I know most of you have ATFs. Describe your ATF, physically, and why you were drawn to her in the first place, how long she's been your ATF, and how often and how much money do you spend on her?. I am very interested to know. Thanks guys!
I know most of you have ATFs. Describe your ATF, physically, and why you were drawn to her in the first place, how long she's been your ATF, and how often and how much money do you spend on her?. I am very interested to know. Thanks guys!





Five-two, 100 pounds, light brown hair, flexible gymnast, incredibly cute/pretty.... I met her when she started dancing, and she was an instant ATF.... She's honest, caring, responsible and so good at e-mail.... I've known her more than a year and spend maybe $20 a week on her. She stopped dancing six months ago, but she will always be my ATF.
Wow, I know we're talking about a stripper/patron relationship here, but somehow your story sounded very romantic!![]()
My current ATF is a 23 year old goddess with long dark hair, a porcelain complexion, and a natural 34C-24-34. Her appearance/body type is sort of Liv Tyler-esque, although she doesn't much look like LT in the face. I'm one of her top regulars, so she's always happy to see me and we always have great conversations - every trip there's at least one or two things she says that always crack me up.
I've been a patron at this club since about the same time I moved to where I live now (about 13 months). The first three or four months I frequented the club, I had a starting rotation of about 4 or 5 dancers who I bought dances from, based on looks, personality, and mileage. My curent ATF was one of these, but separated herself from the pack on one particular day when I showed up in desparate need of some recreation after a long day on the job. About 30 seconds after I sat down, she came right up to my table. Instead of greeting me with the standard pleasantries ("Hi! How are you doing tonight, etc."), the first thing she said to me was, "What outfit do you want me to put on?" I've been her regular ever since.





Currently I don't have an ATF. But I do have a quartet of gals in the running for the title. I am thinking about having "playoffs" next Tuesday night. We'll see who wants to be my valentine the best.
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Former SCJ now in rehab.




5'10", 38F (enhanced)-23-35, black, shaved, long dark hair to her butt. Softest lips I've ever kissed.
CP

A 10 in every sense of the word. 5'3/4" tall, long light brown hair, 103 pounds, enhanced, very athletic build, hard body, no six pack but center line running from her chest to naval. Great ass and cookie. No flaws. I sprained my neck many times trying to decide where to look during the dances.
I was drawn to her the very first time I saw her. My type!!!!
She made 18.2 in 11.5 months. You do the math! I saw her on average twice a month. She moved but will always be my ATF. Replacements don't exist.![]()





5'4" with Brazilian curves and a smile that I can see in my head even when we haven't seen each other for a while. I've known her for about 4 years. She stopped dancing about a year ago but she will always be my ATF. Even better, we will always be friends.



My last "ATF" (amazing how we can have more than one) was 5'8" or so, a bodybuilder with a rock hard body. I never thought I'd be attracted to someone like that, however her strength was fairly intoxicating, and she was a damn nice lady.
That was back in 1998 BMJ (Before Mrs. J).
All your ATFs sound so beautiful and amazing! NVJosh, is that how you measure time, either BMJ or AMJ??![]()


Oh, my ATF is one fine lady. She's 26. About 5' 8" real nice body. Really nice ass. If you put her ass and Britney Spears's ass right next to each other it would be a real close race. Short dark hair. She is just one of the coolest people that I know. Last night I spent about $40 on her but I'm going back tonight and possibly take her out to lunch today depending on if she has school or not. No stripper shit here.
My ATF was 20 when I met her, 5'2" natural redhead and the Girl Next Door look. and when she danced she weighed about 100 pounds she was 32B - 24 - 34.
I was first drawn to her for two reasons 1) her eyes and smile just melted my heart 2) she was best firends with a bartender i was trying to hook up with.
She danced for three years but stopped five years ago. I was there her first night and her last. And pretty much every night in between. I spent between $25 and $100 on her every night I saw her.
She is still one of the best friends I have ever had. We going running together three days a week. I was at her graduation and her wedding. I play golf with her husband. And I am godfather to her son.
I did hook up with the bartender but she was a psycho who thankfully didn't get invited to the wedding.![]()





Wow, that was a beautiful post!
How did you pull that off, still friends, went to her wedding and godfather...does her husband know how you met? Ever have any desires for a dance?Originally Posted by metros2004 link=board=9;threadid=1237;start=msg18951#msg18951 date=1076429216
Originally Posted by Spanky link=board=9;threadid=1237;start=msg18970#msg18970 date=1076449152
We hung out outside the club a lot from very early on me and the bartender, her and her high school boyfriend, clubbing, movies concerts, the shore. We have always had a lot in common and we became fast friends but never anything like privates. There eas actually a lot more talking then dancing when we went VIP or just an open lapdance area. To be honest a lot of the money she got from me came back in the form of dinners paid for, concert tickets, very nice birthday and Christmas presents.
Her husband knows what she did and where we met. He just doesn’t know exactly what goes on in a gogo bar (your in Jersey aren't you Spanky?) he's never been. I've tried to get him to go after golf. Oddly enough I was with her when she met her husband. One New Year's we were both single and we went to a party my sister was throwing. Her husband was there with one of my sister's friends. He was quite smitten. Lucy was no longer dancing at this time. There's a lot of drama involving the bartender and her Lucy's ex-fiancé that really moved the relationship to the friendship level that you will find in the drama thread soon.
My desires for dances from her have waned considerably since. The two of us hit this one club by her about twice a year and she chooses who I get dances from and usually pays for them.
I think I may taken the phrase ATF too seriously because I have had many favorites over the years some have gotten a lot more money then she did I fell in love with two of them. But I always had my most fun with her. I should probably disqualifier from being a candidate for ATF because this was catching lighting in a bottle. Right place right time and nature just took its course form there.


My ATF does not have conventional DDG looks, but she appeals to me in her own very special way. Ms S is Sicilian, 27, 5'2", 110 lbs, petite & skinny (nearly concentration camp lean). Chestnut brown shoulder-length hair with highlights, Big brown eyes with a perpetual sleepy bedroom look. Flat ironing board chest with moderately long nipples. Has a great Catholic school girl look.
Met her nearly 3 years ago and has been bewitched by her ever since.
Her husband knows what she did and where we met. He just doesn’t know exactly what goes on in a gogo bar (your in Jersey aren't you Spanky?) he's never been.
Metro - Yes I am from Jersey. It's funny I thought you were from Jersey when you used the term "The Shore". That's a Jerseyisum for going to the ocean for those of you not from NJ.
You have a very unique situation, I'm jealous! Good luck with it!
ATF is a funny term. I'll respond to this post with the assumption that ATF means the best series of LDs from one dancer; however, ATF would otherwise have a different meaning for me.
My ATF LDer had recently grauduated from and played basketball for a major university. She was a forward/center, occasional starter and situational player at 5'11" to 6'0" in stocking feet. I'm a big guy at 6'+ and too many pounds, but this lady laid some big-time grind on me that I will not forget. Finally, I got to feel how shorter/smaller guys feel when a powerful women works over them. This was one powerful lady who enjoyed her craft. I later found out that she was very bi....but very equal as well![]()
I would think that everyone that posts here would have an ATF to tell about. While I am certainly older now, my ATF was a dancer named Lonnie that dance in Daytona Beach about 20 years ago. To be honest strip clubs were not my saloon's of choice at the time, but I had done a couple of favors for the guy that owned the club.(not at his bar) So I was invited to stop by and have a drink.
Lonnie was an older dancer, and I was to say the least dumb as a box of rocks as to the SC scene. Because of this woman I did tend to become a regular at the club. I guess you could say that she gave me my SC baptisim. Taught me the do's and don't's, the in's and out's of SC protacal. No pun intended. I remember that she had an 8 year old daughter, and she was enrolled in college, and I always thought that was impressive since she was an early 30's woman. Most of our conversations tended to be about things like local and national politics, and current events. I am sure that I am a better customer today because of her guidance. By this I mean, well hell, I am sure you already know what I mean.
To this day I still respect her ability to focus on her priorities and be a professional dancer. Real dancers are rare, and it doesn't really matter what a good dancer looks like, because a good dancer is always magic.
Ignorance is bliss, and I just want to be happy.




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When the man says, "I do," it is the happiest day of her life.-Al Bundy
My ATF from Indianapolis was awesome but as time goes along she is fading. The jury is still out on a new ATF.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
My long-running ATF of 4 years is 5'3" with chestnut brown hair, 100 pounds give or take with incredible eyes that can level you from across the room (I spilled my beer once catching one of those looks from her coming off the stage). She was enhanced to a 36D (I believe) although she didn't need it. She has an amazing butt punctuated by a large tatoo on her right cheek.
She had a smile where the lower lip would drop down to reveal a sort of comforting cheerfulness. She could play you with a kind of a disappointed look that would make you give in. She was just as beautiful when she laughed or cried and even when she was angry. She had a little girl cute-ness to go along with the beauty. (not every girl that is beautiful is really cute).
She had dance classes as a young girl from a very well-known dance school. And the dance movements showed. Her polework was quick and elegant. I'm told that she toned some of it down from her earlier years as a dancer, because a lot of guys did not appreciate it enough to have it make any more money. Why waste the energy?
The sexiness was natural for her, she oozed it. Her eye contact was perfect. She could thrill the heck out of you during a dance set.
She has a contagious laugh and a wonderfully crazy sense of humor and a down-to-earth way of talking, with which she could easily make friends. There was never a time when there was an uncomfortable silence for lack of something to say.
During the first two years, our time as dancer/customer only was as consistent as the sun coming up. Life stepped in, though, and that exact consistency was not there, but I remained a frequent customer and outside friend no matter what relationship she was in.
Although at 30, she was trying to wind down her career as a dancer, it has recently been cut short permanently due to a recent car accident where she was badly burned. The dance world has lost, in my opinion, a great talent. She is now recovering and I believe her energy will carry her along to something new, but just not back to dance.
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I'm sorry to hear about your ATF's recent car accident. I wish her a quick recovery and the best in life!


My ATF is no longer dancing, she went back to nursing as she was getting a bit old (she said 40). She is 5'3" about 110 lbs, long curly blonde hair, 36D-24-36, has a beautiful face, kind of looks like Jenna Jameson.
Very down to earth mid-western girl. I still do see her once in awhile.
"I don't know about you, but I'm going to get my kicks before the whole shithouse goes up in flames" Jim Morrison
My ATF is a beautiful Italian woman, who's 25 now. I'm 40. I fell for her before she even danced, when I saw her standing there. Mind you this was my first visit to a strip club. She went on stage, came over intro duced herself and that was it. Within two minth we became friends and within 4 we were and still are BEST FRIENDS, now going on three years.
She recently quit the business after get a degree from a local business school and she's moving on with her life. I've been to her house for dinner and met her family, she's been over my house and she and my wife get along like sisters. As far as anyone knows, we meet while I was tutoring at the business school.
I wasn't looking for a relationship and we just got talking about other jobs in the world and she wanted a career, insurnace and something stable. She has a son and her son's dad is never around. One day she asked for my number and asked permission to call me if she had any qquestions. She did and like I said, we are best friends. Do I miss her dancing, no, since though I visit her at the club, I don't sit and watch her strip. Outside the club we see each other often and we try to hang out together at least one day a week (movie, lunch, dinner, watch TV...)
It's been great, alot of fun and something I never expected. For those of you who might say a man and a woman can not be friends, you are dead wrong.
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