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    Default Ladies, what do you do...

    when a guy doesn't get hard during a lap dance or 3? :-/

    Do you care either way about the situation?

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    Default Re: Ladies, what do you do...

    I don't tend to think too much about whether or not a guy has an erection. It doesn't bother me if he doesn't. i don't take it personally because I figure, if he's not enjoying himself, then he wouldn't be getting more dances ya know.

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    Default Re: Ladies, what do you do...

    I guess Kittie doesn't care, but I've had times were I just wasn't aroused and have had the lady comment "Oh, I guess your not really enjoying my dances huh"? so I guess it matters to some.

    Actually it made her try a little "harder"... and it worked
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    Default Re: Ladies, what do you do...

    i don't care either way. there's a lot of perfectly normal reasons why a guy wouldn't get a hardon during a dance. if he didn't, it would surely suck if he had to worry about whether or not i was wondering why he wasn't, and i don't believe it's appropriate to draw attention to the fact that he wasn't physically sporting a symbol of gratification.

    anyone who's familiar with dicks knows they often have a mind of their own... sometimes they'll fall down in bed yet stand up in church.

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    Geez Alanna, you've been to my church?

    You're right though, at my age it's hit and miss LMAO
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    Default Re: Ladies, what do you do...

    Anyone remember the first season of Six Feet Under on HBO when the homosexual guy, David Fisher on the show, goes to a strip club in Las Vegas? The dancer gets on his lap and makes some comment about whether he's gay because he can't "get it up" while she's dancing for him.

    I always thought that was rather stupid writing for the show. There have been times where a girl just really does not do it for me...in those instances, I pay her for her dances and say, "Next!"
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    Default Re: Ladies, what do you do...

    Not to say anything about my own ahem..."predicament" on this matter, but different men react in varying ways to stimulation. There's a little more to it than having her rub your "magic lamp" and having a genie pop out. Some guys get it up pretty easy with a little grinding, and then you have head cases like myself where its not so much THAT a dancer grinds on my lap, but how she does it.

    This exemplifies why Dancer A can go up to a customer and practically bang him in the chair and get little or no response, but Dancer B can come up to same customer, massage his shoulders, give him a little "hair curtain" action and some dirty talk and have him hard before she even starts to grind.

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    I know what you mean Dr.
    Hell, there are some ladies that can just walk by me, brush my shoulder and say"Are you ready for that dance"? and get Mr. Johnsons attention.
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    Default Re: Ladies, what do you do...

    A dancer can have different effects at different times. One day your ATF will have you so hard you can climb the walls. Another day she won't but one of her friends will. Okay, that's normal, but then they compare notes and one feels badly.... Worse yet, I have one favorite that I just like. You know what I mean. I want to stay at 80% and talk, but she says, "I don't turn you on as much as (another dancer)." So then I'll get into it for a few songs just to make her feel like she has the touch.... And then there are cokehead dancers who can take me to the rafters, and I don't even like them.

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    I agree with Sporty. I have an ATF that I spend time with on every visit to her club but it's not always about stimulation when we go to the LD area...then again, seeing her in a certain gown from 20 feet away can cause little yoda to spring to attention in about 3 seconds. Who needs viagra when you have Brazilian tan lines....
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    Default Re: Ladies, what do you do...

    The only (FEW) times I've not noticed a woody in his pants were when dancing for older guys, and most of them told me they were impotent. For the other few, I didn't think anything of it because they acted like they were enjoying it and I thought it was possible they were also impotent and I certainly didn't want to point out the softy.

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