View Poll Results: What's fair for a back rub from a dancer?

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  • No, I just pretend to enjoy them so the dancer's feelings aren't hurt.

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  • They're OK, as long as she doesn't get too grabby.

    8 42.11%
  • I think I might enjoy a dance from the right person, but it hasn't happened yet.

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  • No way! I hate lap dances, which is why I never go near strip clubs or visit this web site.

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    Default Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    Without going into all the options, topless or nude, etc.. what's fair?

    Should it depend on the extent of nudity? And then same as a regular dance?

    Do you even do backrubs?

    One dancer at a club I go to, allows topless back rubs for $10 and I do a minimum of 10. Sometimes she does them, sometimes I do. I guess the lower price is because shes getting something out of it.

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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    Pay? For a backrub? Are you high? I give dancers backrubs and don&#039;t charge for them. Why should she charge for doing that for me? If she&#039;s going to make money from me, its from the dances that her magic fingers extract from me, or because I&#039;ve spent a bunch of time with her and give her a nice tip.

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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    Sad, I agree with NVJosh. If you are getting charged for getting or giving a back massage, you are getting ripped off! In my experience, the girls have always stopped the clock. They were happy to get a massage or the kinks worked out. At my club, girls give them to entice customers into the VIP. As far as nudity... she&#039;s facing away. What difference does it make if she&#039;s topless? You can&#039;t see her boobs anyway. Only the bouncers care. Some say top on for a massage. Some just check to make sure the girl is okay with the contact.

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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    Ive never had one from a dancer. Im usually the one giving them.

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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    I think backrubs from dancers are ridiculous if for a price. Besides, they&#039;re dancers, not massage specialists.



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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    We did do a trade once. She wanted a back rub and gave me a dance in exchange...Was I suppose to report that on taxes?
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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    Whoa, that was a reaction! well, I like it anyway. LMAO!

    In this case, I&#039;m not paying for time as well. I&#039;ve met others who do the same. At $10/song, it&#039;s about $100 for an hour.

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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    I&#039;ve only seen dancers providing back rubs in selected cities, Vancouver British Columbia and Heavenly Bodies in the Chicago area being two. I&#039;ve never paid a dancer when giving her a massage.
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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    Let&#039;s see... you could go to a certified massage therapist for something around $60 an hour... or you could pay a dancer about $100 plus for the same amount of time... hmmmm???? I do believe that&#039;s a tough call! lol

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    I&#039;d rather pay a pro myself. Guys offer me backrubs all the time and the training really shows.

    I don&#039;t like my customers giving me backrubs, its creepy. I do massage as I give dances though. I have a few special relaxation tricks........

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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=9;threadid=1383;start=msg21388#msg21388 date=1081157339
    I&#039;d rather pay a pro myself. Guys offer me backrubs all the time and the training really shows.

    I don&#039;t like my customers giving me backrubs, its creepy. I do massage as I give dances though. I have a few special relaxation tricks........
    i agree kat, customers giving backrubs is kinda creepy.

    BTW, i give great breastrubs.

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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=9;threadid=1383;start=msg21388#msg21388 date=1081157339
    I&#039;d rather pay a pro myself. Guys offer me backrubs all the time and the training really shows.

    I don&#039;t like my customers giving me backrubs, its creepy. I do massage as I give dances though. I have a few special relaxation tricks........
    Kat you havent experienced FBR. $100 bucks says you defintely wouldnt be creeped out.

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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    If a dancer offers a backrub and you accept a proper tip would be anywhere between 1/2 to full price of a dance, depending on how good the rub was and how long she rubbed 4

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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=9;threadid=1383;start=msg21388#msg21388 date=1081157339
    I&#039;d rather pay a pro myself. Guys offer me backrubs all the time and the training really shows.

    I don&#039;t like my customers giving me backrubs, its creepy. I do massage as I give dances though. I have a few special relaxation tricks........
    Katrine, I&#039;m glad not all girls think like you! I&#039;m a fuckoe cum lade because (among other reasons) I enjoy giving dancer massages. I&#039;ve had the whole range of responses ranging from sleeping with drool to twisting away in pain (although most are closer to the former than latter).

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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    my retired ATF used to do a little magic fingers thing around my back and shoulders as part of our routine that -though not a "back rb"-felt pretty damned good! Other than that I&#039;ve never paid for a backrub for myself though I have bought e few (administered by the clubs rubgirl) for some of my favs.

    Don&#039;t underestimate the power of a good foot rub. I have a fav who used to work a saturday double shift at her last club. I would show up around midnight after she&#039;d been on her feet all day, go to the private dance area and start off by giving her a foot massage. the look of bliss on her face was indescribable and it was always good for an extended stay on the LD couch at less than fair market value...
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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    That&#039;s a tough question and here&#039;s my answer.

    Are you going to pay every girl who comes up and massages your shoulders? No. That&#039;s why the club should have an in-house massage girl. That settles most of the problems. Dancers give dances, massage girls give massages.


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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=9;threadid=1383;start=msg21388#msg21388 date=1081157339
    I&#039;d rather pay a pro myself. Guys offer me backrubs all the time and the training really shows.
    i agree. IMO, getting a back rub from a dancer with poor hand and forearm strength is lame. paying for that massage is ridiculous.
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    Default Re:Back Rubs anyone? What's fair?

    If he&#039;s paying me to rub My back or feet, hell yes I&#039;ll accept the offer.

    If he wants to pay me to rub his back, $20 a song plus tip and don&#039;t expect me to let you take your shirt off....

    If he wants me to rub his front, well, drop 1 large on me in the club MINUMUM and maybe we&#039;ll negotiate something for later IF YOU&#039;RE LUCKY AND I&#039;M IN THE MOOD.....more than often NOT!!!

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