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    Default How to get a stripper to talk to you?

    I don't want to be a fucko, but if there's a cute girl that asks me "Wanna dance?", I'd like to have a feel for her before I accept her offer for the dance (especially if I haven't seen her stage performance yet). It would be nice to form a fake chemistry before a dance so it feels a bit better than just saying yes to the dancer (plus you won't need to do any of this talking during the dances).

    What are some good approaches?

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    Default Re:How to get a stripper to talk to you?

    Just start talking to her. That's what I do. The normal introductions and work off of that.

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    Default Re:How to get a stripper to talk to you?

    But that's what I'm trying to get at. Here is what a normal introduction would be from what you're saying.

    Stripper: "Wanna dance?"
    Me: "Hi, my name is <junkie>. What&#039;s yours?"

    This is how you&#039;ve done it? Sounds a bit off when I did try it since the next thing to come out of her mouth is:

    Stripper: "My name is <delicious>. So wanna dance?"

    There has got to be a better method (although with that method and the response I get above, I know I don&#039;t want a dance from her).

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    Default Re:How to get a stripper to talk to you?

    Honestly say, "I&#039;d like to get acquainted first so we&#039;re both more comfortable having fun back there."

    Lead on from there, sort of like..."Have you been dancing here long? Do you enjoy meeting new guys all the timer?"

    This is giving her one more chance, this time with a bigger hint. Dancers need to be able to respond to their clients; it&#039;s part of the job.
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    tell her to sit down and start talking. it&#039;s your money. you don&#039;t have to spend it on dancers who refuse to sit down and talk to you.
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    The cute girl may not know how to talk to guys. Maybe she has no father in her life. Maybe her sometime BF is the silent type.... You can respond to "Wanna dance?" with "Maybe if I knew something about you..." Then ask the first question, like, "You have any tattoos of dangerous animals?" Anything to catch them off guard and make them smile.... I once got an answer to "How many guys lifetime?" before the first dance, along with "I&#039;m not like that now. Most of them were when I was young and thought guys really liked me."

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    I have found myself to be most attracted to the lovely lady that&#039;s going to sit and chat for a minute. Being genuine and making good conversation always works well. If she&#039;s more into getting the quick dollar and floating on then I let her float right on by with a simple "no thanks".


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    Default Re:How to get a stripper to talk to you?

    Quote Originally Posted by mr_punk link=board=9;threadid=1435;start=msg22364#msg22364 date=1082934522
    tell her to sit down and start talking. it&#039;s your money. you don&#039;t have to spend it on dancers who refuse to sit down and talk to you.
    Mr. P...a response I wouldn&#039;t expect from you. :o It&#039;s usually: "I pay dancers to perform. Not to talk." LOL.

    On that note... for me physical attraction is paramount. It will usually get their foot in the door. I can talk before during or after the dance to decide if there will be more if they are that hot. That&#039;s just me. That said... I agree with Mr. P. There was a girl by the name of Paris that I was enamored of. She had great stages and I always tipped well. When she came over with the "wanna dance," I wasn&#039;t quite ready. I asked her to sit down and talk for a few minutes and she said she needed to hustle. Her loss! Next!!!!
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    Default Re:How to get a stripper to talk to you?

    I don&#039;t have to have the fake chemistry, if she&#039;s hot and her dances are good I&#039;m happy. That being said, maybe she just needs some time to get comfortable around you before she will open up, I&#039;ve always found the best way to do this is to spend some money on them, a good dancer will know what it takes to keep that money flowing, if she doesn&#039;t, find someone else.

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    If you really need to talk to the hussy that badly, give her a fiver, tell her to sit down and talk to you for one song, and work on the "chemistry". If she sucks, then you&#039;re only out of $5, versus $20 plus.....


    Its not rocket science man. Also, if you are asking her to sit and talk after midnight on a busy work night, its a waste of her time to talk when she can be getting back-to-back dances from other PL&#039;s.

    Personally, if its midnight on a Friday at the club, I am NOT going to sit down and talk to any potential cheap scrub, when I know that I will not be turned away for a single "wanna dance". I have to think of profit maximization....

    Try to talk to her on a slow night, see what happens. It is YOUR money. You are paying for service, not a companion....

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    Katrine is absolutly correct- time is money in this business and a small tip like $5 will go a long way to get you what your looking for in this type of situation

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    Hmm, to be blunt... why bother? Cute doesn&#039;t necessarily mean your going to have a good time with her. And in a way Katrine kind of said it, talk is just a waste of her time. We are just PLs to a lot of dancers. Why not spend your money on a girl that you hit it off with (even if she is not the cutest)? I just don&#039;t see any point in trying to get her to talk to you. You are there to have a good time. She is there to make money. So have a good time, and just so no thanks if you don&#039;t yet have any feel for her. Or if she is just bomb shell and you can&#039;t help yourself, take the dance, enjoy it, and forgo the talk.

    I enjoy the fantasy as much as anyone else, but if comes down to having to pay just to get her to chat with you for a few minutes, well that would just blow the fantasy for me.


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    i know this is gonna sound revolutionary.... but why not TALK TO HER?!?!?!? you know, ask her a question or two. especially if its not busy. you could even go up to her on stage and say, "when you&#039;re done with your set, wanna come chat with me at my table?"

    im a social fuckup, but i can talk to strippers. see, they get paid to "like" us. so its not that hard to talk to them.

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    If you like her so much give her one hundred for two twenty dollar dances...at least she&#039;ll remember you and next time you go she may say hi.

    Warning though,she may be disapointed the next time if you don&#039;t tip as well,lol...

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    I kinda did what the person above said except that I didn&#039;t do it on purpose. I found a hot dancer and got the 8 song VIP special, she was so hot and knew just the right moves. She knew when to switch and when to continue. It got me going that it ended at 5 songs.


    We talked during the rest of that time. Cute and professional, doesn&#039;t like to waste time chatting normally she says. Here to make the money which I understand. I just didn&#039;t want to waste my money letting her go at the 5 songs since I paid for the 8 song VIP already. .

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    I&#039;ve never bought a dance from a girl who just came over and asked for one. Ya gotta work a little harder than that to get old yodi&#039;s cash. But seriously, the chemistry thing is important to me too. Even if it is BS chemistry. Fortunately for me, in the clubs I frequent, there doesn&#039;t seem to be a shortage of intelligent, beautiful women who are willing to invest a little time in their craft.
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