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    SportsWriter2 would NEVER take a dancer on a shopping date. It is soooo PL. However, I killed the character to make an ATF happy when she went back to school.... She's low-maintenance and never asks for anything, but she loves it when I buy her clothes. For VDay, I decided to take her shopping. I would imagine you look at clothes, talk about them, buy some, carry the bags, and enjoy her happiness.... Has anybody (customer or dancer) done a shopping date? Clue me in here. What else do I need to know? What's a cool amount to spend?... Most importantly, can a dancer ever respect a guy who does this?

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    i thought you killed off Sporty2 in sort of bargaining ploy for re-entry to CF....now im all confused.

    never gone on a shopping date with a dancer. i wouldn't be the guy for it. whenever i go shopping with a girl i usually try to prevent her from buying anything. this is usually what comes out of my mouth whenever she picks something up or points at something or comments about how nice something looks. "Thats the ugliest thing i've ever seen. uggggggggggh! are you retarded? do you know how fat that'd make you look? moron, where are you gonna put another pair of shoes? you certainly dont have room in your closet? how about i just shove them up your ass right now?" then i just belittle everything about the item whatever it may be, until they finally walk away from it.

    so im not the best person to bring along if you're looking to spend, but if you're looking to save....

    you and cheerleader going to PP? look at it this way, you probably wont have to spend much cause you guys can shop in babygap, etc for her. id say buy her 2 or 3 tops, and one skirt/pant/short, or 1 or 2 tops and one dress. i hate shoes, handbags, and makeup, so i would never spend on those.....and i'd be really disapointed in you sporty and lose all respect(lol, guess its not much to lose ) i have for you if i found out you were buying either of those three for her.
    maybe, stop by the food court or D&B for a snack. check out an IMAX or go to the movies.... adam sandler's 50 first dates open's up on feb 13, the hoyts there will have it. all in all, id say its gonna run ya $150 - $225.

    have fun.

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    Careful Sporty, your treading in PL territory here...lol. I've gone shopping with dancers but they were buying. On a few occasions I've given stuff for Birthdays or Vday but I'd rather shop for it alone and see if the woman likes the gift that I picked out. As far as what goes on, you've got it about right, don't forget waiting outside the dressing room while all the other women in the store wonder what the middle-aged guy holding the bags is getting from the hottie in the dressing room in exchange for taking her shopping....have fun, and not to be totaly cynical, enjoying her happiness IS the best part.
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    Sandy, the deal with the Fantasies manager was that SportsWriter2 would tell him first if he had any problems. Sporty wrote before and after returning..... A CF favorite asked me to kill Sporty so I wouldn't banned again, but the ATF who left dancing convinced me to kill him AND limit my clubbing.

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    Sporty, to be honest, Im surprised shes not taking YOU shopping LOL

    Ive only done the shopping thing once..back in the day with my ex ATF over in Indy. I didnt mind spending the money but hanging out while she went through every outfit on the rack was a little tedious for me. I threw in some comments from time to time regarding her possible choices but all the while I was wanting to get the hell outta there LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by SW2 link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18795#msg18795 date=1076156166
    For VDay, I decided to take her shopping. I would imagine you look at clothes, talk about them, buy some, carry the bags, and enjoy her happiness.
    well, i guess the good thing about taking a stripper on a shopping trip is that the items you buy won't end up in the sc dumpster . i just hope you're getting something more than dances and conversation.

    Quote Originally Posted by SW2 link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18795#msg18795 date=1076156166
    Has anybody (customer or dancer) done a shopping date? Clue me in here. What else do I need to know?
    have i ever taken a stripper on a shopping trip? no. why waste my time walking around a mall while she shops. that's the great thing about cash. it allows me to avoid mundane tasks, like shopping.

    Quote Originally Posted by SW2 link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18795#msg18795 date=1076156166
    What's a cool amount to spend?
    you can find that out pretty easily. just give her your credit card and when you recieve the bill. you'll find the cool amount in the balance. :o
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    Hmmm ... although I've never done this before, I've wondered about this scenario, too. Since you two have been cultivating a friendship solely through email and outside of any club lately, I don't think that your shopping trip has PL connotations at all ... especially if this gal is college age. Since most college age guys would rather do anything than shop with girls, I think this is probably a great opportunity to strengthen your bond/friendship with her, and further separate yourself from the pack.

    If it were me, I would set up some perameters for this expedition, such as "You know hon, I've seen you in all of your sexy outfits at the club, so how about we shop for something that you feel 'pretty' in rather than 'sexy'?" Then I would limit it to one outfit (preferably a dress, but likely you'll have to throw in shoes, too). If you haven't been clubbing much lately, it's probably reasonable to spend in the $200 range, but I woudn't spend any more on this than you would on her at the club on an average visit (whatever that number may be). I'd be interested in hearing your shopping TR. My guess is that it will bring you closer together ... shopping is a bonding ritual to the females of the species.

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    Sorry! Can't help you with this one. I am surprised Mr's P's advice wasn't: "Don't buy any pianos." LOL.
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    i thought i did. in any case, he'll learn soon enough after recieving the bill.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TT link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18810#msg18810 date=1076173143
    Hmmm ... although I've never done this before, I've wondered about this scenario, too. Since you two have been cultivating a friendship solely through email and outside of any club lately, I don't think that your shopping trip has PL connotations at all ... especially if this gal is college age. Since most college age guys would rather do anything than shop with girls, I think this is probably a great opportunity to strengthen your bond/friendship with her, and further separate yourself from the pack.

    I'd be interested in hearing your shopping TR. My guess is that it will bring you closer together ... shopping is a bonding ritual to the females of the species.
    Are you joking?

    For the record, the above is the biggest accumilation of Clueless Bullshit I have ever had the questionable priviledge to read.

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    Shopping won't get you any closer to dating her (fucking her= yes; dating her= no). I still don't recommend it. Take her to the movies and give her a cashmere sweater. If you can recall her hair color and the shade of her eyes, the nice clerk can help you select a color. If you want to hear her squeal, get her a gift certificate to Nieman Marcus. It's less damaging that way.
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    Damn Lil, Ive never known you to hold back. Tell us what you REALLY think LOL

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    Hey SW2,

    I have been on a few shopping trips with clientele from the club (back in my single days, of course...)

    The first man who took me shopping was an older gentleman who, in his words, "wanted a girl to take care of." The first time he took me shopping, he brought $500 and told me that whatever we didn't spend that day would be carried on to the next shopping trip. We pretty much walked around the mall and hopped into whatever store I felt like looking in, buying whatever I wanted until he got tired. I thought that was really nice of him.
    The next shopping trip we went on, he brought $350, and I think I spend most of it.
    The second guy who took me shopping didn't give me a limit, we just walked around all of the stores and I bought anything my little heart desired from any store we passed, until I was tired of shopping. Yeah, some of the sales associates gave weird looks, but who the hell cares. With all of the shopping "dates" we had dinner someplace afterwards.

    Both of these men bought me stuff because they wanted to, and seeing me happy with the new stuff made them happy, so I don't really think it makes them PLs or anything. I *fully* respect any guy who wants to take me to the mall, buy me whatever my little heart desires, AND carry all the bags.

    So don't worry SW2, if this girl is as humble as you've described her as being, she definitely won't respect you any less after taking her shopping....so, have FUN, and shop till ya drop!

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    I can't imagine doing what you're about to do and not feeling seriously taken advantage of afterwards.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18826#msg18826 date=1076186768
    I can't imagine doing what you're about to do and not feeling seriously taken advantage of afterwards.
    Lestat, what about paying an escort in nebraska $600 just for the privalege of being able to go shopping for and with her? LOL. i dont even know if you were in chat for that. but i couldn't resist.

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    My philosophy, NO GIFTS!

    Quote Originally Posted by TT link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18810#msg18810 date=1076173143
    I think this is probably a great opportunity to strengthen your bond/friendship with her, and further separate yourself from the pack.
    I'm guessing SW2 is not shooting for a friendship bond, I'm damn sure that wouldn't be my objective if I gave gifts.

    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18826#msg18826 date=1076186768
    I can't imagine doing what you're about to do and not feeling seriously taken advantage of afterwards.
    my thoughts exactly.


    Quote Originally Posted by Theresa link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18821#msg18821 date=1076178325
    Both of these men bought me stuff because they wanted to, and seeing me happy with the new stuff made them happy, so I don't really think it makes them PLs or anything. I *fully* respect any guy who wants to take me to the mall, buy me whatever my little heart desires, AND carry all the bags.
    duh, you were the recipient. Here's my questions for you Theresa: 1) don't you feel at all like you took advantage of those suckers, 2) did you fear that it may lead to unwanted expectations from them?

    Lastly for sander8son, please replace that avatar, damn I thought Carlos's ass avatar was bad but even that was much preferred to your hamburger.



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    Quote Originally Posted by sander8son link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18828#msg18828 date=1076188058
    Lestat, what about paying an escort in nebraska $600 just for the privalege of being able to go shopping for and with her? LOL. i dont even know if you were in chat for that. but i couldn't resist.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lilith link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18819#msg18819 date=1076177518
    Are you joking?For the record, the above is the biggest accumilation of Clueless Bullshit I have ever had the questionable priviledge to read.
    nice work, lilth . did you have to rain on the parade? this guy's bags were packed and he was holding an one-way ticket to Steinway City. in two or three weeks, he would have been back in wondering how could a stripper (who he thought was his friend) max out his credit cards and give him a phony phone number.

    Quote Originally Posted by Lilith link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18819#msg18819 date=1076177518
    Sporty~Shopping won't get you any closer to dating her (fucking her= yes; dating her= no).
    SW2 is the dating type now?

    Quote Originally Posted by Theresa link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18821#msg18821 date=1076178325
    I have been on a few shopping trips with clientele from the club (back in my single days, of course...)
    Quote Originally Posted by Theresa link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18821#msg18821 date=1076178325
    The first man who took me shopping was an older gentleman who, in his words, "wanted a girl to take care of."
    i'm guessing this was before Viagra was introduced.

    Quote Originally Posted by Theresa link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18821#msg18821 date=1076178325
    Both of these men bought me stuff because they wanted to, and seeing me happy with the new stuff made them happy, so I don't really think it makes them PLs or anything.
    what are they, if not PLs? the only explanation i can think of is senile dementia. otherwise, both of the men seem to be as altruistic as the late Mother Theresa.

    Quote Originally Posted by Theresa link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18821#msg18821 date=1076178325
    I *fully* respect any guy who wants to take me to the mall, buy me whatever my little heart desires, AND carry all the bags.
    i would hope so. it's the least you could do.

    Quote Originally Posted by Theresa link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18821#msg18821 date=1076178325
    So don't worry SW2, if this girl is as humble as you've described her as being, she definitely won't respect you any less after taking her shopping.
    i wouldn't be so sure. it's kinda hard to respect a sucker any less, don't you think?

    Quote Originally Posted by sander8son link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18828#msg18828 date=1076188058
    Lestat, what about paying an escort in nebraska $600 just for the privalege of being able to go shopping for and with her?
    now, this is a joke. who pays an escort six bills for that type of service.

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    MP, where did you get that quote as your sig...that's too funny.
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    zbone. read the "Signs that you may be a fucko" thread. cerahas's riffs usually crack me up.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Richard_Head link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18832#msg18832 date=1076190984


    Lastly for sander8son, please replace that avatar, damn I thought Carlos's ass avatar was bad but even that was much preferred to your hamburger.
    Thank you RH for saying what I've been thinking since I first saw it. LOL. I capped on Carlos' avatar...figured I better wait for someone else so I wouldn't sound like the board police.
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    Ya come on Sandy, change that avitar.... we all know that's not YOUR hand LMaO
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    I don't know. My experience is a bit different. I bought ATF probably 4 or 5 outfits but at the club. (It has it's own outfitter shop so to speak.) We tended to do brunch on Sunday morning and one Sunday after brunch we went to the mall. I offered to buy her some outfits and she turned me down. She said in the club it's fine but not when we go out. So... enjoy her company. My ATF relationship appears to be aytypical. Rather than go out with me she insisted we do lunch and that I meet her at her earned income other job for lunch. This means I passed the test as I met her boss and co workers. While safer for her physical security, it is more dangerous to let me near her 'real" life. I never paid for her time when we went out and she never asked. Her mother never knew she danced and I also met her mother. I think I passed that one also. So I am presently marooned beyond the typical ATF situation and under the SO situation. I am convnced that most customer ATF relationships do not involve the real job, meeting the real friends, and the dancers real family, none of whom know she dances and also going over to her house to pick her up and have dinner there on occasion. And she no longer dances. I guess I'm lucky but we are both very confused
    right now. The buying clothes is a more typical ATF thing.

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    I'll gladly take a dancer on a shopping date if SHE pays



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    Quote Originally Posted by Richard_Head link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18832#msg18832 date=1076190984
    Lastly for sander8son, please replace that avatar, damn I thought Carlos's ass avatar was bad but even that was much preferred to your hamburger.
    LOL Carlos, I think you may have misread my above post, I wasn't asking you to bring back your ass avatar, simply stating that it was less repulsive than sandy's hamburger avatar.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Richard_Head link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18875#msg18875 date=1076272859
    Quote Originally Posted by Richard_Head link=board=9;threadid=1254;start=msg18832#msg18832 date=1076190984
    Lastly for sander8son, please replace that avatar, damn I thought Carlos's ass avatar was bad but even that was much preferred to your hamburger.
    LOL Carlos, I think you may have misread my above post, I wasn't asking you to bring back your ass avatar, simply stating that it was less repulsive than sandy's hamburger avatar.
    Yeah Carlos! Save that one for the ladies on SW. I can understand you wanting to moon some of them. LOL. Use another over here.
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