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    Well fellas?

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    heheheh..perhaps you should go post this on SW. i can't even imagine the magnitude of the shit storm this type of poll question would generate. to be fair, i will refrain from answering the question because, (a) it is a bit of a loaded question. (b) i think only a few guys (on SCJ) and perhaps a few strippers (who might be willing to be more candid) who are are actually qualified to answer the question based on actual experience and knowledge.
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    Maybe I have a limited perspective, but the only prostitutes I know are strippers. If they're honest and respect me, I don't care what they are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mr_punk link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17702#msg17702 date=1074376414
    (b) i think only a few guys (on SCJ) and perhaps a few strippers are actually qualified to answer the question based on actual experience.
    LOL mr_punk I think you're right on this one, I personally have never visited a prostitute so I can't really add anything to this thread.

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    oh, i'm not just talking about prostitutes either. you'll never hear this from SW. however, the truth of the matter is that all types of sex work occurs inside a stripclub. that is, if you're looking for it and it goes beyond the obvious examples of a hj, bj, etc. striptease isn't the only thing for sale.
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    Well what about you Dreamer? What would your answer be? The whole, "prostitutes treat me with much more respect" sure has a funny ring to it, don't ya think?
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    Strippers treat me better, at least they tease me. Prostitutes would just open their legs and receive, no if and buts.



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    Quote Originally Posted by MeganS link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17710#msg17710 date=1074382626
    Well what about you Dreamer? What would your answer be? The whole, "prostitutes treat me with much more respect" sure has a funny ring to it, don't ya think?
    First of all Megan, I am not equating you, or any stripper to a prostitute reguardless of whatever activities they might conduct. I am asking those who have frequented both institutions- strip clubs and brothels, massage parlors, escort services, how they were treated at each institution. I don't think you have been to a brothel nor am i insinuating that you may have worked at one. Therefore your opinion is probably not valid here. I thank you for your participation anyway.
    I will also graciously reply to your question fully knowing the ample opportunities for people to speculate on my response. My gf works as a manager for two massage parlors. They have to deal and even expel ornery customers sometimes. Agreed this is a limited opinion but the places she works at they respect the customers. They know and honor their requests for the most part. They even give discounts to poor Mexicans. I was surprised by that. Plus, there are prostitutes I know and am friends with that have excellent relationships with their customers. If there is any underlying resentment between the sexes
    I haven't noticed it extrordinarily.
    Of the s.c. 's I have frequented i have noticed a greater prevailance of male-female antagonism visible and underlying. I hope that answers your question.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dreamer link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17732#msg17732 date=1074455386
    My gf works as a manager for two massage parlors. They have to deal and even expel ornery customers sometimes. Agreed this is a limited opinion but the places she works at they respect the customers. They know and honor their requests for the most part. They even give discounts to poor Mexicans. I was surprised by that. Plus, there are prostitutes I know and am friends with that have excellent relationships with their customers. If there is any underlying resentment between the sexes I haven't noticed it extrordinarily.
    Are you mistaking good business practices for respect? I don't think anyone will ever truely respect a prostitute and vice versa.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dreamer link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17732#msg17732 date=1074455386
    Of the s.c. 's I have frequented i have noticed a greater prevailance of male-female antagonism visible and underlying.
    I would assume that is probably because many customers go into strip clubs expecting services of a prostitute from dancers who are unwilling to perform those services. When you visit a prostitute both parties are well aware of the services being offered.

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    Dreamer I doubt that if any of us hired escorts or frequented brothels we would talk about it here. There are sites for those activities. Plus why would you bring it up anyways? The ladies that post here are dancers not prostitutes. I personally have no problem either way but Im wondering if you are trying to start some shit?

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17738#msg17738 date=1074462491
    Im wondering if you are trying to start some shit?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dreamer link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17732#msg17732 date=1074455386
    I am asking those who have frequented both institutions- strip clubs and brothels, massage parlors, escort services, how they were treated at each institution.
    as i mentioned before, i don't think many guys here qualify. in any case, it is a loaded question because of the sheer number of varibles involved. for example, you asked who gives you more respect, prostitutes or strippers? well, what kind of prostitute are you talking about? a MP, FBSM, independent escort, agency escort, Porn Star, Dominatrix, stripper etc. the experience is quite different for each and every type and some (IMHO) are better than others. also, i don't think it quite fair to compare the issue of respect between each group because, generally speaking, the mentality between each group is different. for example, initially it's pretty easy to get along with an escort, if you do your homework and follow a few simple rules. OTOH, many strippers see you as some sort of PL just for going to a sc in the first place. lastly, someone on ASS-C once said that "they pretend to like us, we pretend to respect them". in the end, what they think of you or me is irrelevant as long as everybody gets what they want.

    Quote Originally Posted by Richard_Head link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17736#msg17736 date=1074461685
    I would assume that is probably because many customers go into strip clubs expecting services of a prostitute from dancers who are unwilling to perform those services. When you visit a prostitute both parties are well aware of the services being offered.
    which came first the chicken or the egg? the fulfillment of that expectation has been around for quite some time. contrary to popular belief, this isn't some recent or new phenomenon. it's just less discreet than it used to be. as i mentioned before, all kinds of sex work takes place inside of a sc.

    Quote Originally Posted by FBR link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17738#msg17738 date=1074462491
    The ladies that post here are dancers not prostitutes. I personally have no problem either way but Im wondering if you are trying to start some shit?
    oh, i have no doubt about that, but let's be real. you've seen what happened to dancers in the past on SW who were honest about their activities in the club. also, i'm not so sure he's trying to start something, either. i think it's a legitimate question, just one based on ignorance and poorly thought out by basing the question on the issue of respect. however, it's really no different than many of the pretty ignorant posts on SW. oh, they may know about platform shoes and stage fees, but i can assure you their knowledge is pretty lacking when they opine on other areas of the sex industry.

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    Dreamer is ALWAYS trying to start some shit. He lives for it apparently.

    Richard_Head summed it up pretty nicely. Customers expecting the services of prostitutes from dancers who are not prostitutes is at the root of alot of problems between customers and dancers. Prostitutes working in SCs is entirely another matter.

    Punk's quote saying strippers/prostitutes pretend to like customers and customers pretend to respect strippers/prostitutes is exactly right on. Respect has absolutely nothing to do with it.

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    you know, i was just joking about putting barcodes on the foreheads of strippers, but now that i think about it...... seriously, that a pretty extreme laying of blame. like i mentioned before, the expectation wouldn't be there if the services were not available for consumption. for example, i expect (and probably a few other guys on this board) a certain level service from strippers. however, it's not always possible due to certain factors, such as, an issue of anxiety, rapport, or chemistry, etc, or it may be due to the fact that she just doesn't do such things. that's fine because all of those factors are legitimate explainations. however, there is no harm in asking exactly what is available, especially if that is the only way. keep in mind, i'm not talking about a customer who oversteps someone else boundaries and cannot take "no" for an answer. however, if a sex worker is going to be insulted because she is asked if she performs the activities of another sex worker. to be blunt, that sex worker needs to grow a thicker skin or find another line of work if it insults her that much.
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    I don't get insulted by being asked, I get irritated by being harrassed and having stated boundaries ignored.

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    Are you mistaking good business practices for respect?
    I think respect for your customer should be a part of any good business practice.

    I don't think anyone will ever truely respect a prostitute and vice versa.
    Richard, you have to see beyond the stereotypes. I know some prostitutes that have more morals than pastors.

    I would assume that is probably because many customers go into strip clubs expecting services of a prostitute from dancers who are unwilling to perform those services. When you visit a prostitute both parties are well aware of the services being offered.
    Very true, however i never went into a s.c. seeking sexual services even though I was offered them. In fact, when I am conversing with the dancers the subject will never surface in the conversation from me. But due to the stereotyping they are less inclined to respect me , at least initially.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17738#msg17738 date=1074462491
    Dreamer I doubt that if any of us hired escorts or frequented brothels we would talk about it here. There are sites for those activities. Plus why would you bring it up anyways? The ladies that post here are dancers not prostitutes. I personally have no problem either way but Im wondering if you are trying to start some shit?

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    FBR, it is a well known fact that men that frequent s.c. also go to brothels as well. Maybe none of them are represented here or maybe they are too afraid to disclose it. I am very aware that the job title for stripper is different than that for massage parlor masseuse. I thought I made that clear in the beginning.
    Why do I compare two businesses? Because I am curious. Everyone who visits this site is curious. Why does Rayanna ask what swinger activities you've engaged in? Is she asking if you are a swinger? Is she trying to start some shit?
    This poll is voluntary. If you don't want to answer you don't have to. All votes are confidential unless you volunteer to elaborate on your response. Fair enough?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17749#msg17749 date=1074469526
    Dreamer is ALWAYS trying to start some shit. He lives for it apparently.
    I'll return the same charge to you. If you want to take issue with me then feel free to PM me.

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    Dreamer I think you can treat someone with respect even if you don't respect them.

    I had a boss once who I absolutely dispised, he was a complete weasel, everyone hated him, but I still treated him with respect, I did this because I thought it would get me ahead in my career not because I respected him.

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    Where are you getting these facts? I go to SC's every month and never have been to a brothel.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dreamer link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17782#msg17782 date=1074538528
    FBR, it is a well known fact that men that frequent s.c. also go to brothels as well.
    geez. first of all, "brothels" of the legal variety are only in NV. on the surface, other cities may have something that seems like a brothel, but it's not quite the same. also, while they may refer to themselves, in advertisements or verbally, as a relaxation spa, modeling studio, etc, they never refer to themselves as a "brothel" because cops tend to notice little things like that.

    Quote Originally Posted by electric_head link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17795#msg17795 date=1074546356
    Where are you getting these facts? I go to SC's every month and never have been to a brothel.
    actually, there may be a grain of truth to that statement. i think he's trying to say, that men who frequent sc's may also partake in other activities within the sex industry. for example, a guy who goes to a sc, may also go to MP as well. of course, this doesn't apply to every customer. for example, he might prefer to recieve his service only in the sc (or perhaps not). however, it's really not that big of a leap (under certain conditions) from one to the other, if you choose to go that route.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mr_punk link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17807#msg17807 date=1074552336
    i think he's trying to say, that men who frequent sc's may also partake in other activities within the sex industry.
    Yes, that I would go along with.
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    i dont know of any brothels in the area, if i did, id probably go there instead of an SC. ultimately id like to get off.....wait, whats the point of this thread? oh yah. i can't answer cause ive never been to a brothel. but at the same time, strippers are prostitutes, they just offer less services then those working in a brothel. and i have respect for strippers, i think they provide a valued service.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Richard_Head link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17794#msg17794 date=1074546204
    Dreamer I think you can treat someone with respect even if you don't respect them.

    I had a boss once who I absolutely dispised, he was a complete weasel, everyone hated him, but I still treated him with respect, I did this because I thought it would get me ahead in my career not because I respected him.
    Richard, I do! MOst of us in our jobs are required to. Think of all those waitresses, bank tellers, etc. that have to endure a slew of bashings from irrate customers and having to maintain composure and say thank you even though they don't mean it.
    What I mean is , if I had the option I would not associate with people who do not return my respect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mr_punk link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17807#msg17807 date=1074552336
    Quote Originally Posted by Dreamer link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17782#msg17782 date=1074538528
    FBR, it is a well known fact that men that frequent s.c. also go to brothels as well.
    geez. first of all, "brothels" of the legal variety are only in NV. on the surface, other cities may have something that seems like a brothel, but it's not quite the same. also, while they may refer to themselves, in advertisements or verbally, as a relaxation spa, modeling studio, etc, they never refer to themselves as a "brothel" because cops tend to notice little things like that.
    Correct, what I am talking about are institutions that specialize in sex more exclusively. They are not that much disposed to providing "out of the bedroom" entertainment. Definitely these institutions will not advertise themselves as brothels.

    Quote Originally Posted by electric_head link=board=1;threadid=1166;start=msg17795#msg17795 date=1074546356
    Where are you getting these facts? I go to SC's every month and never have been to a brothel.
    actually, there may be a grain of truth to that statement. i think he's trying to say, that men who frequent sc's may also partake in other activities within the sex industry. for example, a guy who goes to a sc, may also go to MP as well. of course, this doesn't apply to every customer. for example, he might prefer to recieve his service only in the sc (or perhaps not). however, it's really not that big of a leap (under certain conditions) from one to the other, if you choose to go that route.
    Correct again .

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