I didn't comment on Chuck's question simply because I think he asked it in the wrong way.It doesn't matter whether she is a stripper or not. The question should have been...
Can you be friends with someone you are sexually attracted to????
My answer is no. Unless you are otherwise attached and would not cheat on your SO.
If there is sexual attraction, any pretense at being friends is only playing the nice guy or gal till you get your shot or realize it will never happen and give up.
Some examples...
When I was frequenting real clubs a bud was hot property. He had a dance partner that was a "friend." She waited for her shot through 3 girlfriends and was clearly pissed about each one. After the 3rd breakup she was the rebound girl and made the most of her chance. They got married, have a son and have been together about 2 years.
When I was 18, I played the part of friend for a year till I got my shot. LOL. It lasted about another year after..
My point is... men or women with a sexual attraction towards the other will be "friends" till the one with the attraction realizes they don't have a chance. "Ever." Then the "friendship is over. Period! I'm sure that's the point many strippers lose their regulars too.
In the case of strippers, if the customer never loses sight of the fact it is only business, there will never be a problem. The problem is... the best of the best so thoroughly blur those lines it is easy to go RIL.



It doesn't matter whether she is a stripper or not. The question should have been...
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