those girls' backs are turned because it looks cheesy and obvious... the customer could see it that way too, but if he chooses to spend some money on a bottom-feeder, tough - it's his money and he can spend it as he wants. if it only takes a moment for him to decide he wants to spend his money elsewhere, he's not such a great regular anyway.

    it makes better business sense when if you have to be away from your regular for a brief period that you offer to him that if he likes, you could bring dancer X over to him to keep him company while you're busy... this shows that you aren't trying to "own" him, and that you're confident in yourself and the service you provide is better then your competitors'. other businesses do this all the time, from doctors and lawyers to car mechanics and hairdressers... they'll even offer specific competitors for their customers to try, and it works. most of the time, those customers will stay with the original provider or maybe try another one but go back to the original even more convinced in them then before.

    perhaps you are not spending enough on your ATF so she feels the need to supplement her dance money with other patrons?
    it's crazy to rely on one or a few regulars for all of your income. it puts you in a desperate situation should one walk, so it makes you more desperate to keep them. in any business, there's a danger of spreading yourself too thin, but not spreading yourself thin enough puts you in the position of having to cater to that one or a few customers' every whim no matter how outrageous because losing just one could spell disaster, and those customers usually know how vital they are and take full advantage of that.

  14. #14
    Moderator yoda57us's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2002
    Location
    at the Y
    Posts
    10,035
    Thanks
    2,878
    Thanked 5,834 Times in 2,332 Posts
    My Mood
    Goofy

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    C'mon Sporty, I think I prove that the "handsome and athletic" part is fairly irrelevant as long as you have the hundred dollars and smell good!
    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    yoda, I want you so bad it aches in the swimsuit area.
    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    Sophia_Starina is a sensible stripper...Naked all the way.....
    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Double team! 2 latinas with big tits!!

  15. #15
    Member
    Joined
    Mar 2003
    Location
    margaritaville
    Posts
    23
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Competition amongst dancers

    My opinion is this. One dancer is not going to compete against another dancer to become your ATF if she doesn't enjoy dancing for you. She would not be dancing for you period if you wasn't paying her. So yes it is mainly about the money. What makes her enjoy dancing for you? It is how you treat her. If you spend a hundred dollars and treat her well, she will want to dance for you again, probably want you all to herself. If you spend the same hundred dollars and mistreat her, she will be thinking, well I made a hundred dollars but I am glad that is over.
    Everything I like is either illegal, immoral , or fattening!

Similar Threads

  1. Competition
    By JessicaCM in forum Hustle Hut
    Replies: 15
    Last Post: 10-20-2011, 07:50 AM
  2. Competition is Fierce?
    By Habinairo in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 06-24-2007, 05:51 PM
  3. Competition
    By ironmaidern in forum Customer Conversation
    Replies: 16
    Last Post: 05-22-2007, 08:42 PM
  4. texting competition?
    By britt244 in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: 04-23-2007, 08:13 PM
  5. competition?
    By electra in forum Newbie Board
    Replies: 7
    Last Post: 08-11-2004, 11:52 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •