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    Hey, I was just wondering if you guys really notice a girls dancing... do fancy moves make you want to seek her out for a dance later? Or is slow and sexy what gets you thinking about her? Also.... do you prefer girls that are completely shaved down there or would you rather a strip of hair?

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    Slow and sexy dancing, completely shaved.
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    When it comes to dancing, speed kills. Everything after that is technique and that does matter.

    I prefer hair down there--not a forest, but more like a well-maintained hedgerow.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 link=board=10;threadid=1552;start=msg24413#msg2441 3 date=1087742020
    Slow and sexy dancing, completely shaved.
    Same here



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    Quote Originally Posted by Saffron_25 link=board=10;threadid=1552;start=msg24409#msg2440 9 date=1087721674
    Hey, I was just wondering if you guys really notice a girls dancing... do fancy moves make you want to seek her out for a dance later? Or is slow and sexy what gets you thinking about her?
    A cute pole trick here and there doesn't hurt, as I like a little athleticism, but I wouldn't want a gal to do a three song set of that sort of thing.

    The key is eye contact. Dancing in an"upbeat" manner is okay as long you don't impair your ability to do this. Glance into the crowd to see whom you're connecting with. If they're tipping you on stage, esspecially if its a big tip ($5 or more) or they walked up from a table to do it, that person probably wants a dance.

    Also.... do you prefer girls that are completely shaved down there or would you rather a strip of hair?
    No preference either way, as long as its groomed.
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    I wasnt into totally shaved cookies until I saw Miss D's. Now Im a believer

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    I was in a club last night and the only dancer there that gave a shit about dancing was Ms.V . She put on a show and you believed that she loved to do it. Nice eye contact and that little sexy look as if she is only dancing for you at that moment. She was so into it and there was not a sole on the tip rail. Class act in my book. She knows how to work it and thats what I like. She has amazing confidence on stage and I'm sorry if a dancer don't have confidence she looks kinda dorky up there. To me a dancer has to sell the stage show.

    I love a nice bald pussy, but a nice little patch is nice to. I think as long as its well groomed its fine.
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    I agree, slow, sexy, proud, and eye contact is what works. Pole tricks are mostly silly. I don't frequent all nude clubs - I like the sexy clothing, but as far as preference.. trim, and neat, but not bald.

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    LOL...more repeats but I'll play along. If she is Hot and my type, the stage doesn't matter. Shaved definitely!!!
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    A slightly different answer:

    We have a corollary: the more a dancer takes off in her first song, the higher the probability she gives a nasty lap.

    IOW, if you dance to a two song set, the first song is supposed to be topless and the second everything is removed. Girls who show the cookie during the first set (or better still, come onstage with no panties) tend to be higher mileage.

    Conversely, if it takes pretty much both songs before the dancer even deigns to remove her panties, then she's probably pretty tame. Personally, I will not "reward" a dancer who does the bare minimum onstage. We have one topless club that gives the dancers the option to not take off their bikini tops. Those who refuse, I never lap. Same as my fave nude club. Dancers who don't show me the money never see my wallet. If you are going to choose this job, then do it right or move on.

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    Honey, its all about slow and sensual. If you want there attention, make them want you. use your eyes as well, stare into them. Make them want you to go faster, but never do so.

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    Slow and sensual - shaved.


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    I pay less attention to how well the dancer dances, and much more to if she makes eye contact, and looks like she is having fun dancing. With those two items, you are well on your way to selling dances to me, even if you are tripping over your own feet.

    As to the other question, I prefer the landing strip.

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    Slow and sensual - shaved.

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    I can care less about the stage dance. It's all about the PD.

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    Love it shaved, turns me on......

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    While the word lapdance may be made of two words, only one is important. I think you guess which. I prefer a narrow landing strip.

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    I like an athletic performance that shows off her flexibility. Oh, and good eye contact. A bit related is a song that isn't a Top 40 hit nor used by all the other dancers. I swear that the next dancer that dances to "Milkshake" will be fed to the gators. It is a good song for a dancer but to hear it over and over and over again is torture.

    As for down there, if it doesn't match the hair on your head, shave it all off. If it does, either way (clean shaven or a thin strip) is fine with me.

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    slow and shaved

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    It's more about her look than her stage show. I do appreciate the girls I like learning a new pole trick, and always compliment them on it.
    A girl can entice me to buy dances on stage from her tip taking technique though. Good eye contact, a blow in my ear, taking the dollar with her mouth from mine, etc. Any move where a girl puts her legs over my shoulders, or puts her head in my lap will pretty much guarantee a trip to the LD area with me.
    I prefer a little landing strip, but it wouldn't cause me to choose her over a completely shaved girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saffron_25 View Post
    Hey, I was just wondering if you guys really notice a girls dancing... do fancy moves make you want to seek her out for a dance later? Or is slow and sexy what gets you thinking about her? Also.... do you prefer girls that are completely shaved down there or would you rather a strip of hair?
    I've recently been thinking about how dancers used to really be DANCERS! I have not seen a good, energetic dancer for a long time, like in the old days (70s and 80s). I'd love to see a good DANCER once in a while.

    I think a girl's stage moves help sell the LD, or at least pique my interest. I've been with dancers who were good dancers and very pretty but duds in the LD room, and girls who didn't dance that well and weren't as pretty - whose LD's blew my mind.

    Completely shaved or landing striip doesn't matter. Sometimes it's nice to feel the texture of the LS. As long as it's trimmed neatly and I can see lippage (yeah, perv!) I'm happy.
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    I care mostly about body type and attitude when it comes to picking dancers to get to know, not necessarily how they dance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Saffron_25 View Post
    Hey, I was just wondering if you guys really notice a girls dancing... do fancy moves make you want to seek her out for a dance later? Or is slow and sexy what gets you thinking about her? Also.... do you prefer girls that are completely shaved down there or would you rather a strip of hair?
    Actual dancing and not just posing is so rare that it always attracts my attention and my tips.

    As far as the hair goes, whatever I get to see makes me happy.

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    IF a dancer can move and do pole tricks, it gets my attention and Im likely to stage tip more than i normally do. When dancing tho the most important thing to me is eye contact.

    And I will base my decision on whether to get an LD from her stage set if I dont know a dancer already. I like athleticism mixes with the slow stuff.

    I just wrote a post on anther thread on shaved or not .. but basically I dont care... Im happy to be enjoying the show!!!

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    Yes, I notice the dancing. It is a part of the persona she puts out. It has a great effect on whether, or not, I will spend on her.

    Fast dancing and slow dancing makes no difference. If she sells it well and is sexy diong it then either is fine.

    Shaved.....definitely...

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