Sexually Charged Women

[Shayden]

Ok personal question guys! How do you feel about women who have high sex drives? Is that a turn off?



The all of 2 guys I've slept with told me that I'm intimidating and it seems like I have problems finding guys who have sex drives similar to mine. I get the "damn women we just did it 2 hours ago" response a lot.

Shayden

[Happy_Camper]

Are you kidding? Who could say no to you? Cant say I have had to tell anyone no, we just did it. I would not find that a turn off. If I 'had' to say no for some reason, I myself would feel like I am the inadequate one.

[Moneywise]

I find that highly attractive. I once dated a woman that matched my high sex drive. We both held down jobs so we couldn't do it all day but we did it in the morning, around dinnertime, and again around midnight. We averaged 3x a day. On one Saturday we must have had sex 6 times. The only problem was she smoked the cheeb and at the time I was in the military and couldn't be around that. Otherwise, I was happier than a pea in a pod.

[FBR]

Shayden sounds like those guys need to learn some variety. Hey, Im an old fucker and no longer a machine but if I intersperse oral with vaginal along the way I could possible do every two hours LOL

FBR

[doc-catfish]

Ok personal question guys! How do you feel about women who have high sex drives? Is that a turn off?

The all of 2 guys I've slept with told me that I'm intimidating and it seems like I have problems finding guys who have sex drives similar to mine. I get the "damn women we just did it 2 hours ago" response a lot.

Shayden

Doc slowly recuperates after performing the heimlich maneuver on himself. Warning: Reading threads regarding sex from hot SCJ chicks while chewing on a meatball may be dangerous to a junkie's health!

Shayden, while the short answer to your question would be "Intimidating? Hell no!!" or "How many more are there more like you??", the more prolonged answer that such an important question deserves could be long, complicated and perhaps can only be answered in face to face chat, like say on a long cross country drive.
us:
When is that SCJ convention again guys? I just may have the solution to Miss Shayden's travel problems. I suppose I could always take emergency annual leave from work if neccesary.

[electric_head]

LOL and I get the ole Damn! we just did it two weeks ago.

[fishnet]

LOL and I get the ole Damn! we just did it two weeks ago.

LMAO!!! Spoken like a true married man.

[sol_de_pr2]

Ok personal question guys! How do you feel about women who have high sex drives? Is that a turn off?



The all of 2 guys I've slept with told me that I'm intimidating and it seems like I have problems finding guys who have sex drives similar to mine. I get the "damn women we just did it 2 hours ago" response a lot.

Shayden

Where are you when I need you? :

[Brel]

LOL and I get the ole Damn! we just did it two weeks ago.

Aaaaahhh...I remember the days of getting it every two weeks. What a utopia that was!

And, no, Shayden, I wouldn't find your sexual drive a turn-off at all! As long as you approved of my drive to give you as much oral as I could before my tongue gives out.

[SportsWriter2]

How do I feel about women with high sex drives? If they like to play rough, it's all good.... Shayden, there's a girl in your mirror who is BEAUTIFUL and HOT. You should definitely get into it with her when the two guys are spent.

[big_daddy]

It can be a turn off in one way. If the guy don't think he can satisfy you it can be more than a turn off it could ruin the relationship. Men need to think were the "man". If the "man" can't satisfy his woman what good is he? Thats what he may think and this could hurt his sex drive.
There are a ton of ways to get around a mans or a womans lack of sex drive if they want to satisfy their mate. TOYS TOYS and more TOYS. Or ORAL ORAL and more ORAL. In the end everyones happy .

[Richard_Head]

Ok personal question guys! How do you feel about women who have high sex drives? Is that a turn off?

No it's not a turn off, LOL do I really need to add more .

[MeganS]

Shit Shayden, can I rent you out to my husband when I'm on the road? He's talking to me about sex every 5 freakin minutes! Then he tries to tackle me when I walk thru the door on Sunday after driving all day. My god, maybe I'm turning into a prude!

[fishnet]

Then he tries to tackle me when I walk thru the door on Sunday after driving all day.

Speaking purely from a guy's point of view... can you blame him? LOL. I probably would too.

[Dreamer]

Are you kidding? Men love that. The thing they feel intimidated about is that they fear you are like that with all men and will not be exclusive to them.

[Shayden]

Well my last boyfriend did confess that he was intimated because he thought he wouldn't satisfy me because I'm such a "freak-nasty" as he called me. But it seemed like I always wanted it way more than he did. He didn't like toys, and more often than not he would be tired or he'd sigh and be like "again?!?".

Am I just sleeping with the wrong guys? I told the ex that I had a high sex drive and he said don't worry I can keep up. This is how bad it was at times, I have seen an entire porn with him!

I am just like Megan's husband! It seemed like I was trying to jump him every 5 mins. And 6/10 times we did have sex but I felt like he shouldn't be saying no, I should be saying no.

I was just wondering if it was me or him? And if all guys are like that?

Shayden

[FBR]

Shit Shayden, can I rent you out to my husband when I'm on the road? He's talking to me about sex every 5 freakin minutes! Then he tries to tackle me when I walk thru the door on Sunday after driving all day. My god, maybe I'm turning into a prude!

Megan, you are very hot and of course any man in his right mind would want to jump your bones as often as possible Having said that, maybe your hubby is starting to feel a little insecure about you starting to tour. Im sure you guys discussed it before hand and I bet he said No Problem but when faced with reality ones feelings can change. He probably doesnt realize hes being pesky. He probably justs wants as much of you as he can get. Was he like that before you made the Iowa trip? I didnt get the impression that he was but maybe Im wrong.

FBR

[FBR]

I was just wondering if it was me or him? And if all guys are like that?

Shayden

Shayden, were all different with different sex drives. Ive known younger guys who are happy with once every couple weeks and older dudes that would like it once a day with a masturbation session in between. Different strokes as the saying goes.

If I were your man (hahaha in my wildest dreams) Id have to be creative..no way I could do it every five minutes LOL Id invest in some nice toys and other accessories. My goal would be to keep you satisfied recognizing that I wouldnt always be able to enjoy the grand finale myself. That would be OK with me though...I enjoy giving pleasure to a beautiful woman.

FBR

[doc-catfish]

Well my last boyfriend did confess that he was intimated because he thought he wouldn't satisfy me because I'm such a "freak-nasty" as he called me. But it seemed like I always wanted it way more than he did. He didn't like toys, and more often than not he would be tired or he'd sigh and be like "again?!?".

Am I just sleeping with the wrong guys? I told the ex that I had a high sex drive and he said don't worry I can keep up. This is how bad it was at times, I have seen an entire porn with him!

Not knowing either you or your ex-boyfriends personally Shayden, I can't make any judgements here. I do know one's upbringing plays a great role in how open they are sexually.

Perhaps they felt some anxiety that they would lose you to a less inhibited guy because they weren't as comfortable about sex as you were. Some of us have more inhibitions than others, and we all need to adjust what we are comfortable with at our own pace. I'm certainly more willing to try things now than I was when I was your age when I clearly had more opportunities for sex available.

I was just wondering if it was me or him? And if all guys are like that?

If you're concerned that something is wrong with you, don't be. Your hormones are raging and its perfectly healthy. A lot of men, who know a good thing when they see it, would be plenty comfortable dating a gal with your sexual appetite. I'm sure that you'll bump into more of them as you get older.

[lestat1]

I am just like Megan's husband! It seemed like I was trying to jump him every 5 mins. And 6/10 times we did have sex but I felt like he shouldn't be saying no, I should be saying no.

I was just wondering if it was me or him? And if all guys are like that?

Shayden

I don't think either partner should ever tell the other "no" (exceptions for illness are allowed). There are always tongues and toys; pleasing your partner in the bedroom shoudl be job #1 in a relationship.

[velvet]

i've fallen in that trap before. meaning i wanted it so much and asked for it so much it became a "chore" i kid you not. i bugged 3 diffrent people so much it did in fact turn them off! i know better now or maybe i just have someone that can keep up with me... hehe

[CaptainOblivious]

Wow, when I read the message my first reaction was that it HAD to be a troll. Then I looked back at the author and had to do a double take. Shayden's boyfriend is complaining that she wants sex too much?!? SHAYDEN'S boyfriend?!?

Ok, shock over, I actually have some thoughts about this. First off, sure - everybody's sex drive is different. With guys your age, though, the vast majority of them would be happy to get laid 3 or more times a day. Us old farts don't have quite the *ahem* resiliency we used to have, but even we're usually good for pretty frequent playtime. But those are generalities, and maybe you found two guys who are in the low range of sex drives.

There might be other explanations, though. Maybe both these guys are control freaks who need to initiate everything sexual, and as soon as you try to initiate something that turns them off. If that were the case, the only solution I can think of (other than letting the next guy - I'm sure there's a line - have a try at being the boyfriend and see if he handles it better) is to work really hard at being extremely subtle when you come on to him. Maybe there's a particular part of you that he can't resist - tease him by making sure he gets a good eyeful of it (accidentally, of course) until he makes a move. The general idea being that HE thinks initiating sex is his idea, while you know you seduced him into it.

I'm assuming, here, that you want to keep this relationship enough to be willing to work at that. If that isn't the case, and you were just wondering if you were "weird" or something, the answer is "hell, no!" On the scale of 1 to 10, if you had guys rate their fantasies, a hot girlfriend who absolutely loves sex, and lots of it, would get about a 9999999999.

[Katrine]

I don't think either partner should ever tell the other "no" (exceptions for illness are allowed). There are always tongues and toys; pleasing your partner in the bedroom shoudl be job #1 in a relationship.

........And thus spoke the virgin....

Hehehe...you boyz are fun, sorry to get on your case 'Stat, but that is a pretty unrealistic ultimatum. Honestly, when your lady is oozing blood, yeast, bacterial vaginosis, or is just plain sore from too much ...NO will sound like a better idea...meow!

[BigRed1970]

heh, I guess it depends on who your partner is, but if I was with a sexually charged woman.... I would do anything I could to please her.... after all I would be in a relationship because I liked her, so I would try to satisfiy her as best I could, and that means non sexual requests to.... I can understand her need to be held after a bad day at work or whatever. somtimes being a good partner means more than just being able to rock her world....

[lestat1]

I don't think either partner should ever tell the other "no" (exceptions for illness are allowed). There are always tongues and toys; pleasing your partner in the bedroom shoudl be job #1 in a relationship.

........And thus spoke the virgin....

Hehehe...you boyz are fun, sorry to get on your case 'Stat, but that is a pretty unrealistic ultimatum. Honestly, when your lady is oozing blood, yeast, bacterial vaginosis, or is just plain sore from too much ...NO will sound like a better idea...meow!

Well duh! All of those things would fall under the category of "illness," as would a genuine headache.