Hi everyone, my name is Jenn. I just went to a strip club last weekend with my boyfriend for the first time(Gold Club in SF, Ca) and bought two lap dances (one for me, one for my boyfriend) from one girl. We had no idea how anything is run, so maybe you guys can help me out. Are we supposed to pay before or after the dance? Are we supposed to buy the girl a drink? Are we supposed to tip a lot in addition to the flat fee for the dances?? Does it make a difference we are a couple....meaning, would that be any reason for girls NOT to approach us, offering a dance? It seemed like we weren't approached too often, though we were certainly ready to blow some cash. We are pretty young - 25 years old- but we definitely look like we have some money. Also, I was very interested in the dancing (one of the reasons I wanted to go in the first place) and let the dancer know. She told me I would do very well there, and offered to even have the manager speak to me. Was she just being nice/flattering, or do you think she really meant that?
Sorry everyone, this is all so new to me, so when I go back with my boyfriend, I want to know the right etiquette.....please, help!!! Any advice is much appreciated! And if you are a dancer anywhere in SF, let me know....maybe I will visit you!
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