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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    Checked my email and saw one from Miss D that she sent right after I left. An excerpt from it is as good a follow up as any.

    "Hope you have a great trip. Thanks for the cash anyhow on Fri.--I needed it to pay my stupid rent. I can give you a Sat for it--if you want If not, I'll count it towards the "I heart Miss D" retirement fund (hehe).

    Call me when you get back. Can't wait to see your white ass (hehe)"


    Well, I can't fault her for asking for the 5 as a bonus, although just saying "love" or inserting a heart smilie instead of the word "heart" would have been more effective But clearly, she's willing to go along with whatever I decide



    Had I cancelled I would agree but it was a ballet convention. That's sort of like an Act of God, right? Or one of those other occurrences that provide non-payment loopholes . But I'm a stand up guy so if I do decide to take advantage of her offer, I will compensate her for the short time we did spend together. Since I bought her a nice lunch and drinks and my charm and conversation was particularly entertaining that day as I recall, my offer probably won't exceed $100. I know that sounds cheap but, well, you just had to be there.

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    I don't think ballet constitutes an act of god, no. And you'd have to be pretty fucking charming to make up for clearing my afternoon and me coming away without cash. But you know - I wouldn't have offered the money back to begin with. Hey - your screw up, right?

    Although - I'd probably be happy with the money and not insist on pummeling your testicles. I don't get that either.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    I don't think ballet constitutes an act of god, no. And you'd have to be pretty fucking charming to make up for clearing my afternoon and me coming away without cash. But you know - I wouldn't have offered the money back to begin with. Hey - your screw up, right?

    Although - I'd probably be happy with the money and not insist on pummeling your testicles. I don't get that either.
    Miss D is in charge of getting the hotel/motel room so a reasonable person would assume that she's the one that screwed up. I mean, she could have done the "call ahead seating" in an effort to make sure that no pesky ballet conventions would fucko our get together. Based on her lack of business proactiveness, I should be the one reeling and offended from the shock of having a Saturday fun nuked. But for whats it's worth, all is forgiven. I was mildly irritated but I saw her at the club tonight and after being suitably schmoozed, scheduled a get togther this coming Saturday. At full price. So she got her bonus after all. I'm OK with it. My warchest is flush at the moment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    Miss D is in charge of getting the hotel/motel room so a reasonable person would assume that she's the one that screwed up. I mean, she could have done the "call ahead seating" in an effort to make sure that no pesky ballet conventions would fucko our get together. Based on her lack of business proactiveness, I should be the one reeling and offended from the shock of having a Saturday fun nuked. But for whats it's worth, all is forgiven. I was mildly irritated but I saw her at the club tonight and after being suitably schmoozed, scheduled a get togther this coming Saturday. At full price. So she got her bonus after all. I'm OK with it. My warchest is flush at the moment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by James Bond View Post
    FBR Meets Jenny OTC






    I have a different vision of the character's portrayed above. I envision that this is the ideal OTC between Mr_Punk and Jenny. Mr_Punk's obvious response to the situation above: Is that all you've got? How disappointing!

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    Wow, 007, I totally missed your comment I don't understand from the couple of posts Jenny and I made how you would conclude that she wants to turn my balls into bloody, spermy mush. Jenny and I get along just fine. My feelings would be hurt if she did more than don a set of work gloves (to avoid scrotum cooties) and smack my balls around a little bit...you know...just to wake me up. I'm OK with that. But I don't think she's motivated to inflict permanent damage.

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    FBR, that GIFF featuring Jenny and you was just for laughs. You kinda remind me of the guy in the GIFF by your avatar, and Jenny reminded me of the girl in the GIFF because she is the biggest ball buster on SW.

    I know you guys get along, you both just happen to come to mind when I seen that GIFF. Besides, some guys pay good money for that treatment (not me, though), so it wasn't a Jenny VS FBR GIFF.

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    Quote Originally Posted by James Bond View Post
    Jenny reminded me of the girl in the GIFF because she is the biggest ball buster on SW.
    Well hell, that's what I get for being out of practice. Relegated to bat cleanup.

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    Quote Originally Posted by evan_essence View Post
    Well hell, that's what I get for being out of practice. Relegated to bat cleanup.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Oh, I didn't realize that. You're right. Absolutely. In fact, I think she now owes you money.
    Ah, simpatico is truly a wonderful thing. It has taken work on both our parts but the results demonstrate the worthiness of the effort. I'm thrilled with the spirit of understanding that has developed between Jenny and me

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    This seems a more appropriate place for my current situation than the trip reports thread, so here we go.

    To get ya'll caught up, while talking with my current ATF after a VIP in June, she asked for my number. I should mention that by current ATF, I mean I've seen her 2-3 times a year for maybe 3 years or so. I'm not exactly a regular, but I always see her each time I do go.

    Back to the VIP (which was hot). We spent the second half chatting, and I heard her life story. She said she wanted to be friends, and even balked initially when I went to tip her extra at the end of the VIP, saying that money and friends don't mix (but being a college student she'd take it). I really thought it was all StripperShit(tm) and simply planned on seeing her again ITC when I was up for it. Then she called two days later and we chatted briefly over the next few days. She mentioned grabbing lunch sometime, and said she'd call later in the week to set it up. A little over two weeks later she finally called - this was yesterday. She's been "busy" and apologized for not calling. I hadn't called her either since I didn't know what was going on and figured, again, just some good StripperShit(tm). She said we should try to get lunch tomorrow (i.e. today) and said she'd call. She didn't.

    All the signs are there that she's not interested in OTC. The problem is plenty of signs are there that she is. I never pursued OTC or even hinted at it. I really am happy with just seeing her ITC. She asked for my number, she called me, she keeps asking me out to lunch. Then it never materializes. {sigh}

    The frustrating thing is, I'd like to see her ITC this week or next, but not if she's being genuine about the whole friends thing. In that case, I'd like to pursue whatever kind of OTC thing she'd like. So I'm in limbo.
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    Maybe she is just playing hard to get? Or maybe she is just a flake and returns calls late. Maybe she meant it at the time, and then forgot or changed her mind. Maybe she expected you to offer to pay her? From the typical SS perspective - and keep in mind that this isn't something I do, but rationally - why would you bother setting up and grooming a 2 time a year customer? I'm sure you're nice and a great customer, but I can't imagine how you would be worth external maintenance based on that frequency.

    I think you've hit on a great way of dealing - "I'd really like to keep giving you money, but I don't want to if we're going to be friends and see each other outside..."
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    Each situation is different so here is one perspective from someone that has had a similar situation. Same deal she asked for my number and said she would like to have dinner or lunch sometime. I was fine with that thinking it was either maintenance, or perhaps she really did like me. Didn't matter much either way to me. I liked her, but I don't put a lot of value in this type of conversation in a SC. I just go with the flow.

    Anyway, she would call and talk for a bit and say we should get lunch. Then she would not call (same type of thing as you described). I resolved it by being direct.

    I told her that I thought she was interesting and I would love to have lunch/dinner/whatever with her sometime, but no money would change hands for this other than me paying for dinner, etc. like I would with any woman. If she is just trying to maintain me as a customer that is fine also, but stop with the calls and broken appointments. That will ruin our business relationship as I do not like being played. If she stops now then we can maintain that business relationship.

    "Problem" was solved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Maybe she is just playing hard to get? Or maybe she is just a flake and returns calls late. Maybe she meant it at the time, and then forgot or changed her mind. Maybe she expected you to offer to pay her? From the typical SS perspective - and keep in mind that this isn't something I do, but rationally - why would you bother setting up and grooming a 2 time a year customer? I'm sure you're nice and a great customer, but I can't imagine how you would be worth external maintenance based on that frequency.
    Thanks Jenny, thats a sensible point I hadn't thought of. It does seem like a lot of maintenance effort for so little money.

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    I think you've hit on a great way of dealing - "I'd really like to keep giving you money, but I don't want to if we're going to be friends and see each other outside..."
    I can't tell what that means...and I'm not dealing so well. It's stressful.

    Actually I would still go see her ITC and give her money if it didn't make things too weird OTC, but of course, it would be weird getting dances from a friend. I feel weird just being waited on by a friend at a restaurant. Also there is her comment about not mixing friends and money.
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    I'm not claiming for one second to know what you girl's motivations are - that would be trying to think like a stripper and my head hurts every time I try to do that!
    What I CAN tell you is that anytime an OTC arrangement has had a favorable outcome for me it always involved the gal calling when she said she would call and there was never any gray area on either side about what was and was not going to happen. I tend to forget about the ones who flake on me pretty quickly - both ITC and OTC.
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    I agree with Criz and Yoda. I used to be a regular of a dancer in Tucson that pulled this same SS, always saying she wanted to have lunch, and telling me she wanted to travel with me to Phoenix to visit my favorite clubs and dancers there. I bought into it enough to make a minor fool of myself trying to set something up, but she never came through and I finally recognized that awesome aroma of expertly applied SS designed to keep me coming into her club.

    I recall some very wise advice in an earlier thread from The Other Owner - "The dancer ALWAYS chooses". If she is truly interested, she'll make it happen regardless of what you do or don't do. I think Criz's little "come to Jesus" meeting with his dancer is great advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I'm not claiming for one second to know what you girl's motivations are - that would be trying to think like a stripper and my head hurts every time I try to do that!
    What I CAN tell you is that anytime an OTC arrangement has had a favorable outcome for me it always involved the gal calling when she said she would call and there was never any gray area on either side about what was and was not going to happen. I tend to forget about the ones who flake on me pretty quickly - both ITC and OTC.
    Yoda has nailed it. BTW this same thing applied to real GFs for me. The ones that worked out, and the one that has been my S.O. for many years is on time, calls on time, etc., just like I do - it's common courtesy if nothing else. When they don't, save your emotional and mental energy trying to figure it out. It's just not worth it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 View Post
    Back to the VIP (which was hot). We spent the second half chatting, and I heard her life story.<snip>
    frankly, it sounds like she's attempting to step up her game and string you along. i mean, after 6 or so meetings over a 3 year period. all of a sudden she's running this friend game on you. in my experience, when i click (ie: fun and games ITC and/or OTC) with a stripper. it happens fairly quickly rather than slowly. which is one way to separate the producers from the bullshitters. generally speaking, when a sex worker begins to present herself as anything other than recreation theme park. it's time to beware. anyway, don't take it personal or get wrapped up in the issue. girls have to try and string along guys to make money.
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    I can't tell what that means...and I'm not dealing so well. It's stressful. Actually I would still go see her ITC and give her money if it didn't make things too weird OTC, but of course, it would be weird getting dances from a friend. I feel weird just being waited on by a friend at a restaurant. Also there is her comment about not mixing friends and money.
    OTOH, it's "mission accomplished" in the sense that you're focused on the issue and want to give her money. OTOH, she may have made a mistake by overplaying her hand.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mr_punk View Post
    OTOH, it's "mission accomplished" in the sense that you're focused on the issue and want to give her money. OTOH, she may have made a mistake by overplaying her hand.
    I'm single now. Girlfriend money is now recreation/dancer money, so I'm stepping up my visits regardless of the ATF. She gets the bulk of my business because she gives some of the best [bed] dances I've ever had and at a very reasonable price. Granted, her SS has kept me thinking of her, but at the same time I won't see her ITC until this matter is clear to me. So yeah, in that sense she went a little too far with the SS.
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    I agree with the others...sounds like she has complicated things by suggesting OTC (while apparently having no intention to follow through) and now has you feeling queasy about the whole situation. And I doubt she even realizes that by her actions she has placed your business is jeopardy. Bad move on her part, especially considering you have been content with just ITC for three years.

    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1
    The frustrating thing is, I'd like to see her ITC this week or next, but not if she's being genuine about the whole friends thing. In that case, I'd like to pursue whatever kind of OTC thing she'd like. So I'm in limbo.
    Well, I can see pursuing OTC if you believe it will get you more action than you have been receiving ITC...even if it costs you more money. And you can still be "friendly" while transacting business. But real honest to god friends? Strippers are notorious users of other people. Hell, even Miss D, who is the most reliable and straightforward stripper I have ever met, runs though "friends" like underwear. I'd hate to see you turn into the "friend" who she phones and asks to bring her a pizza to work or calls you at 2AM to give her a ride home from work because her boyfriend didn't show to pick her up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    Well, I can see pursuing OTC if you believe it will get you more action than you have been receiving ITC...even if it costs you more money. And you can still be "friendly" while transacting business. But real honest to god friends? Strippers are notorious users of other people. Hell, even Miss D, who is the most reliable and straightforward stripper I have ever met, runs though "friends" like underwear. I'd hate to see you turn into the "friend" who she phones and asks to bring her a pizza to work or calls you at 2AM to give her a ride home from work because her boyfriend didn't show to pick her up.

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    Oh for crying out loud, FBR. We aren't automatons. We sometimes actually like people. I mean, not that many, but some. And for crying out loud (again!) you wanna know who are notorious users of people, look at freaking strip club customers. Gawd.

    I still think if he is on the level - like he is okay going back to being a customer, but would prefer "friendship or more" (keep in mind, that "lunch" may not, even the best case scenario, mean she wants or is willing to fuck you) that a handy way of dealing is by putting like that. I would like to be your customer, but I don't feel comfortable doing both - so is there is potential for a "real life" relationship I think I'd like to stop seeing you in the club." Trust me - if it is SS (in which case this girl needs to learn to strategize) that will make it go away because it puts firmly on the table that it is achieving the opposite of what she wants. Unless she's retarded. I'm assuming that she is of normal human intelligence.

    Okay - I'll level too. I've never made a secret that I've dated customer and that I've been friends with customers (again, not that many, but some). There have also been guys that, when I was drunk or whatever I thought were great, but the next day wondered what I was thinking. Or some neutral, non-insulting variation of that sentence. Point being, sometimes things seem like a good idea and you then change your mind. And that can go for a lot of things - like if she were assuming that there would be paid sex involved or whatever. And yes, maybe she should just tell you she changed her mind, but that is an awkward conversation, and again - losing a twice a year customer is not likely to sting too bad (although I'm sure you're delightful) so you might just not bother with damage control.
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    Jenny, seems to me you are just defending a sister's behavior that I doubt you yourself would engage in. He has been content for three years to be a happy money spending ITC customer. I always thought that is what dancers want. Keep it in the club and give me money. And yet she's now throwing out the OTC crap and you are suggesting that she might be serious. Hell, she won't even be seen in public with him for a simple lunch much less becoming dating material or a hanging out buddy.

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    Dude - I just said I've done it. Anyone who has never thought better of giving someone their contact information, raise your hand? And sorry, but I thought there was something a little precious about calling us notorious users after you opened with: "Well, I can see pursuing OTC if you believe it will get you more action than you have been receiving ITC...even if it costs you more money but I'd never actually be friends with one." Seriously - I just leafed through some threads here, and you calling us "users" - I don't even know what the pot is calling the kettle, but "black" is insufficient for these purposes.

    I completely acknowledged the fact that she could be not serious, or that she could have expected an financial offer to occur (I don't know, is "lunch" code for something? Like "So we could meet for lunch?" is meant to garner the response of "so $400 for an hour of sex?"). I also pointed out that it would not occur to someone of reasonable human intelligence to try to string a long a twice a year customer, and that strippers get drunk and then change their minds about things. That is, she wasn't calculating when she made the offer, but subsequently changed her mind (for whatever reason) and opted to just brush it off rather than explain. Really the "maybe she just returns calls late" was not something I was focusing on. I also suggested that if he wants to just close it, to put it to her like one or the other - trust me, when you threaten to take our money away, these things get clear.

    Finally - what do we say to every guy who is ever "does she really like me?" We say "statistically, probably not, but we don't know her."
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    Dude, I'm sorry. I like totally misread. I thought your said that you have dated a few customers and have become friends with a few others. I totally missed where you said that you hinted or blatantly promised OTC, played customers on the phone but then flaked. I apologize for doubting your stripper professionalism and tactics.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    Dude, I'm sorry. I like totally misread. I thought your said that you have dated a few customers and have become friends with a few others. I totally missed where you said that you hinted or blatantly promised OTC, played customers on the phone but then flaked. I apologize for doubting your stripper professionalism and tactics.

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    Thank you for that blatant and ridiculous mischaracterization. Are you channeling punk right now? I said that I have, on occasion, sometimes thought that seeing someone would be fun or interesting and then decided subsequently that it wouldn't. Again - anyone who has never regretted exchanging numbers raise your hand. I don't hint or promise OTC the way you guys talk about because I don't do OTC the way you guys talk about, but I also don't fuck guys or date them just to be polite after I've used poor judgment. I know it is much easier to sort of polarize it into "prostitute waiting for an offer" and "lying stripper" because, well, those are the only purposes we serve for you, but sometimes, even for mutant breeds like us, there are just normal social gaffes that are maybe not handled in the best way. It's the whole "we are human beings" thing, you know - I mean you don't have to care about it, but you not caring doesn't make it non-existant.
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    I was waiting for the conclusion to the latest round before posting, but I don't think it'll happen tonight. So here goes...

    She called me while I was at work today but I didn't answer. So she called again, and then texted me. Fortunately I was shortly on my way out and called her back. She's grabbing dinner with her kid and invites me along. Okay, but I'm a ways away so it'll be a little while to fight rush hour traffic. No problem, she can't stay long but at least we'll meet up for a little while just to see each other she says. About half-way there I get a call (I assume everyone knows where this is headed). Drama with her friend, she has to run, but maybe we'll meet up later tonight and grab a snack or she'll stop by my place? Ooookay. She apologizes for flaking yesterday and again today, joking about how I didn't call her before and I'll probably never call her now. I tell her not to worry.

    My prediction is no call tonight, then a call tommorrow along the lines of: "hey I work the rest of the nights this week, but we should meet up this weekend for lunch." Then a repeat of the above. Anyone want to place bets?
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    Jenny, Punk knows I'm not even in his county in terms of being ruthless. He would laugh at the suggestion. I mean, I make an effort to actually like the strippers I engage. Its more fun for me. He prefers that they be headless and without limbs as long as they are still warm and he doesn't get arrested for abusing a corpse.

    But back to your point, I wish for stat's sake it had been a drunken slip of the tongue. I've been drunk and have said things I regretted too. Thats something most of us would forgive. But for her to belatedly call two weeks after the fact suggesting once again OTC and then once again not following through seems to imply a business ethic that I thought you would be disturbed by, at least in principle.

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