So like everyone has said ... I'd find a new ATF sooner or later. But this one is using a technique that I've never seen before. Her approach is that of sincerity. Is that possible inside a stripclub? I think I've had enough dances with the ladies to seperate her intentions/motivations from the pack, but in the back of my mind ... I just think that she's read me and figured out how to approach me as a customer. The only thing that throws this out of the question is the fact that her approach started when I only got a couple dances from her (barely spending any money) and way before I started getting lots of dances from other girls (she never saw me buying many dances as her shift is different from the girls I used to get dances from). Maybe it was the slow tortoise approach, but everytime I see her, I get more and more attracted to her.
She drops by my table and pulls up a seat to chat when the club is dead, when she's done the rounds and no one has said yes to her for dances ... even drops by when it's really busy. When she says she'll be right back, she's right back in minutes unlike the usual "I'll be right back" routine that I've gotten from many of the others (who just sit in the dressing room/or sit down in a chair all by themselves). She's told me that she really doesn't chat with guys she's danced with and I believe that. It was months before I even accepted dances from her ... I knew she was beautiful, but never approached her. During that time, I'd see her with customers, but always alone when things weren't as busy.
Not only is she utterly beautiful, but she's charming and very sweet. She's different ... she's tried talking me out of buying dances, she's told me I really didn't need to tip her at all with our dances and that we can just chat when I'm at the club (we've probaby spoken more at length than the actual dances). I have never seen this kind of behavior before and it's just overwhelming. It took awhile, but she's really grown on me.
I know that she's there to work, and I've been a good guy in not asking one of the most hated questions ... but she just makes me want to ask her if we can get a lunch sometime to get to know her more so she doesn't use her time on me when she can get dances from other guys. It hurts to hold that back, but I know that it's just her job ...
the curse of an RIL.
Is what I am interpreting as sincerity real? What would you think? Would you do anything about it?



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and it's not that mysterious or uncertain. how do you know when a stripper will go out with a customer? when she actually shows up. anything else is just talk and talk is always cheap in a sc. if she says something along those lines, he should know that she isn't interested and he can move on. unfortunately, these RIL types just don't get it and will continue hang around while she cleans out his wallet, until it dawns on him that she will never go out with him.
The bottom line is they're all given with your best interest in mind. Don't fool yourself into thinking you're building something with her if you're paying for:

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