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    How much is too much when tipping at the stage? Do any of you actually tip $20 at the stage? Is so then does this make other dancers stand up and notice or does it serve to cement the PL tag on you?

    I have never tipped anything larger than ones. However, I only go to the stage for my ATF and a couple of other girls. When my ATF is on stage I like to get things started so I sit for her first song and end up shelling out anywhere from 5-15 ones on her while she's snuggling up to me. I then get up and move back to the bar after the first song and let her do her thing.

    The other two ladies usually get about $5 tops at the stage. so that's three out of anywhere from 8-12 dancers on any given night. I'm just a picky guy. I hope it doesn't offend any of the other ladies in the club. I'm sure they get their fair share from elsewhere.

    A funny thing happened one night,
    My ATF was busy when I walked in so I hit the bar and had a drink or two. As time passed I got a bit bored so I hit the stage when one of the only other two I tip was up. No sooner than my sitting down for a few minutes around the stage my ATF comes and sits right next to me..hmm (doesn't want to see that money go elsewhere?) She plays it off by asking me for a one and proceeds to tip the girl on stage with it. I found it funny how her radar found me most likely about to get into someone else and scooped me up.

    Anyways...
    What does a ladie think when she sees a regular always hitting the stage for just 2-3 women and not really giving anyone else the time of day? Automatic PL? Nice guy? Guy with his priorities straight? Picky, Picky, Picky?


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    MW, if the three dancers have a similar look and body type, other dancers accept that as what you like. You can be friends with the toehr dancers without being a customer.... If your three favorite dancers are completely different, other dancers think "why not me?" That makes it harder to just be friends.

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    I would never have a problem with you tipping any other girls, and even getting dances.......

    Some guys don't always want it to be thee exact same everytime they come in......
    I wouldn't ever wnat to make someone think I am that self centered that it wouldn't be ok to spend your own money where you wish too.....

    Oh, and we always love big tips on stage....... They are not the norm, but from a regular from time to time the are really nice.......

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    I tip either 5,10 or 20 dollars depending on who it is and how much I have. Normally I only tip girls I know and my visit to the stage is more an opportunity to let them know Im in the club rather than an effort to get boobs in my face. not that theres anything wrong with that. Ive been thinking about trying to meet some new girls but I'll still probably tip at least $5.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR link=board=9;threadid=1266;start=msg18956#msg18956 date=1076432817
    I tip either 5,10 or 20 dollars depending on who it is and how much I have. Normally I only tip girls I know and my visit to the stage is more an opportunity to let them know Im in the club rather than an effort to get boobs in my face. not that theres anything wrong with that. Ive been thinking about trying to meet some new girls but I'll still probably tip at least $5.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SW2 link=board=9;threadid=1266;start=msg18949#msg18949 date=1076425305
    MW, if the three dancers have a similar look and body type, other dancers accept that as what you like. You can be friends with the other dancers without being a customer.... If your three favorite dancers are completely different, other dancers think "why not me?" That makes it harder to just be friends.
    That's interesting. I never would have thought of it that way. Welll, one "other" is mocha brown, petite with the shape of someone that works out with weights often. The other "other" has that cuban look to her with beautiful brunette hair and a smile that would just floor most men. she's a beautiful woman and she knows it.

    My ATF is a local girl, caucasian, with the most gorgeous green eyes I have ever seen. She's brunette and doesn't have a petite bone in her body. She's very shapely and has well sized fake tatas that look very real. Her personality keeps me busy for the majority of my time in the club. She's just a wonderful person to spend time with.

    Long story short... they're all very different in many ways.


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    I never tip more than a $1 on stage...would be a waste to tip $5 or $10 for a few seconds of "stage dancing" when a full-fledged "I want you now!!!" lap dance is only $10.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EvilCyn link=board=9;threadid=1266;start=msg18953#msg18953 date=1076430618
    I would never have a problem with you tipping any other girls, and even getting dances.......

    Some guys don't always want it to be thee exact same everytime they come in......
    I wouldn't ever wnat to make someone think I am that self centered that it wouldn't be ok to spend your own money where you wish too.....

    Oh, and we always love big tips on stage....... They are not the norm, but from a regular from time to time the are really nice.......

    Licks Cyn
    Cyn, you sound like the ultimate ATF. I am actually one of those men that woud love to have the same experience every time. I'm bordering on RIL status though so my opinion on time spent is probably not very reliable.



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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR link=board=9;threadid=1266;start=msg18956#msg18956 date=1076432817
    I tip either 5,10 or 20 dollars depending on who it is and how much I have. Normally I only tip girls I know and my visit to the stage is more an opportunity to let them know Im in the club rather than an effort to get boobs in my face. not that theres anything wrong with that. Ive been thinking about trying to meet some new girls but I'll still probably tip at least $5.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aggieed link=board=9;threadid=1266;start=msg18962#msg18962 date=1076439722
    I never tip more than a $1 on stage...would be a waste to tip $5 or $10 for a few seconds of "stage dancing" when a full-fledged "I want you now!!!" lap dance is only $10.
    I wish full-fledged LDs were just $10 here. I would spend hours in the back with the ATF.


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    I usually tip my favs $4-5 singles per pass when they're on stage. A dancer I'm friendly with, or one that gives a good effort I'll tip $2 and I'll give the rest the standard $1. I'm not a stage hound. I usually go to the stage only for girls I know or new girls I'd like to meet.

    I have given 5 dollar bill tips to my fav and to new girls to whom I want to say, "remember me when you're off stage, I'd like a dance". But my fav suggested that I use 5 singles because the girls don't always notice a fiver??

    I can easily blow through $40 on stage tips if there are only a few girls working and my favs hit the stage often. Fav1A will never hit a guy up more than twice per set and she even feels funny coming around the second time. She will just dance or come over and talk if there is time left/songs still playing during her stage set.


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    I spend most of time at the stage and will tip anybody $1 when they come around. My favorites will get $2 or $3. New girls I want to get to know can get upwards of $5. It works pretty well for me.

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    Metro I agree. A $5 tip will definitely get some attention. I use that one on a new girl but the $10's and $20's are reserved for flockettes.

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    The rail has gotten way too expensive for me. LOL. Girl's I know and like get a minimum of $5. New girls that get my attention will get that and sometimes more. My fav gets $10-20 depending on how flush I am that night. If a girl doesn't impress me, it will be minimum if I don't want to lose my seat. If I'm that unmotivated by the dancer I usually just go back to a table.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Spanky link=board=9;threadid=1266;start=msg18967#msg18967 date=1076447733
    But my fav suggested that I use 5 singles because the girls don't always notice a fiver??
    Good tip Spanky, thanks.

    I rarely sit at the stage and I don't tip everyone, I will always tip my favs though, generally $1-2, mainly it's just to let them know I'm there and to ask them to stop by my table, they know there's more where that came from. If it's a new girl I would like to know better then it's usually $5-10 just to get her attention. For all others it a buck tops.

    From what I can see I don't think the girls mind that I'm not tipping everyone as long as I'm tipping someone, I think in that job you've got to come to the realization fairly quickly that you will not be everyone's type.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Richard_Head link=board=9;threadid=1266;start=msg18997#msg18997 date=1076465917
    Quote Originally Posted by Spanky link=board=9;threadid=1266;start=msg18967#msg18967 date=1076447733
    But my fav suggested that I use 5 singles because the girls don't always notice a fiver??
    Good tip Spanky, thanks.
    That's why I tip "fucko style" in a blatant/ obvious manner. I make a pyramid out of my ones. They always notice! A single bill whether a $5 or a $10 never got as much response.
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    Pyramid???


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    LOL...fold the ones in half lengthwise so they form a triangle and stand up on their own. Then just stack them. 3-2-1/ 4-3-2-1 Make it as large as you want.
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    Fish, I know the pyramid has worked well for you but to be honest I dont get it. Why would a dancer get more excited over 3 or 4 ones as opposed to a 10 or 20? Is it like christmas where they dont know what surprise might be hidden in the stack?

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    I only tip more than $1 is my ATF and the the ones that you know they make the mad cash just to not make me look too cheap.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR link=board=9;threadid=1266;start=msg19017#msg19017 date=1076528964
    Fish, I know the pyramid has worked well for you but to be honest I dont get it. Why would a dancer get more excited over 3 or 4 ones as opposed to a 10 or 20? Is it like christmas where they dont know what surprise might be hidden in the stack?
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    I could have sworn I explained it before. Saturday night is my regular day. My club has large stages. There could be anywhere from 20-30 at one stage. :o From a distance the dancer can't see a large bill. By stacking 5 ones, the dancer knows immediately there is decent money. Even when the stage is packed, I get a little love in the first song. When another pyramid of 5 appears on the second song, the dancer always comes back and gives me a nice close up when the bottom is gone. :o The girls usually make a show of sweeping the money aside and mauling me. And she usually will chat for a bit while ignoring others. LOL. Too, by being blatant, the others with a buck out can't help but dig deeper to get a little luv too. The girls love the stage inflation. And if it's one of my favs, I'll tip a 3rd time when she comes around to pick up the previous tips. The ROI comes back in some immediate sugar, her undivided attention even though others are begging for laps and in the laps themselves.
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