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    Default Extras---Have you ever paid for

    To go along with a poll on the girls site:

    Have you ever paid for extras?

    I have not

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    Default Re: Extras---Have you ever paid for

    Extra does not mean extra nice, you have defined it correctly. Anything that is not legal.

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    Just a little extra "touching" but did not pay extra for it.... but I guess extra touching is illegal so yes I got extras but didn't pay for it, so my answer is no, I guess :o well now I'm totally confused. ???
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    Default Re: Extras---Have you ever paid for

    Let's assume extra to mean HJ, BJ, FS..... an extra touch here or there is okay, for the purpose of this poll

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    Hand job, Blow job and full service. And no, that is not what a club is for that is what an escort service is for.

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    I never have, but I've never been offered. I hope I never sink to the level of "needing" extras. Any man who has to pay for sex is doing something wrong.
    The dumb kid is back!

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    I never have, but I've never been offered. I hope I never sink to the level of "needing" extras. Any man who has to pay for sex is doing something wrong.
    Ahhh ! to be young and in college again those were the days
    I never look for extras in a strip club, there are places for that
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    If you define extra's as a sex act, no; if you define extra's as beyond club rules, absolutely.

    That is one of the perks of being a regular.

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    Ahhh ! to be young and in college again those were the days
    The sad thing is Chuck, I lack the "game" required to "score" these days. Let me give an example:

    I just moved into the dorms, and of course my mom tosses a box of rubbers in with my shit. So my friends are over helping me unpack and we find the box. They start making bets on how many I'll use in the single semester I'm here. All my guy friends say none (or one because I'll use it as a water balloon) and my only gal friend said four, but she was being nice.

    Even lacking game I still would never resort to looking for extras. Like I said in another thread, I think it's degrading for a man to resort to that, and as a gentleman I would never participate in anything degrading toward a woman.

    Now if she wants to take me back to her place, that's another story.
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    So escorts are where guys, of course not us, get hand jobs, blow jobs and full service legally?
    Not legally in the U.S. unless you are in certain counties in Nevada.

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    And what evidence would they use? Can they prove anything that is said here is true? We are not naming places and people.

    True some local police could set up a sting at a local strip club, if one were named here. And they can come down to the club I go to and they would be very disappointed, since nothing happens there.

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    Police would never use the internet. There is no proof that "you" actually posted this message. Us street racers talk about racing, as long as we don't give names or places. I'm sure the same applies here.
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    In El Alcázar in Isabela, clients can fondle butts when dancers lap dance them either offstage or at barside when they pay for drinks. Does that count as an extra?



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    No. Sex=extra

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    We should probably re-name this question to " Have you ever paid for SExtras"
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    yup......

    more times than some folks even go to the clubs.
    I have a difficult time meeting ladies!

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    Nope. Never asked, never been offered.

    ...and I too lack "the game" as ASU_Camino put it. Really depressing considering I just finished grad school and can't even look back with fond memories on my college years (as Chuck seems to, lucky bastard ), which basically summarize as: "studied hard=yes, women=no, job prospects in this economy=no"

    No wonder I'm turning into a SC Junkie!

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    I just wanted to add that I don't look down on customers who receive extras. As long as they keep it out of the club and don't ask me for the same services; I could care less. It's all about boundaries. Respect mine and I'll respect yours!
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    I personally don't think that a dancer who does "extra-curricular activities" outside her club does "extras" as we know it. She's just her own independent contractor . "Extras" are done inside the club.



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    Sorry. I just figured that if a girl is contracting prostitution after hours, but makes her contacts in the strip club, it would be considered an 'extra.' I must be wrong. Like I wouldn't really care if a girl met up with a customer from the club after hours to give him a b.j. for money. If that same girl gave a b.j. inside the club, you can be sure I'd be angry. Those kind of 'extras' make us all look bad.
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    Oh, I forgot, in addition to extras being done inside the club, management must tolerate or actively promote them. A serious club would NEVER tolerate extras in their club and certainly would give dancers and other personnel involved the heave-ho.



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    The concept of victimless crime is absurd. If two consenting adults want to exchange money for a service then who does it hurt?

    Does this mean I want to go give my food money to a hooker? No. But should my tax money be wasted on busting prostitutes? No. It should be like "illegal" drugs. Regulate it and tax it.

    I also agree that extras need to stay out of clubs, not only is it confusing for dense people like myself, but it doesn't belong there. If I want a quickie I'll hit a brothel.
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    Oh, I forgot, in addition to extras being done inside the club, management must tolerate or actively promote them. A serious club would NEVER tolerate extras in their club and certainly would give dancers and other personnel involved the heave-ho.

    I'm sure we all know that the only "allowable" BJ's in clubs are the ones given the managers in lieu of tipout or better shifts. Maybe a quicki to be able to go home early.
    I have a difficult time meeting ladies!

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    ...and I too lack "the game" as ASU_Camino put it. Really depressing considering I just finished grad school and can't even look back with fond memories on my college years .
    I thought looking back on your college years is supposed to involve all the free snatch you got at frat parties....Not "Pay for Play" at strip clubs.

    Extra's is for after you get into the corporate world for a few years, the cheerleader you married gets pregnant, pops a couple of kids and gains 40 lbs, and her mom moves in.


    Wait tillthat happens to you and rethink all this
    I have a difficult time meeting ladies!

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    The concept of victimless crime is absurd. If two consenting adults want to exchange money for a service then who does it hurt?

    Does this mean I want to go give my food money to a hooker? No. But should my tax money be wasted on busting prostitutes? No. It should be like "illegal" drugs. Regulate it and tax it.

    I also agree that extras need to stay out of clubs, not only is it confusing for dense people like myself, but it doesn't belong there. If I want a quickie I'll hit a brothel.
    1) I totally agree with you on your first point, ASU. Why should law enforcement agencies get in the way of two consenting adults having sex, even if there's money involved? In Puerto Rico this is punishable by law, but hey, if two people get to know each other very well and makes sure neither one is an undercover cop, then the sky's the limit, IMHO.

    2) I would condemn street prostitution. Other than that the sex industry should be regulated with the sex workers and clients' health in mind.

    3) Yes, I believe extras don't belong in a strip club.




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