To go along with the How long before you knew she was ATF. I want to know.
If you have changed ATF's (or just dont have one anymore), what caused you to drop her?



To go along with the How long before you knew she was ATF. I want to know.
If you have changed ATF's (or just dont have one anymore), what caused you to drop her?
Originally Posted by Chuck




Hi HC:
As with most topics this is similar to a past thread. Your question is a little different.
Since I go by the old definition, my ATF is the same even though we no longer do business. She moved to Vegas and we hooked up twice after the move. Both meets were way below average.I consider them anomalies due to various circumstances but won't risk the kind of money I spend giving her another chance.
I have a new current fav that likely won't achieve ATF status. She is very, very good and keeping me happy for now.I'm not even shopping for a replacement. I may give a new girl a try tonight. Not because I'm looking. I just feel I owe her and no these would not qualify as mercy dances. She is a hottie and my type. More like just in the Christmas spirit. LOL.
Oh BTW- here is the old thread in case others are slow to respond.
http://www.stripclubjunkie.com/forum...id=304;start=0
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Oh, wasn't I on a roll with that thread, it was at the height of my frustration with my ex-ATF (whom I was still seeing, but not dancing with). I hope I've stopped my soap-box whining to some extent.Originally Posted by fishnet link=board=1;threadid=1096;start=msg16306#msg16306 date=1071972677
I'm also going through it again to a smaller extent right now with the current one as I feel I'm being taken for granted (a little) lately. At least I don't feel I'm getting the same kind of red carpet treatment she did at first. I think I am being up-staged.
Maybe I just don't want to wait around like I used to. The last time was 1 1/2 hours and I left before she could get to me. I used to be able to wait for the ex for 2 1/2 hours, but now that it's pre-arranged for a specific time, I don't think I should have to.
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This is kind of where I stand at the moment. Things are good after the last visit, but...I just dont want to be taken for granted. I definitely still get great treatment (when she can focus on me..) I just dont know if this last time was because she knew she pissed me off, or if we're back to what it was. I guess after one or two more visits I will know for sure.Originally Posted by sadbuttrue link=board=1;threadid=1096;start=msg16313#msg16313 date=1071990442
Originally Posted by Chuck




Dang Sad, since you have been off your soap box, you hardly even post anymore. LOL. We don't even get TR's.Originally Posted by sadbuttrue link=board=1;threadid=1096;start=msg16313#msg16313 date=1071990442
On a more serious note, if it is pre-arranged, wait 15 minutes and split unless she calls and says she is on her way. If she is working the floor forget it.Don't wait for that. Doing business exclusively with one person and making it easy to get your money (lot's of it), has to have some perks. And being #1 in the pecking order when you schedule the time is important.
See the TR that HR will file later for how it should work.![]()
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Hate to say it Sad, but waiting an 1 1/2 for a lady who you pre-arranged to meet in a club is unacceptable. She needs to get her priorities straight !Originally Posted by sadbuttrue link=board=1;threadid=1096;start=msg16313#msg16313 date=1071990442
Also It may be her way of breaking off the regular status!
Ya know a lot of relationships end just before the hollidays, it's called "gift avoidance" LMAO
Ya gotta love the drama LOL
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HC, couldn't help noticing in your TR you said you had no way to communicate your ATF. Maybe you can use OG as leverage. Tell her you hate being there on the same night and you need a way to schedule things for when he isn't there. Ask for a cell # and shut up. Let her squirm. At the very least, don't settle for less than an e-mail. If she balks you might say "If you don't trust me to have it after all this time, we shouldn't be doing business." And walk if necessary. Clearly she has taken a lot of the fun out of your visits. Why spend the big bucks if you aren't having fun? I know. I know. Easier said than done. Especially if you are RIL in denial as I was.Originally Posted by happy_camper link=board=1;threadid=1096;start=msg16314#msg16314 date=1071991768
You should have all the answers you need in 2 visits but is it worth throwing good money after bad? Speaking from experience, I pissed 2 large into the toilet before I saw the light.
LOL, if I followed FBR's advice, that money would have gone to good use. I had to find out for myself though.
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When the man says, "I do," it is the happiest day of her life.-Al Bundy
Yeah I know Chuck, I tried to get us back on track by not returning her phone calls after that 1 1/2 hour f*ck-up.Originally Posted by Chuck link=board=1;threadid=1096;start=msg16319#msg16319 date=1072015315
OK, I guess it should've been a TR. I guess I'll go post one.
I guess I wanted to avoid it as I tried to figure out whose fault it was. There were faults on both sides, but I wasn't sure whose was worse.
P.S. I got her a couple of gifts during all this in honor of how she had been only just a month prior. She said she had one too.
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Chuck, also I have been wondering if she didn't want to do the regular thing any more after that last visit. Maybe it's not enuf money. But I've posted on this board what my rates are with her, my consistency, devotion, the fact that it's off-peak, and that I don't take up any more time than 2 hours. So I would think it would be enuf. You never know though.
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Agreed, Fish, the only other girls during all of this, she knows about. I'm completely open about my escapades. And they don't make a tenth as much money as she does, due to consistency. And I have never blown her off to go see another dancer or let the schedule slip. I actually haven't seen another dancer since my trip to Ontario in September.Originally Posted by fishnet link=board=1;threadid=1096;start=msg16318#msg16318 date=1072014546
These posts are a little scattered, it will become clearer in the Trip Report.
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I have favs and I have an ATF. ATF means ALL TIME FAVORITE. My ATF hasn't danced in six months but she still holds the title. Since she replaced a previous ATF I guess it would be wrong to say she can't be replaced but it's not a title I award lightly...
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