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    Default Questions from a first timer: Help please!

    Hi everyone, my name is Jenn. I just went to a strip club last weekend with my boyfriend for the first time(Gold Club in SF, Ca) and bought two lap dances (one for me, one for my boyfriend) from one girl. We had no idea how anything is run, so maybe you guys can help me out. Are we supposed to pay before or after the dance? Are we supposed to buy the girl a drink? Are we supposed to tip a lot in addition to the flat fee for the dances?? Does it make a difference we are a couple....meaning, would that be any reason for girls NOT to approach us, offering a dance? It seemed like we weren't approached too often, though we were certainly ready to blow some cash. We are pretty young - 25 years old- but we definitely look like we have some money. Also, I was very interested in the dancing (one of the reasons I wanted to go in the first place) and let the dancer know. She told me I would do very well there, and offered to even have the manager speak to me. Was she just being nice/flattering, or do you think she really meant that?

    Sorry everyone, this is all so new to me, so when I go back with my boyfriend, I want to know the right etiquette.....please, help!!! Any advice is much appreciated! And if you are a dancer anywhere in SF, let me know....maybe I will visit you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jrieu link=board=1;threadid=1391;start=msg21477#msg21477 date=1081330665
    Hi everyone, my name is Jenn. I just went to a strip club last weekend with my boyfriend for the first time(Gold Club in SF, Ca) and bought two lap dances (one for me, one for my boyfriend) from one girl. We had no idea how anything is run, so maybe you guys can help me out. Are we supposed to pay before or after the dance?
    I went to the Gold Club, too, in SF. Got some dances. I paid after.

    Quote Originally Posted by jrieu link=board=1;threadid=1391;start=msg21477#msg21477 date=1081330665
    Are we supposed to buy the girl a drink?
    I offered to buy her a drink. There's no obligation to. She chatted for a while and went off to make more money.

    Quote Originally Posted by jrieu link=board=1;threadid=1391;start=msg21477#msg21477 date=1081330665
    Are we supposed to tip a lot in addition to the flat fee for the dances??
    No requirement to tip. I usually tip for good service.


    Quote Originally Posted by jrieu link=board=1;threadid=1391;start=msg21477#msg21477 date=1081330665
    Does it make a difference we are a couple....meaning, would that be any reason for girls NOT to approach us, offering a dance?
    There's threads going on about that. Some dancers like couples, others don't. The reasons are many and varied.


    Quote Originally Posted by jrieu link=board=1;threadid=1391;start=msg21477#msg21477 date=1081330665
    Also, I was very interested in the dancing (one of the reasons I wanted to go in the first place) and let the dancer know. She told me I would do very well there, and offered to even have the manager speak to me. Was she just being nice/flattering, or do you think she really meant that?
    There is no way to know until you talk to the manager. But it's encouraging that she offered on the spot.


    Quote Originally Posted by jrieu link=board=1;threadid=1391;start=msg21477#msg21477 date=1081330665
    And if you are a dancer anywhere in SF, let me know....maybe I will visit you!
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    I'm not a dancer and I'm not in SF, so the loss is mine.
    You're welcome.

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    Default Re:Questions from a first timer: Help please!

    Hiyas Jrieu!

    Jay hit most of the main points, but a few things I'd add:

    SF is pretty close to "rule-less" when it comes to stripclub models. Almost every club has no real set-in-stone system for pay before/pay after, so this basically equates to pay after or dancer discretion. I'd recommend pre-paying as the dancers do get stiffed fairly often, so pre-paying is always a friendly token... then tip if you wish after.

    Gold Club isn't my favorite SF club, especially in the last few months, but it is fairly traditional by comparison to SF standards, just expect going in there being very high mileage expectations. "Standard" SF mileage is generally two-way contact. If you are comfortable with that, you should speak with the manager and go for an audition and give it a whirl.

    Be advised, starting out in SF is extremely difficult. Stage fees and tip-outs are absurdly high and customer traffic has been fairly rollercoast- totally dead nights and a few busy nights. There is still great money potential, but those first few weeks establishing yourself will be a real killer. Top earners at other clubs I remember their first 2-3 weeks being absolute hell on earth, but toughing through it can yield big rewards.

    If you have any specific SF questions, feel free to PM me. I don't currently know any GC dancers as my only contact there quit under the new regime, but I do know several in the other SF clubs if you need some contacts.

    Good luck!
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    Default Re:Questions from a first timer: Help please!

    some dancers don't like to approach couples because sometimes the guys girl will get mad ,so therefore we don't bother....have you ever tried asking a dancer to dance for you??? also it's pay up front for dances.

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    Default Re:Questions from a first timer: Help please!

    I find most girls won't approach couples. It's best to go to the stage and tip a girl that you are interested in, then ask her to join you at your table or just fat-out ask her at the rail for a dance after her stage set.

    None of the clubs I go to require payment in advance to the dancer but they do require the PD area fee up front. Some girls will ask for payment first if they don't know you.

    Tipping is optional though some dancers are fairly up front about expecting one. A lot depends on the club and how much of a chunk the house is getting.
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    Default Re:Questions from a first timer: Help please!

    Hey Jenn!!! Just make 2 more posts and then you can use the PM feature, Good Luck

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    Default Re:Questions from a first timer: Help please!

    You found the best club for couples in the City. Being a full bar the girls who know what they are doing act like hostesses, converse a little, have a drink and then maybe a dance. It makes females at ease to be in that atmosphere and being sexually charged is more exciting than the usual nightclub. Moreover the Goldclub is more upscale than most and doesn't have that antiseptic cover the cum smell up scent that many do. Not having private rooms or most of the girls whoring also makes things more comfortable. I brought my wife there and she enjoyed herself and got dances and all. I think we ended up hanging out all day we had such a good time. Meeting new people is fun, especially when they know how to take advantage of men, as my wife said. You will find couples are not looked at the same way as single men when in clubs. Maybe because women know the games women play?

    As for buying girls drinks...they can't ask you for one, so if your drinking be polite they might want one too if you and your boyfriend are drinking and if not they don't get anything from the club so they will say no.

    As for dances...paying depends on the girl and how comfortable she is with you...also the club now takes a portion of dances done upstairs so keep that in mind..they don't want to end up owing the club if you don't pay...and tipping beyond dance costs, thats up to you but most appreciate it. Most girls trust couples though and can wait to get paid after the dance...who knows you may want more?

    Enjoy your time at the club....if you have any other questions let me know...also let me know if you have any favorites my wife and I can look for


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