LOL...This one is for those that fit in the divorced catagory. If it was a LTR of 5 years or more, or if kids are involved, feel free to chime in.
I'm wondering what kind of relationship if any you have with the Ex? Are you friends? Ready to kill on a moments notice? Do you bite the bullet and tough it out for the"kids?"
Damn! I was married for 20 years and with her for 21. The end was so bad... if I ever see her again it will be too soon.The problem... I got custody of my son.
She has custody of my daughter. In the past, I've set up visits with my daughter via e-mail. Those have gotten fewer.
The Ex didn't request to see our son once in the last year.
The one time this year she wanted to see him she gave 1 day's notice and expected me to play chauffer. I didn't even return the call. I don't even want to talk to her. I'll probably teach my son to call and make his own arrangements. (no easy feat. He has special needs) I will play chauffer for him. Not her!!! I'm not seeing my daughter anywhere near enough. I'm working on it. She will be 17 this year so I'm just a fuddy duddy anyway.
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What are things like for you guys? How does it affect you? Sad? Mr_P... I'm sure you have volumes. LOL.



The problem... I got custody of my son.
She has custody of my daughter. In the past, I've set up visits with my daughter via e-mail. Those have gotten fewer.
The Ex didn't request to see our son once in the last year.
The one time this year she wanted to see him she gave 1 day's notice and expected me to play chauffer. I didn't even return the call. I don't even want to talk to her. I'll probably teach my son to call and make his own arrangements. (no easy feat. He has special needs) I will play chauffer for him. Not her!!! I'm not seeing my daughter anywhere near enough. I'm working on it. She will be 17 this year so I'm just a fuddy duddy anyway.
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. i sometimes wonder, if my mentor had not introduced me to the hobby (among other things), would i have gone to counseling? hmmmmmm 
. so, i got married again, when all i really needed was a two or three week vacation. at the time, i thought that it was a sign that i had reached the point that i was ready to "settle down" and lead a "normal life".
d:. i was her little reclamation project and we (re: mr_punk) needed to make some "lifestyle changes" and seek "professional counseling" as Oprah would say. all the extracurricular activities....gone, contact numbers and email addresses....gone, my hobby kit and phone...gone, all my gear....somewhere in the city dump. my wife loved the progress i made
as well as wearing my testicles for earrings.
. i gained weight and not the good kind, either. my physical appearance became slovenly when compared to my own meticulous standard in the past. i filed for divorce the following year. thankfully, no kids.
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