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    Ok guys, I have a question about the kind of dances you like......
    I am very sexual and sensual when I dance, good amount of contact, but I won't grind on a guy for the whole song......
    So my question is
    Would you want just a grind it into you lap kinda dance,
    Or Where the dancer is very aware of being sexy and giving contact at the right moment and places?????
    I would love to hear any thought from you guys on this !!!
    There is no better buzz then busting a nut.......
    The Curve is more powerful then the sword .. Mae West

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    Very slow and sexy working up to the climax!
    Don't make me spank you!

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    THe best lap dance I got was when the girl was extremely sensual. I mean...before she even got on my lap...she seemed like she really wanted to screw me. Maybe she really did or maybe she was acting....but I tell you one thing....I got several dances in a row from her. Girls that get on me and are robotic and grind hard only get one dance!

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    I agree with what has been said already, but I have to emphasize no hard bouncing or hard grinding.

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    I prefer the slow sensual dance. I don't like a lot of hard grinding. I'm really turned off by the girls that just jump around really fast and nervous like.

    My ATF does this thing, which involes her knee and my groin which just about makes me faint. But not like it sounds, it definately doesn't hurt!

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    there are sooooo many mindless hobby horse riders i wish would read this!

    just a few nights ago i took a guy friend of mine out to a club he's always wanted to go to for his birthday... we both got a dance from one of the girls, and while she totally ignored me, she plopped on his lap and ground him straight into the floor while staring at the wall. right after that, he limped out to the car with me in tow and swore his nuts were "mashed into tapioca". once he was sure nothing in his pants was broken, we laughed about it... and went to another club where we got some good dances from a few skillful sensual ladies. ok, so he was a bit hungover at work the next day, but it was a memorable birthday celebration.

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    [email protected], hobby horse riders.........
    That is great.......
    I always thought of it as grinding like a dog on your leg....LOL
    We have a few girls like that where I am working now.
    That's what prompted me to ask this question...
    I would see girls just bouncing up and down on these guys thinking
    "that looks like it would hurt, not be enjoyable in any way"
    Thanks for all the thoughts on this, and please keep them coming.......
    Cyn
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    The Curve is more powerful then the sword .. Mae West

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    But if I were to combine the favorite dances I've gotten that stayed within club limits (and of course, many clubs wouldn't allow this much):

    -The dancer slowly undresses in front of me and jumps in my lap
    -lying back against my body, her head against mine, giving me a full downward view of her arched body.
    -A gentle, slow, deliberate grind can be nice.
    -Strokes along my face, neck, shouldersand arms.
    -Having her body parts (arms, chest, legs) touch my face and neck
    -Sliding up on my leg
    -Nice forceful hug
    -Letting her hair play against my face
    -Holding my face like she's going to kiss you and letting our noses touch. (no kissing)
    -Running her hands through my hair
    -some grinding

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    Jackjrct, that sound about like how I dance, I like to use my nails( not to hurt anyone) but to caress around the neck and face...... My hair is another biggie, and love being close to the face and neck........
    I love hearing this stuff, all the likes and dislikes we know about only help us......
    Keeping in club limits, my dances in most clubs around my area would not be in the limits, that drives me crazy.....
    I am not dry fucking anyone, just giving a good dance, and it could get me in trouble anyway..........
    There is no better buzz then busting a nut.......
    The Curve is more powerful then the sword .. Mae West

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    Here's my do and don't list

    DO's

    1. Eye contact. Very important.
    2. Small talk to help us both relax. ("Hi, what's your name? My name is ________")
    3. Try getting into unique positions if possible (although I know when you're doing a dance in a standard restaurant chair, where about 80 percent of mine have taken place, there's only so much you can do).
    4. Blow in my ear.
    5. Massage my shoulders a little bit.
    6. Draw my attention to every curvature in your body by tracing them with your fingers.
    7. Sit out towards my knees (or on a second chair) and place your legs up on my shoulders. A lot of dancers have great legs, and I wish they would show them off more during lap dances.
    8. Ask me if I love your outfit, your hair, your shoes (of course I'm going to say yes!), then take the outfit off of course.
    9. Always ask if I want another dance.
    10. A little peck on the cheek (or several) is always a nice icing on the cake.
    11. Eye contact. Yes, I know I've mentioned it already, but it's that important.

    DON'TS

    1. Kneel on my thighs. Ouch!! Most dancers have great legs, but most also have very FIRM legs.
    2. Behave like a porn actress by biting my pants zipper or flicking your tongue at me. I want naughty, not nasty.
    3. Show up on my lap with a blood alcohol content that resembles a baseball batting average. Drunk dancers give the WORST dances.
    4. Stare out into space. I call that eye-ANTI-contact. It tells the customer that your attention is not on him.
    5. Bad mouth other dancers while you're with me. I can judge them myself, thank you.
    6. Show up on my lap with a chip on your shoulder about your boss, co-workers, boyfriend, situation at home, etc. Trust me, any bad attitude will come across in the way you dance.
    7. Play "Whack-A-Mole" against my face with your breasts. That seems silly and infantile to me, not sexy.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    there are sooooo many mindless hobby horse riders i wish would read this!
    Mindless hobby horse riders...I love that term!!
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    dr catfish........... I have to say the "whack a mole" comment is one of the funniest things I have ever heard.......
    I don't have to worry about that one, I have very itty bitty tittys......
    That was such a good laugh thanks I needed that before heading off to the dentist..........
    There is no better buzz then busting a nut.......
    The Curve is more powerful then the sword .. Mae West

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    Yes, I love grinding, but I also love it when I'm allowed to fondle the dancer's butt and boobs and if I can go a little further, hell yeah



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    Blow in my ear.
    I love it when a girl blows in my ear.

    Depending upon the contact rules of the club a good grind with the shin bone can be very enjoyable too, I agree with the previous posters that the knee kind of scares me.

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    I have a Fav who rubs her leg against my crotch while she nibbles on my left ear. After about 30 seconds of this I swear I would kill for her if she asked me to....
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    I love it when a girl blows in my ear.
    I love it when she licks my ear .



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    I love it when a girl blows something else entirely.
    LOL, I think this post belongs with the extras topic.

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    dr._catfish summed it up pretty well with his dos & don'ts list. I have a few more of my own to add.

    DO:
    1. press your whole body against mine (I guess club rules permitting), hair in my face, breathing in my ear, arms around my head/neck, breasts lightly touching my cheeks, legs entwined with mine...whew! You now own me.
    2. nibble/kiss/lick/blow-on/caress/nuzzle/bite my ears and/or neck....instant goosebumps!
    3. ask me to help you undress (so hot, even if it's just pulling the strings on your top loose).

    DON'T:
    1. ask me what I'm thinking about during a lap dance.... what am I thinking about? Either dirty thoughts I'd be too embarassed to say, or, I can barely muster the brainpower to keep breathing, much less form thoughts and sentences! (damn little head taking over )
    2. take my glasses off then proceed to touch yourself in a highly erotic manner which I now cannot see at all...talk about a tease!

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    [email protected], I understood what ya ment........ and if I made a guy think of me blowing on something else entirely, then I did my job...*evilgrin*
    you don't always get what ya want, but you can at least enjoy what ya get !!!!!
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    The Curve is more powerful then the sword .. Mae West

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    Evil

    You sound and look like a hot dancer

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    Where I dance, the way I dance would get me busted, I push the rules as much as I can to give a good dance, but do not do any real extras..I tend to be on the raunchy side, with eye contact and facial expressions.....I totally get into giving a good dance.... Its a challenge to do a good job at what I do !!!
    How about lap dancing me, hon?



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    Carlos, I wish I could !!! you are soooooooo far away !!!
    Thanks for all the input you guys are giving here !!!!! (no pun intended)
    (ya right ) LOL
    Hope Everyone has a great weekend !!!!!!!!!!!
    There is no better buzz then busting a nut.......
    The Curve is more powerful then the sword .. Mae West

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    If the customer behaves (plays by the rules) then I will give you a very good dance (like Evil I push the envelope too but still try to stay within club rules...).

    I focus alot on the intimacy of touch. For me, that is one of the main reasons people buy private dances: they want to be touched by another person. It is intimate.

    Something I like doing with my customers and I've had positive reaction with is thus:
    I have just past shoulder length hair so I "drape" my hair around his face enclosing both of us in darkness. My face is so close to his face that our noses are touching .... I feel this little curtain I make with my hair just makes the dance feel more intimate and personal.



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    AussieVee, you and I sound alot alike....... I do the same with my hair, it is a little longer, and do it for the same reason...... It blocks out the lights and sights going on in the club........ Its like makeing a world that just focuses in them...... I love to use my hair like that with my nails lightly caressing the neck and chin line.......
    Like you said, the better bahaved he is, the much better dance I will give......
    If am worrying about wondering hands, I can't relax to give a good dance......
    There is no better buzz then busting a nut.......
    The Curve is more powerful then the sword .. Mae West

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    I prefer my dances to be sultry with eye contact and a little sexual tension. I would rather have the dancer control the contact level as well. I am paying for her to do the work , I should just be able to sit back and relax

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