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    Quote Originally Posted by Spanky link=board=1;threadid=1152;start=msg17485#msg17485 date=1074014089

    I was thinking that they may be too hot for me to just relax and chill...yeah I know it is a sterotype, beautiful girls can't be friendly, but I think I'll stick with the more girl next door type of my favs. It goes better with the fantasy of them better somewhat attainable -LOL - which these girls don't appear to be.
    Spankys post on Fishnets thread "Fresh Meat!!!" got me thinking. How do you feel about a dancer who is absolutely friggin stunning? Do you automatically go for her or do you tend to be attracted to a dancer who is perhaps not a perfect 10 but maybe seems to be more approachable. I didnt realize it before but I gravitate towards the latter. Take the flockettes for example. They are all very hot in their own way. If any of you guys visited my club I would be proud to intro you to them and maybe buy you a dance as long as you bought me a beer LOL But they are not physically stunning like the dancers at Fish's club.

    There are a couple of dancers at my club who do compete looks wise but Ive never spoken to them. I think subconsciously I scratch them off the list. I believe my comfort level is more in the range of 8 rather than 10. Still a stripper 8 is hotter than 99% of the women you would meet in the real world. Plus I think I am most likely sizing them in my mind up for outside the club activities LOL Doesnt mean it will happen but its fun to think about.

    Guys, what are your thoughts on this? Ladies you can chime in too. Do you think you are a 10 or maybe something slightly less than that? Has your "rating" so to speak worked for or against you in competing for dollars in your club?

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    I look more for the total package. Looks are great but if they dont have the "fun" or "warmth" its not going to work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR link=board=1;threadid=1155;start=msg17498#msg17498 date=1074040621
    Spankys post on Fishnets thread "Fresh Meat!!!" got me thinking. How do you feel about a dancer who is absolutely friggin stunning? Do you automatically go for her or do you tend to be attracted to a dancer who is perhaps not a perfect 10 but maybe seems to be more approachable. I didnt realize it before but I gravitate towards the latter.
    I've always wondered that too if I somehow harbor a bit of resentment towards the top girls whom I seldom seem to be able to hook up with for dances at a club. Like I'll subconciously think that I'll take their ego down a notch by buying dances from a less attractive co-worker. But you'll never get me to admit to that.
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    Realistically, I like to have the dancers approach me at a club than having to seek them out. Whether a gal is a '10' or an '8' is really of no matter, but I think dancers who know they are at a disadvantage appearance wise know that they have to compensate for that in some way. They will do so by giving more mileage, or dare I say it, just make themselves seem more approachable to customers than the '10's at their club appear to be. It works too, proving that customer service does matter.

    Another theory of course is that the '10's just happen to be constantly busy with regulars or in the VIP room, so they may not have the time get around to a guy like me that often. But that's fine, I'm there to get my ego stroked and a '7' or '8' (still well within my parameters beauty wise) can do that every bit as good as a '9' or '10'.
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    When I was even more of a newbie than I am now, I always picked the hottest dancer in the club. As time wore on, I learned that the "hottest girl in the club" rarely puts forth the effort that the rest of the dancers in the club will. They coast by on their looks, earning their money that way (no problem, whatever works for 'em). By effort I mean being friendly, trying to talk to me, not looking bored during the dance, and trying hard to give a great dance.

    I still like the "stunning hotties," but mainly for tipping stageside and table-mini-laps. I like the cuties or the 7s & 8s for the private dances (there are no 10s here, so the 9s are the hottest ones at the club).

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    p.s. There's also that whole love/hate thing I have going on with beautiful women, which for the sake of still going to clubs I probably only direct towards the 9s and 10s...
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    The hotter the better in my book, I go to SC's to spend time with women who are quite frankly way out of my league, I mean hell I can date the girl next door. I've had lots of fun with most of these girls also, and with those I didn't, who cares, they were HOT.

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    I agree with Lestat on this one. The hottest dancers often give some of the least enthusiastic dances. I prefer slutty over hot any day of the week.
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    This is interesting

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    It's easy to buy boobs and peroxide. I have nothing against women who choose that route because I think the vast majority of men go for that look and will spend their money on it in a club. I don't go looking for the hottest girl, I go looking for something different, someone who stands out. What that means can be different everytime.
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    I have to agree with RH on this one. The hotter the better. 5 out 7 of my top money earners quite literally motivated me to run across the room to catch them the first time. That just got their foot in the door though. They still had to do everything else right after that to keep me coming back. Perhaps that's one advantage at my club. The competition is fierce. If one girl is lazy and unmotivated. There are 15-25 other 9s-10s that are motivated. The last new dancer I tried was at least a 9. She gave good but uninspired dances. No problem! My fav looks every bit as good and filled in all the missing pieces.

    Even the 10's have their own insecurities about the way they look. They get turned down too. My regulars have always asked me questions about what I thought of girls x, y and z. LOL.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Richard_Head link=board=1;threadid=1155;start=msg17511#msg17511 date=1074047615
    The hotter the better in my book, I go to SC's to spend time with women who are quite frankly way out of my league, I mean hell I can date the girl next door. I've had lots of fun with most of these girls also, and with those I didn't, who cares, they were HOT.
    I was rather thinking the same thing. You purposely go to the club in the first place for the "fantasy" and should expect to have the hottest of the hot fawning all over you and cooing in your ear (provided you're spending the cash) But at the same time, personality comes more into play, I think. The more intelligent, fun loving sort of personality a girl exudes, naturally, the more attractive she becomes. Plus, those hot sexy stage/ LD moves, with some good 'ol sexy stare down eye contact, can make all the difference from a first impression of walking in the door.
    Geez, now that I think about it, there's so many underlying factors of determining a stripper's sexiness, looks almost seem so trivial now, huh? (to an extent, of course!)
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    I don't think there is such a thing as a dancer being too hot. Now if she is real hot and has a shit personality, just don't spend money on her. But at least you have some good eye candy!

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    I'm another guy who always figures that the 9-10's are over my head so to speak. Whether its true or not, I always peg them as being too full of themselves, and their attitude as being that I should just be happy that they let me look at them. I gravitate to the more approachable (in my mind anyway) dancers in the less than 9 ranges.

    Of course, one of the better nights I had at a club occurred when I was out of town for a few days for a training session. I hit the local club, and must have been there early because there weren't too many guys in yet. The dancer on the stage was an absolute knock-out blonde. Beautiful! A definite 9 1/2! But she had a sort of blank stare and I immediately pegged her with my preconceived notion of the hottest girls not giving me the time of day. Long story short, she came over to me after her set and was super nice. She hung out with me all night, and even had all the other hotties sitting there with us. I was in heaven! And was being treated as part of their group. This went on so long that the mgt. finally told the girls they had to break it up and make the rounds for the other guys (who eventually showed up). I had such a goodtime, I went back the next night (the last in that town) and they treated me the same way that night also.

    But, even so, I still stay away from the super hotties. I guess I figure lightning will never strike twice!

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    Don't be intimidated by a girls looks. This isn't the real world we are talking about here! If you have money to spend, you are in their league. My first ATF was a Blond Bombshell That I NEVER would have approached in the club under ordinary circumstances. Fortunately, she approached me and she was just too sweet for me to say no to. She was my go-to girl for well over two years until she retired a few years ago.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MeganS link=board=1;threadid=1155;start=msg17531#msg17531 date=1074095118
    Geez, now that I think about it, there's so many underlying factors of determining a stripper's sexiness, looks almost seem so trivial now, huh? (to an extent, of course!)
    Meg I pretty much agree there although I wouldnt call good looks trivial I just think its not the only factor. Id much rather have an 8 or 9 (whatever that means) with a hot kick ass personality than a robotic 10 that is so beautiful she looks computer generated.

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    I've had some "hot" dancers deliver and others who weren't worth it or ended up being ROB's. You gotta be on the lookout for these types Sometimes the most unassuming dancers end up being the best ones



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    I try to ignore the hotties,its the only way to get them to talk to you,lol...

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    a dancer being "too hot" really isn't a problem for me. since, i tend to gravitate towards strippers with very exceptional bodies, facial beauty isn't a priority. in my experience, the most facially attractive stripper in the club doesn't necessarily have the best body in the club. in fact, there may be 5 or 6 other girls with better bodies. for me, facial beauty, like implants, is pretty common in a sc. i'm looking for something out of the ordinary. if a stripper who has a great body comes with pretty face, fine. if not, that's fine also, as long as her body is exceptional. my only problem is finding enough of them in one sc. for example, i would consider it a very good night, if i can find at least three at any given sc.

    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish link=board=1;threadid=1155;start=msg17501#msg17501 date=1074042271
    Realistically, I like to have the dancers approach me at a club than having to seek them out.
    that rarely works out on a crowded night. if you have a good rapport with the waitress, tip her and have her send the stripper over to your table.

    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish link=board=1;threadid=1155;start=msg17501#msg17501 date=1074042271
    Whether a gal is a '10' or an '8' is really of no matter, but I think dancers who know they are at a disadvantage appearance wise know that they have to compensate for that in some way. They will do so by giving more mileage, or dare I say it, just make themselves seem more approachable to customers than the '10's at their club appear to be.
    you would be surprised how approachable and nasty a beautiful young '10' or an '8' can be.



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    No i don't think a dancer can be too hot. Sometimes they can think they are too hot but that's differnt. I have seen an 8 act too good for anyone and a 10 be as down to earth as one can hope for

    I also have never come across a ROB - maybe I'm just lucky

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    I don't think in terms of hot. I just think in terms of what I want at a particular time.... Fishnet is right: every dancer has her insecurities. Just ask her, and then say that's what you like about her.

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    there is no such thing as too hot for me, the only downside is waiting for her to do five other dances before she can get to you..... :'(

    also on the looks department. yeah, most guys like the barbie doll look, and I do to. but some of the hottest dancers I have seen have some ethnicity in them. for example, brooklin. and there is this dancer at Platinum plus called dinasty that is a mixture of african american and Hawiian.... who is just drop dead hot.... and while she has a big chest, they are natrual....

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    Beauty doesn't intimidate me. I'm there for that more than i'm there for anything else. If she's the hottest chick i have ever seen in my life, I'll make a beeline for her and throw money at her all night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap link=board=1;threadid=1155;start=msg18265#msg18265 date=1075296587
    ... I'll make a beeline for her and throw money at her all night.
    ...thereby screwing the rest of us who want to take her home for a couple hundred bucks. Thanks!

    Heh, heh, actually my newest enemy besides guys who spend too much money for nothing is parents. There's this one 21-year old hottie I've been working on for almost a year now, and just when things were getting interesting, she calls up mom and pop, lies about quitting dancing and needing money (the needing money part wasn't a lie), and they pay two months of her rent AND school for the Spring Semester. Argh!!
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    I may be a little bit different, but I love women with a few flaws. To me, it makes them more real, and feeds my fantasy.
    I always look for an engaging, intelligent look in her eyes. As someone said, anyone can buy peroxide and a pair of fake boobs.
    Nobody can buy personality, charm, and a brain.


    One of my favorite dancers could hold a conversation as well as do an incredibly sexy stage show. (She used to make more money on stage and the laps they got her than VIP). One time she asked me if I noticed that her breasts were not the same size. I had been with her for quite a while, and NEVER NOTICED!

    Her engaging personality and just plain sexiness overcame this apparent obstacle.
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    Peroxide and boobs dont = automatic beauty. Why is being blonde associated with being hot? What, is Ferarri not hot?




    And as for boobs, i'm not a size freak. Never been. Composition is more important than size. They firm or do drop halfway down the chick's chest when she takes her bra off?

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    Beautiful Asian dancers can definitely be too hot. That's why I go for them 90% of the time. Asian dancers have the best "total stripper package" in my opinion. They're great looking, alluring eyes, silky long black hair, ultra smooth skin, great asses, look amazing in a thong, and can quite nasty. Once you go Asian, you never go back.

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