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    My first post here after lurking for a while ... hope you all don't slam me too much. This post should probably be called "The (so far unsuccessful) Pursuit of The Holy Grail".

    In the last year I've considerably stepped up the frequency of my SC'ing. Mostly after work stops at a nice club that happens to be about halfway between my work and home. So, of course, I have a favorite (let's call her Ms. L). She seems very receptive to OTC, and I've been trying to arrange it for a couple of months now, but something always fouls the plans. I'm starting to wonder if she's maybe just stringing me along. (ok, I realize I'm on the verge of sounding like a naive idiot)

    About 2 months ago we actually made arrangements to meet. I was in the club on a Thursday night. We agreed to meet the next day for dinner and fun before she came to work. She said to pick her up outside the club about 4:15. So I showed up and waited .... waited ... waited until after 5:00 ... no show.

    (Sorry -- Gotta go -- I'll have to finish this post later)

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    ... picking up where I left off...

    I waited around till after 5, and she doesn't show. I go to a nearby restaurant and grab a bite, then go into the club around 6-ish. It's Friday and my wife is out of town visiting her sister so there's no need to hurry home. I hang out for a while, have a couple drinks ... chat with a few of the dancers ... finally around 7:30 she appears on stage. I go up to tip her and before I say anything she's apologizing and says as soon as she gets off stage she'll come over to talk. Turns out she was waiting for her boyfriend to give her a ride (why she doesn't drive is another story altogether - maybe a later post), he normally gets off work at 3, but she forgot this day he worked till 6, and she didn't have my phone number to call and let me know. (So we exchange phone #'s). I suggested we try again tomorrow - she says how about 4:00 - I'm thinking okay the Buckeyes play at noon so the game should be over by then (I do have priorities, you know) - so I say OK 4:00 it is. All this actually took place over the course of a couple hours with a few drinks and some really nice lap dances mixed in.

    Next day (Saturday) I'm hanging out at home - wife's out of town and the kids are away at college, so nobodies around - around 3:30 ish I start geting ready to go meet her. I'm sort of laughing at myself cause I feel a little nervous like a teenager going on a date -- how ridiculous is that? Anyway my phone rings and it's her number. She's so sorry, but she has to cancel cause her baby has a high fever and can't hold down food and she's taking her to Childrens Hospital (this was at the peak of the H1N1 Flu). I said fine, hope everything turns out OK and I'll call you later in the week.

    So, at this point I'm 0 for 2!

    The number she gave me was her home phone. She said her cell phone was stolen. I call a couple times the next week but either there's no answer or she answered and said she was busy and could I call back later. I stop in the club a few times over the next few weeks ... as I said before my habit is to stop in after work - arriving around 5 or 6 and leaving between 7 and 8 - if I'm out any later than that the wife would start asking questions. Unfortunately Ms L doesn't usually arrive until 7 or 8 so you can see the problem. The couple times we see each other we had some very enjoyable LD's, shared some stimulating conversation (seriously, that's as much the reason I like her as her smokin hot body!), and continue to discuss OTC possibilities but no definite plans. She mentions more than once that her birthday is coming up ... hint, hint! One other funny sidenote - she tells me her 3 year old dumped the cordless phone in the toilet so whenever she talks on the phone she has to use the speaker phone.

    By this time I figure that communication issues are a major impediment to my goal, so a couple weeks ago I bought a prepaid cell phone and a card with an extra $30 of airtime. When I saw her in the club I said "I bought you an early birthday present", and pulled out the phone. She was very excited and cute, and put my number in it and everything seemed very cool.

    Since then most of the times I called there's no answer. Once she answered but said she was busy and could I call her later. Last Tuesday I went in the club (after having tried to call several times that day to find out what time she was going in). I saw a waitress who she's friends with and asked her if she gave L a ride to work - she said "No, I haven't talked to her in 3 or 4 days". When I said Ms. L didn't answer her phone, she said she probably lost it or had it stolen. By this time I was just about ready to give up on L. I bought a couple drinks for another dancer, had a pretty fun time talking to her then headed home. The next morning as I'm leaving for work I check my voice mail and there's a message from Ms L. She had arrived at the club after I left and heard I had been there and was sorry she missed me. Just hearing that message (and her voice) got my hopes up again.

    Since then I tried her phone Thursday, Friday and Saturday and no answer. Not sure why she hasn't activated the voice mail on that phone.

    Now that I've put all this in writing, I realize just what a PL I sound like.
    Any comments / suggestions (or dope-slaps across the forehead) from the wise denizens of SCJ would be much appreciated.

    Cheers!

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    Flakey stripper. Get dances if you see her in the club. Don't expect more. That was awfully sweet of you to get her a phone though (but I do have doubts she doesn't have a cell phone already).

    She's not going to do OTC. She isn't even doing a good job keeping you as a customer, and you seem to be a good customer, proactive, prompt, organized, etc. She's had plenty of chances for your business.

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    brmcmh,

    Just read your own post.....i think you already know, you just want confirmation.

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    It might be a good idea for you to invest time and money in the other dancers. Obvious, Ms L is taking you for granted and is unlikely to go through with OTC while you're so willing to accept excuse after excuse. You may actually find another girl that won't play so many games. Time's up. Move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brmcmh View Post
    .....So, of course, I have a favorite (let's call her Ms. L). She seems very receptive to OTC, and I've been trying to arrange it for a couple of months now, but something always fouls the plans. I'm starting to wonder if she's maybe just stringing me along......
    Read no further......

    SS: 1. Customer: 0.

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    Start spending on somebody else, she'll pick up her game if she wants to keep you as a customer.

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    YKM, 3 Legger, Phil & R_H all gave good advice. I have a basic question for you to consider for all of your club visits: Aren't there any other dancers that could strike your fancy/float your boat at least nearly as much as the subject dancer? (OTC hints notwistanding).
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    Somewhere on this site is a piece of advice from Chili Palmer about OTC that I always remember - "The dancer always chooses". If she really wanted to see you OTC, she would make it happen.

    Dancers can be complete flakes, but when it comes to an opportunity to make money, they can become incredibly organized and committed quickly and easily. Enjoy her dances in the club, but don't fall into the trap of buying more dances than you really want , or making her car payment, or paying for anything else in the hope that somehow this will motivate her to see you OTC. Remember - she chooses.

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    Thanks all for the feedback and advice.

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    You are being played. When a dancer with a boyfriend wants OTC from an older customer with a spouse it is for only one reason: Money. She may let you take her to dinner once in a while to keep you interested in spending money on her ITC but she will most likely keep stalling, canceling or just not showing up. She may have sex with you for money but I doubt it since she wouldn't be stalling you like this.

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    anyone who has to go on a public forum to brag about some chick they banged.....probably never banged her in the first place. No one cares get a life loser

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    ^^ whose post are you responding to? Or are you talking about the thread in general?

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    I thought I would tell you folks that I hooked up with the dancer I had talked about (Miss P), the one that brought me to this site about 7 years ago. She was the one I had spent so much time OTC with as friends. Well, a couple of years ago, she and I hooked up for a Friends with Benefits type relationship. It was short-lived about a few months, but was good while it lasted. At least I got some validation for the time and money I spent years ago.

    Although I could have made it last longer, I eventually had to say goodbye, because it was not the same any more.

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    I just found this thread and not sure whether to laugh, cry or both. First off, I think some stories are BS. I get that many guys dream of screwing dancers. I dream of screwing hot guys. Having said that, I am currently dating a former regular and I'd be disappointed if he was talking about me online (though to be fair we are waiting on the sexual aspects since both of us want that to be special). We started as platonic friends and both of us want a serious relationship. If those of you are serious and having all this sex with dancers, I'd go get a STD test. If you are happy having sex with people you don't care about, more power to you, but not my thing. If you truly want a relationship with a dancer do what my boyfriend is doing and take your time and treat her right.

    Now back to your fantasies.

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    ^ If you are holding out the goods your man is probably griping on some site that you don't know about But seriously, don't weep for us. Or for yourself for that matter. The boys get together and talk in the basement. Maybe there are some tall tales thrown about...who knows and frankly who cares?

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    Oh, I am not holding out the goods. Not my style. I would be intrigued if he was here, but he's kind of embarassed he was a customer. Not sure why, but that's how he is. Actually, I wish he would chat about his strip club experiences.

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    "though to be fair we are waiting on the sexual aspects since both of us want that to be special".

    I assumed from this that you are in charge and holding out. Any normal guy who wasn't getting it might smile to his girl but gripe to others. He would be welcome to post his SC adventures.

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    I'm not the one holding out. If it was up to me we'd be going at it.

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    ^ Since you are willing, please let us know when your man wakes up.

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    I already asked him to post but so far he has zero interest. You never know.

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    Your either the luckest SOB on the the planet or the best liar. Doesn't matter, great story.
    I can do better than you in a two bit fancy house

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    Quote Originally Posted by You Know Me View Post
    I got one last one for you guys. Alas my days are over.....I think
    Well that was a good one. You definitely found your Holy Grail. What do you mean your days are over dude?

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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    Well that was a good one. You definitely found your Holy Grail. What do you mean your days are over dude?
    Its been so long and i really have no desire to go back. I dunno it just kind of lost its luster. I am having so much fun hanging out with friends and enjoying the single life that it has just kind of faded. I am not saying that i wont step in another one though. I am going to palm springs all next week and i already have gotten a few calls about what strip clubs we are going to. Haha they are going to be shocked when they notice i am no longer married. I am sure i will tag along one of the nights. I just dont need it now. I am no longer stuck in a loveless marriage and am free to do what i want.

    It was a shitload of fun though and i still enjoy this website.
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    Quote Originally Posted by fast tan77 View Post
    Your either the luckest SOB on the the planet or the best liar. Doesn't matter, great story.

    Haha Yah lucky i guess. I have a few more i could post but some of it is just too wild to believe and I know most would call it bullshit. Hell i have a hard time believing some of it. Plus none of those girls fucked with my head like this one...so i would feel bad posting those.
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