what did that "first time" run you?
what did that "first time" run you?




how much did you pay her if u dont mind me asking



The fav threw a twist into our relationship last night and now I have to find a new fav. Can't see paying for laps in the club when the otc is much more fun.
I paid the same amount that i spent in the club the first time. Which was 3 preview dances and an 1hour in the vip. I figure what the hell i would have spent it in the club anyway and i really wanted to get to know her. I didnt need nakedness...i wanted time with no distractions. I ended up dating her for about 6 months and "It was the best of time and the worst of times"
Yoda57usA woman, if she so chooses, can give you everything but her heart. Without her heart she is giving you nothing.





Sounds like the drama I had with Miss B. After much work ITC I arranged OTC. The first was just oral because I was a dumbass and didn't bring a condom but number two was the HG because I was prepared. Some time after that, she told me she was interested in another guy and couldn't do it any more. I could write a book but I would be afraid that my wife would wonder about the book royalty income.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.



Similar tale. The Fav would text me about once a week and we would exchange several messages before she took a run at my wallet, but it was always about coming to the club. One day I get home from the gym and she texts me;
Fav: Do you want to hang out tonight?
Me: In the club?
F: We could go to the club or you could come over to my place.
F: Actually, I'd like to have you over, I've known you long enough and trust you.
I call her and ask if she wants to go get something to eat. She agrees and gives me directions. The PL in me takes control and I start think we are going on a real date. After about 2 minutes of that the Strip Club Junkie in me bitch slaps the PL down and I grab a couple hundred extra and stuff it in my wallet. As I drive to her place I was 99% sure this was a pay date,but that 1% kept a small hope alive.
I get to her place and we just talk for about an hour before she starts to complain about her phone not holding a charge. I told her we could stop on the way and see about getting her phone fixed. We hit up a Metro PCS store and it turns out her phone was water damaged and they wouldn't honor her warranty. She thinks about buying a new phone for a few minutes and I go the feeling that she wanted me to buy it for her, but I stayed the strong, silent type. The clerk swaps out the battery and it worked so she bought a new battery for $20. As she was paying she said "I'm glad you came out tonight, because I'm broke now.that was pretty much The confirmation I needed, but as we drove to eat she hammered it home with a " I should have gone to work tonight and make some money, but its such a nice night I can deal with it". This was a Monday night by the way.
So now I'm 100% sure this is a pay date, but pay for what? She was going to be sorely disappointed if she thought I was going to pay more than a dinner for just her company. At the least I wanted some naked lap dances on her couch. We go get some Thai food and then head back to her place where I light up a joint and we put a buzz on.
We start talking again as I give her a foot massage. She brings it back to money, telling me the club has been really slow lately and she doesn't even have cable as the money has been so sketchy lately. She starts talking about how she wants to get a steady job, and being the typical man I ask her what she wants to do besides dance. I meant it as what kind of a job she would want to do besides dancing. She took it as what did she want to do tonight besides dancing. She busts out with "Well we could do a blow job, or move this over to the bed for some naked fun. Either way I'll take my time". We quickly settle on an amount and head for the bed. A little petting goes on then she asks me if I brought a condom. CRASH. I tell her no, I didn't bring one as I wasn't really sure it would go this far. I tell her to hold on and I would be back in 5 minutes. I hit a nearby gas station and get her a pack of smokes and some Trojans. On the way to the gas station I get 2nd thoughts and think about bailing on her, but I buck up get the rubbers and return.
Let's just say that I've dumped the escort I was seeing because the fav gives much better head. I've seen her OTC a couple of times now and it just seems to get better each time. she keeps saying i should come see her in the club, but I just can't see paying for topless laps when much more is available. Especially since her club has a new owner who raised dance prices and charges you $20 each time you want to use the VIP.




Great story, SPLUT. I wonder how many other Junkies reading this were nodding their head each time another detail reminded them of their own experiences. I know I did.
But seriously, dude, NO CONDOMS? Do you not have a "grooming kit" you keep in your car at all times, just in case? For shame, sir.
CP



Live and learn Chili, live and learn. There's a pack of condoms in my glovebox right now.
It appears that Miss D and I will finally be doing the dirty tomorrow. I'm bringing the cash, she's bringing the condoms. More than the POP index but to be honest I don't mind paying a premium. We shall see.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.





FBR, congratulations, though I did get a bit of whiplash from this.
In the last post I read about her, weren't things fizzling out on the Miss D front? In fact, your posts overall told a tale of a drastic scaleback in spending and other dancer activities.
Now it is condoms and cash...LOL.
Seems like things have taken a turn for the better, so congrats on that too and good luck tomorrow.
Last edited by rickdugan; 01-23-2011 at 12:59 PM.





Rick, you are right in that my spending on her has been almost nothing for the last several months. Partly because I have been more careful but mostly because the ROI just hadn't been there. Miss D pounded me hard this weekend with texts. Business has been bad here lately for most dancers. Anyway, after receiving 4 or 5 texts I asked her for the price of the Full Monty. I assumed I would not get a serious response but instead she quoted a number which while high was manageable.
Thanks yoda for the support in terms of exceeding the POP. As you mentioned Miss D and I have a lot of history. I have no idea how this will all work out but I am optimistic. The thought of finally having sex with her (granted for money so it isn't like I am her BF) does have my juices flowing.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.





The best sex I've had in the last 20 years has been with women who were not my wife or my GF. Good sex is as much a mental thing as it is physical. The money may have put you in the room with her but once you are in the sack it's just two naked people doing what comes naturally. I'm not suggesting that full PL mode is in order here. You never want to forget what got you there but there is no reason to dwell on it either. Some girls can forget about the envelope full of cash and just have a good time with a guy and some can't really let go. Again, the fact that you and Miss D have a long history should be a big help. Don't over-think the cash aspect of it. Enjoy!



Good luck, FBR. Be safe and have fun.
Things went well. More info to follow.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.





Excellent.
If you don't care to say how much that's cool but can you do a range at least..![]()
Hooray!!![]()
(Finally.)
I spent a half hour writing with some additional details and when I tried to review before posting the site fucked me. I am not going to spend another half hour. I'm pissed. Sorry guys.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.





No need to apologize FBR. I for one don't need the details. Just happy to see you two crazy kids get together.
So do you think it was a one-time thing or will there be future opportunities?





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