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FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
Kat I find it bizarre that you are struggling to hang onto a satisfying steady fuck. I take yoda's word that you are hot. Plus you are very cool here and a pleasure to talk to. I'm starting to think that instead of wanting to hang out with regular guys you are psychotically attracted to self centered gay ass metrosexual boys. I'm about to start up a collection to raise the money to get you some therapy, hon. All of us here are rooting for you. Even the Punkster, I bet.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
"Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
"And do the cats give a shit? No, they do not. Why? Because they're cats."-from The Onion
Originally Posted by Mia M




Wow, this thread, which started out with such promise went bad. I can't believe I spent the time reading it. I was going to post about the "WTF just happened" night. I think I am just going to pass on it. I have no desire to be made fun of by Jenny, Kat, or anyone else. I guess I'll just take it to the grave.......................
Have we not heard the chimes at midnight?
Once more, unto the breach, dear friends.
If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
-- Its always amazed me how no one learns the lines from Shakespeare. I guess it is true that people don't learn history's lessons until something become's their history.
Dude - if you don't want to be made fun of, you probably shouldn't post here at all. Posting in blue means being made of.
I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth




Geez Jenny, do you troll the database looking for posts with your name? 3 minutes? The doctor can help you with your paranoia.............![]()
Have we not heard the chimes at midnight?
Once more, unto the breach, dear friends.
If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
-- Its always amazed me how no one learns the lines from Shakespeare. I guess it is true that people don't learn history's lessons until something become's their history.





She just knows the good threads to watch for Joe. This one has provided hours of entertainment for all of us. It looks like it's about to take a turn for the better too.![]()
But seriously Joe, being made fun of is half the fun. It's a badge of honour to take it and give it cheerfully.




Have we not heard the chimes at midnight?
Once more, unto the breach, dear friends.
If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
-- Its always amazed me how no one learns the lines from Shakespeare. I guess it is true that people don't learn history's lessons until something become's their history.




Have we not heard the chimes at midnight?
Once more, unto the breach, dear friends.
If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
-- Its always amazed me how no one learns the lines from Shakespeare. I guess it is true that people don't learn history's lessons until something become's their history.
No one is going to beg you. Share if you want.
"Have you ever been to American wedding? Where is the vodka, where's marinated herring?" - GB
"And do the cats give a shit? No, they do not. Why? Because they're cats."-from The Onion
Originally Posted by Mia M




And "I'll respect you in the morning"
Honestly, I probably will. Just not today.
I apologize for my comment being taken out of context. This thread really went down hill after a while. FBR, Kat, and Jenny seemed to be giving each other a lot of $hit in it. I had assumed my comment would be taken that way. I guess being a new guy, my dry humor went undetected.
JoeSoUncool
Have we not heard the chimes at midnight?
Once more, unto the breach, dear friends.
If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
-- Its always amazed me how no one learns the lines from Shakespeare. I guess it is true that people don't learn history's lessons until something become's their history.









Have we not heard the chimes at midnight?
Once more, unto the breach, dear friends.
If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
-- Its always amazed me how no one learns the lines from Shakespeare. I guess it is true that people don't learn history's lessons until something become's their history.
I just came off of a really nice vacation time with Mrs FBR. It was a long time coming and was really good. But I already have an OTC scheduled with Miss D tomorrow. If there ever was a time to get back to the real world this would be it. But I keep thinking about Miss D's Lady Godiva hair, curvey shape, natural D's and her beautiful smile. And the RR lotion fun.
I will most likely be a slut tomorrow. I liked me better when I could be a dawg and not worry about it.
Just venting, guys.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.





We all have choices to make FBR. I was at Disney about eight years ago on a family vacation when I went down to the pool alone one morning to get out of earshot from the wife and kid and return a VM left by my then ATF. We talked about when I was going to be home and if I was coming in on my birthday. Even then I was way past the point of feeling guilty about my lusting after beautiful young women from foreign countries...it's only gotten worse but I have to be honest, I like me just fine.
I mean, as long as we are just venting....



Been there, done that exact same thing as well. I once even went to a club in Hawaii to get LDs from Sunset Thomas while my family was hanging out at our hotel about a hundred yards away. More recently, on MLK day I took my wife to Phoenix so she could go wedding dress shopping with my recently engaged daughter. I dropped them off so I could go do my own shopping at REI, etc., but instead spent the afternoon with my ATF at my favorite club, which was about three blocks from the bridal shop! Like Yoda, my guilt meter broke a long time ago.....
Speaking of other close encounters between real life and club-life, I used to have my ATF's phone number in my cell directory with the name just coded as "Zzz". Once I tried calling her while I was at home, but got VM. She tried calling back just a few minutes later, but I had left my phone on kitchen counter and had gone out to the garage when it rang. My wife answered, and the ATF hung up, and I had to think quick to make up a plausible explanation for who Zzz was. Now, I just put in full names, sort of like hiding in plain sight, and can explain any name that comes up as a work colleague. (That little incident freaked out my ATF just a bit!)
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@FBR
Vent away buddy.It seems you are at a real crossroads of things regarding the women in your 'life'.
I've done my version of the above with various women. Out in a club with one girl, hitting on another at another part of the club. I've even go so far as to have hurried sex with women while another was waiting for me to return from "saying hi to friends", etc.
I don't have a wife and a mistress combo, but I have my own compressed-time versions.
I don't feel guilty usually, I get a thrill from being able to do it.
I'd have to be upfront about any potential outside-the-relationship activities though. I don't care much about sexual fidelity, but I'm a big believer in loyalty and such things.
You can't love something you think is flawless - me





I personally think that in the P4P arena that grey area is never greyer than when talking about commercial sex with strippers.
Certainly there are exceptions. I am sure that when Kat had a play for pay encounter she acknowledged it as such, but I find SOOO many dancers who muddy the water in this regard as to place them in a category of sexual services providers entirely of their own.
Candidly, that this is true is precisely why I seek such services from strippers.
Since these women go to such extreme lengths of mental agility to convince themselves they aren't actually being paid for the sex they are providing to their client they can't very well treat said client like a john. To do so would puncture the bubble of their illusion. So the client gets treated more like a boy-friend, or a friend with benefits. The sex is usually much more "real" feeling than with providers who cut off their mental selves from the client. Something this type of stripper/provider can not do because, again, dropping a wall in front of her psyche is an admission that the sex that is taking place is purely a commercial act and that would make her a prostitute and in her mind she is no such thing.
While I would normally find such a huge parting with reality troublesome, I feel in these situations if it can be maintained without there being any harm to the young Lady in question, I can keep my head below the clouds and my feet on the ground, and no one is getting hurt, while we are both getting what we want from it, it isn't a bad thing.
Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.
BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?
Sounds like a good explanation why some men would rather seek sex with a stripper, vs the sure-thing they could get from an escort.
I guess the only thing I'd add is that for some people the thrill is in a new conquest, a thrill that escorts really can't provide except via role play. Strippers represent some "challenge" for those who desire the thrill of a seduction.
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