Has anyone been jealous in the SC environment. I know its business but....
Has anyone been jealous in the SC environment. I know its business but....
Ah..................NO
Just here to live and learn.



Have I...No, but I have had dancers act hurt when I spent my money on someone else and they thought I was thiers.
Originally Posted by Chuck
Only in terms of time. When she says it's my turn, it's my turn! And when it's agreed to up front all the more!
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To elaborate a bit...did you ever see a customer get used by a dancer to make another customer jealous? Its an old junior high ploy but I have witnessed it and its kind of sad to watch. A dancer who has two clients that like to see her and one is jealous of the other becuase he thinks that other customer is getting something he isn't and the dancer is aware of his feelings and uses it to her advantage.



Heck yeah. The same dancer knows the 'other' guy will wait for her, because she is all he wants. She knows I will leave or find another to take care of me. You can see him getting pissed.
It is all part of her game to maximize returns.
Originally Posted by Chuck
Ever turned the tables? Knowing whats happening as the other guy...I know its juvenile but some people love to play games with peoples emotions.



Yep, I was in there once and had no real plans on getting dances with her. I saw him walk in, so decided to be the fuckoe. Kept her at my table until she was about to go onstage then took her to VIP and out of the rotation. He didnt even get to see her perform or talk to her until he had been there well more than an hour. She and I knew he wouldnt just leave. She told me later he doesnt like me. I said, "I know why do you think I did that..."
Really, her and I both won that. She got my money just because I felt like being an ass that night, and he has been in there more (and earlier), to try and 'beat' me.
Originally Posted by Chuck
Thank you for that reply HC. I've been on the othere side of that situation, it sucks having some guy fuck with you in a SC. Fortunately I go to clubs with my wife and it just showed me that the dancer really was all about the money. But I did have some teenage pangs which I think was jealousy. I wanted to actually kick this guys ass for a moment. Gosh clubs are like junior high sometimes, as my wife has mentioned. Live and learn.



I dont normally do stuff like that, but this guy thought since he spent more that she was 'his'. I felt I knew her motivations and played that. You would think he would have learned a lesson, but he is just throwing more money at the situation.
That could have happened to me when I first starting clubbing, but at that time I was all about just watching stages and being cheap. Any time a dancer spent chatting with me was wasted because I couldnt afford dances. Although it did garner the first ATF some good money, its been 5 years and I still see her from time to time.
Originally Posted by Chuck
In talking to her later she told me that she liked to take his money more than mine because it was more of game to see how much she could get since he was always telling her how rich he was and what he owned. He was fucking with me, she admitted, because he thought the three of us must be fucking since he had seen us there before getting dances and such. But she made great money she told me because of this guys insecurity. His wife would never come to a club and he could never tell her he did. I just wish I could get a cut of the action next time.




I'm about to find out about that jealousy thang.Originally Posted by goldclubbing link=board=9;threadid=1529;start=msg23982#msg23982 date=1087279893
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Just remember, Jelousy in a strip club is based on women's natural competitive instincts with each other in the battle for your cash. Not on any emotional attachment.



One time this brand new dancer decided to come sit by me. Why, I have no idea since I am generally cranky and if I do not know a dancer, I won't spend too much money on them. Anyhow, this one dancer who I get dances from occasionally, and I did promise this dancer one dance and one dance only on this night, decided she HAD to give me a dance right at the time I was sitting with this other dancer! Think about it, she was only going to get $20.00 out of me, so you would think, she would have went to other customers to try and make money instead of bothering me, while I am sitting with a new dancer! Also, she usually wants to change her outfit before coming by me. Even though I never said anything to her, you know this chick was jealous of me hanging with this other dancer! Her actions spoke out! She thought I was gonna get dances from the new girl. You know though, it is good to keep these broads honest!




Exactly. Thanks to this site I now completely understand this line of thought. An enlightened man is a dangerous man.Originally Posted by yoda57us link=board=9;threadid=1529;start=msg24111#msg24111 date=1087391664
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Sometimes dancers DO get emotionally attached to their cutomers...that's why sometimes they refer to you as a "friend". Jealousy effects us all in different ways, some get very jealous for almost no reason. Dancers are no different. Seeing a "friend" who comes to see her regularly with another dancer or sometimes even worst yet non-dancers can lead to feelings of jealousy. Remember many of the dancers you meet are young or in transitional places in their lives, they work in an environment of captive sales, you come to them, and instability is always part of that, and here you are not paying attention to them...money or not. How many times have you had customer poacher get up and then have your "friend" come over and call her a skank or something simular? It almost doesn't make sense...I know its about getting paid in the club but their is emotional attachment as well...your mine, my possession, my dog, because I paid attention to you and rubbed my body on you and for what a couple of dollars I spent allready, and now you have the audacity to talk to another girl! Just like junior high as I said before.





Over the years I had a few customers get jealous and even had one near fist fight over me :o
It was funny, sad and ego boasting all at the same time .



I have seen girls get in a fight over a customer (and it wasnt me... :'()
Originally Posted by Chuck
If there is jealousy, from the dancers perspective, its strictly a money issue. If a guy gets jealous, he has to know, in his heart of hearts, if a fools dream.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.





There's nothing sadder than watching a pretty girl with borderline personality disorder cry her eyes out because you talked to a girl she thinks is prettier. That's when you realize it really is a psychological disorder.![]()
FBR- the heart is a mysterious organ. Sadly I'm a romantic and at the same time love beautiful women, plus I'm a sucker for sob stories when I've been drinking (not the bullshit my car needs a new trani-more like my boyfriend is a big loser who can't help me buy shoes for my three kids) Some of us like to play the knight and the SC is a good place to do that...as long as you keep it in perspective and not lose your head or house.


I once got in a bidding war with this older laywer guy on stage for my ATF.. I was a little tipsy, but the guy went on stage and gave her like 30 dollars in tips.. so I threw 50 on stage, then he threw 100, then I threw 300.. it was actually pretty funny.. The dancer almost stopped dancing as she coudln't believe she just made 500 dollars





.....so you were just a little tipsy???Originally Posted by songofthesword
Dude, check out some of the threads on white knights. I know you have the best of intentions, but think about the long term real possibilities of what might work out and the implications of them not...Originally Posted by goldclubbing
I learned the hard way about not ever being able to successfully be the white knight. If you offer to lend a hand, more than likely she'll find herself needing ten more...
Dude - best wishes and best of luck.
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