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    I'm going to have some questions for you all so if at any time I seem bothersome let me know! I'm thick skinned.

    So I stopped by last night. We're talking and having a good time. She tells me she was shopping the other day and saw something that reminded her of me. So she purchased it. She then proceeds to ask if I am coming next Monday. She wants to give it to me then. I told her I hadn't planned on it but will just for her. Her reason for getting it: a way of showing her appreciation.

    Is this more SS just to get me back in a week to drop more $$ or a sincere act of gratitude? I guess the real question is do strippers typically give gifts to regulars that they appreciate? :o



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    OMG. I found the TR thread. I'll have to chime in on it occasionally. This site is very much like crack.


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    One way to find out is go in on Monday to talk, and dont buy any dances since this is an extra trip. If they still enjoy just talking, then it is good.
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    Maybe you have a good thing going, I'd be optomistic, but with a side of realism. You already told her you weren't planning to stop in, so she probably knows you're not set up for it, maybe in the money department. At least you could play it that way with her so she's not shocked about not getting a big payday out of you. Get the gift, be gracious, and sit there talking with her without spending cash. After a while, make your excuse to go (give her a small tip for her time perhaps), and set up a next playdate ("when you have more cash"). If she's all good with it, just ride the train and see where it goes.

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    Monday is the slowest day/night of the week in most clubs, but hey, the present might have something to do with Monday.... Do you collect Rick Monday memorabilia?

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    SW2 I do stop in a lot on Mondays. It's a little slower than usual but I like it that way. I hate Fridays and Saturdays where it's shoulder to shoulder with mostly knuckleheads.

    HC & Brel. I'm going to do just that & see what happens. I'll keep you posted.


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    MW, Id go for there for the gift and enjoy the gesture. Could be SS but you wont know until the time comes. She could possibly (emphasis on possibly) like you beyond the standard customer/stripper relationship.

    I wouldnt go in with the attitude that youre not going to spend any money and therefore put her to the test. If you feel like doing a few dances go for it. Just dont feel obligated to do so.

    You should feel pretty good about it actually. Ive spent many many thousands of dollars on strippers. Thank god I can afford it. No major complaints...Ive had a lot of fun over the years. But Ive never had a stripper buy me a gift other than a bday cake one time from my ex-ATF over in Indianapolis. At the time I was in major RIL/LHC mode so I ate that shit up. In reality I later learned she looked at her investment of $15 for a cake against the $20K I had given her over 18 months as shrewd financial planning LOL

    Good luck. Be sure to post a TR/Drama report on what happens.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR link=board=1;threadid=1199;start=msg18228#msg18228 date=1075248852
    MW, Id go for there for the gift and enjoy the gesture. Could be SS but you wont know until the time comes. She could possibly (emphasis on possibly) like you beyond the standard customer/stripper relationship.

    I wouldnt go in with the attitude that youre not going to spend any money and therefore put her to the test. If you feel like doing a few dances go for it. Just dont feel obligated to do so.
    I agree with FBR on this. If you go to the club with the intention of making it a test, chances are you won't have a good time. Enjoy the gesture. If you feel like getting dances, get 'em. Just don't break the bank on this trip or you'll be getting lot's of little gifts hoping for the same response. LOL.

    The closest I've gotten to a gift besides "free dances" was when the ATF scored about 50 free passes for me.
    When the man says, "I do," it is the happiest day of her life.-Al Bundy

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    Thanks for the advice. The value of your input on some of these "signs" I am getting is priceless.


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    Moneywise, I get gifts from dancers. Last week it was homemade cookies "just because."... Dancers can be very caring, but the subculture runs on impulse, so just remember to go with the flow and never take anything personally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SW2 link=board=1;threadid=1199;start=msg18273#msg18273 date=1075305493
    remember to go with the flow and never take anything personally.
    I will live by this mantra. (at least two days out of the month)


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