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    I went into a club a couple of weeks ago - my first time in about 2 years - and this was a club that I have never been in before... There was a girl there that totally blew me away... Her stage presence was awesome, she is a very beautiful brunette, nice body, tan skin, great personality... We were flirting with each other when she was on stage, and she did some things for me that were above and beyond the dollars I was putting up there on stage. When she got off stage she came over to me right away to chat. She told me how great I smelled (I always put some cologne on before entering the club) and asked if it was okay if she just hung out with me for a while - of course I said yes. After chatting for a long while, she asked if I wanted a private dance with her. Okay, this is where it gets complicated. The first dance was great, she was right on top of me grinding me, touching me, getting real close, it was honestly the best I have ever had... So of course I had to do it again when she asked if I wanted another. During the second dance she kept putting her nipples on my lips, so I finally gave in and began to lick and suck on them, I was scared to at first - but then she really got into it! To make a long story short we began kissing very deeply. This has never happened to me before!
    On my next visit back a week later, she came right up to me, sat on my lap, and talked with me for a very long time. Then she asked me if I wanted to go back (back in the VIP room where we were before) and "play" some more. We just picked up right where we left off - more licking, sucking, deep kissing, very hot! She even started to suck on my tongue like she was sucking on something else (if you know what I mean) When it was all said and done, I told her I was going to take a chance and gave her my phone number and e-mail.
    She said she would try to get in touch with me like early this week after the long weekend, but I have not heard from her yet. I am planning to go again tonight to see her. Any tips or advice for me? How should I handle things? I guess you could say that I am looking for the "holy grail" with her. Thanks.

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    If you want to see her again you know where to find her and you know what it is going to cost you. She has your info so the next move (if any) is up to her - don't bring it up again.

    Now the bad news... Assume that before and after your visit she is putting her tongue and nipples in every other guys mouth.

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    LOL RH...I remember when I passed 1K You are a great member here...looking forward to the next 1000.

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    Man am I bummed...
    When I got there tonight I hung out for a while, watched some other dancers watching and waiting for her. She works there like everyday from open to close so I figured she was around somewhere. I asked the bartender about her and found out she wasn't scheduled for tonight - then she went on to say that she was off the schedule for the rest of the month!!!
    Personal reasons was her excuse I guess... She said they (at the club) were all very surprised because she has danced there for 2 and a half years and this has never happened with her. This sucks!
    I was really looking forward to seeing her again...
    Easy come - easy go I guess. Now what?

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    1-shot, I had the holy grail today. It takes money and an attitude adjustment. I wish it were different but thats reality. You have to decide if you just want to play around in the club (nothing wrong with that BTW) or go for it. Between Miss D and DJ it looks like a $600 a week habit potentially. Not a game for everyone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Darren link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg25003#msg25003 date=1089315997
    Now the bad news... Assume that before and after your visit she is putting her tongue and nipples in every other guys mouth.
    Bingo, and if she gave you her phone number do expect her to say "Who are you?" if you bother to call.



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    I wouldn't worry about it too much lost-1.. she probably just had a nasty HSV flare-up and can't really make money the way she does with those big, open sores on her lips.

    Give her a week or two for the sores to go away and she'll be back in business for ya'.

    Enjoy!
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    Polecat:LMAO!

    1-Shot: Mental Health breaks are not unusual for a dancer - especialy if she's been at it for a few years. She may be back, she may change clubs-you just never know.

    Everything she did to you during those dances gets done to hundreds of customers by hundreds of dancers every day. Don't try to turn it into something other than a pleasant diversion from the cold cruel outside world. If this is into providing "the Holly Grail" she won't be shy about letting you know.

    If you never see this woman again fear not-it happens all the time in SCs. Another one will come along and do her best to "click" with you before too long.
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    Polecat: Sounds like you know this from experience?

    Yoda: You are absolutely right - it is a very nice diversion from the real world. That is why I am so bummed about her being gone! If she does decide to work at another club or something I would really like to try and find her. Any tips or advice on that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1-Shot link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg25022#msg25022 date=1089379894
    Polecat: Sounds like you know this from experience?

    Yoda: You are absolutely right - it is a very nice diversion from the real world. That is why I am so bummed about her being gone! If she does decide to work at another club or something I would really like to try and find her. Any tips or advice on that?
    Don't bother, she already knows how to find you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by polecat link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg25018#msg25018 date=1089359892
    I wouldn't worry about it too much lost-1.. she probably just had a nasty HSV flare-up and can't really make money the way she does with those big, open sores on her lips.

    Give her a week or two for the sores to go away and she'll be back in business for ya'.

    Enjoy!
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    "I would really like to try and find her. Any tips or advice on that?..."

    Yea, don't try.

    She has your contact info if she really wants to contact you.

    To put it bluntly. She is just a dancer. There are plenty more like her if that is what you want so why get hung up trying to find this one? Just remind yourself this is what she does for a living. She puts her tongue and and nipples in all kinds of guys mouths and in return guys give her money (and their phone numbers hoping she will call them). Save your dignity and find a different dancer. There are plenty of other dancers that will do the same things if that's what you want. Find another one and you will forget about her in no time.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Darren link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg25027#msg25027 date=1089381951
    Find another one and you will forget about her in no time.
    This is so so very true.


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    Default Re:Need some advice...

    I guess you guys are right... Maybe it was just dumb-luck that my first SC experience in 2 years was with her...

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    1 Shot it's not dumb luck at all. It's the nature of the business. The business model assures that more often than not you'll run across a lady that stirs up those emotions. I'm in my early thirties. I happened to step off into a SC for the first time ever (if you don't count the couple of occasions on Guam when I was 19 and didn't have a clue what I was doing) about 10 months ago. About a month ago I finally woke up after having been right where you found yourself recently. (for 9 whole months). She made about 10,000 off of me. I commend her for both cultivating a steady income from one regular and, most importantly, teaching me more than I will ever need going forward. I learned a wealth of things just by being in her presence that makes me a much smarter "PL" today. Please refer to my post here for more insight.

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    BTW, She didn't like the "smarter more refined MW".


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    Just to add to what MW said, you aren't the first guy (or the last) to have strong desire to see a particular stripper again... this is what they do, this what you are paying them for, this is their job, they make you feel special and wanted via playing on your sex drive and ego (and we all have a tendency to not think clearly when hot sexy woman plays strokes our egos and our flag poles ).

    No but seriously, almost any guy can forget it is not real, but take a lesson from these guys that have learned through first hand experience. I've learned a lot just from reading their posts and their advice. You'll save your self a lot of money, and maybe save your (priceless) dignity.

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    Darren: Thanks for the support my fellow SCJ brother...

    Everyone: Thanks for all of the great advice and support.
    Since I have found this website a week ago - I have learned so much about the "game" which is really what it is when you get down to it. Maybe that is what makes it so fun...
    Now I'm hooked again...

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    But if you catch me after being in the SC,
    you can call me "0 cent"...

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    There is no substitute for experience in the cold cruel world of SC RILdom. It IS a game but it's a game played not just with cash but with emotions-including ego. I've never felt ripped off when I've spent money on great dances from a beautiful woman. The only time I've ever felt stupid was when I allowed myself to be played into thinking that "more dances=a shot at the holly grail. I know now that it doesn't. If a dancer is interested in outside activity the topic will come up fairly quickly and, in my more recent experiences, you won't have to be the one to bring it up.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 1-Shot link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg25034#msg25034 date=1089403035
    Darren: Thanks for the support my fellow SCJ brother...
    No problem man. Hope you understood that all the advice you got here was meant with the best of intentions. A lot of us have been there - laying awake a night thinking about some stripper (no fault to you, you are just having your natural emotions played and reacting the way any normal person would). Of course there is nothing wrong with enjoying the strip clubs, just don't lose yourself in the fantasy and the game. Good luck to you.

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    Just for the hell of it I called down to the club on Friday night to see who was on the schedule and to see what they would say when I asked about her...
    They said she quit the club totally! Now I'm wondering if she is working somewhere else or what... If she is working somewhere else - I would like to find her...
    Hell, even if the 'grail never happens with her, I would like to experience her again... But since we only saw each other twice, the 'grail is still a possibility...

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1-Shot link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg25120#msg25120 date=1089669459
    Just for the hell of it I called down to the club on Friday night to see who was on the schedule and to see what they would say when I asked about her...
    They said she quit the club totally! Now I'm wondering if she is working somewhere else or what... If she is working somewhere else - I would like to find her...
    Hell, even if the 'grail never happens with her, I would like to experience her again... But since we only saw each other twice, the 'grail is still a possibility...
    Damn 1-Shot, your still clinging onto that glimmer of hope aren't you?

    Let me clarify here, odds of you finding her are very slim. If you should happen to run into her in a club, GREAT! Otherwise, put her behind you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 1-Shot link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg25120#msg25120 date=1089669459
    Just for the hell of it I called down to the club on Friday night to see who was on the schedule and to see what they would say when I asked about her...
    They said she quit the club totally! Now I'm wondering if she is working somewhere else or what... If she is working somewhere else - I would like to find her...
    Hell, even if the 'grail never happens with her, I would like to experience her again... But since we only saw each other twice, the 'grail is still a possibility...
    move on, there are lots of dancers out there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1-Shot link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg24997#msg24997 date=1089305547
    When she got off stage she came over to me right away to chat. She told me how great I smelled (I always put some cologne on before entering the club)
    a customer could smell like he just bathed in eau de elephant manure and he'll still smell great to a stripper. it's just SS.

    Quote Originally Posted by 1-Shot link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg24997#msg24997 date=1089305547
    When it was all said and done, I told her I was going to take a chance and gave her my phone number and e-mail.
    bad move....it's way too early in the game to start giving out personal info to flakey strippers.

    Quote Originally Posted by 1-Shot link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg24997#msg24997 date=1089305547
    She said she would try to get in touch with me like early this week after the long weekend, but I have not heard from her yet.
    and you believe her? don't worry, she'll call you. whenever, she needs to make easy money. she'll take out her rolodex of PL phone numbers and start dialing for dollars.

    Quote Originally Posted by 1-Shot link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg24997#msg24997 date=1089305547
    I was really looking forward to seeing her again...
    now, you know why she started kissing you.

    Quote Originally Posted by 1-Shot link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg25022#msg25022 date=1089379894
    If she does decide to work at another club or something I would really like to try and find her. Any tips or advice on that?
    run away...run far, far away from sc ASAP.

    Quote Originally Posted by 1-Shot link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg25120#msg25120 date=1089669459
    They said she quit the club totally!
    i don't find that surprising in the least. many strippers suffer from terrible medical condition called flakiness.

    Quote Originally Posted by 1-Shot link=board=9;threadid=1588;start=msg25120#msg25120 date=1089669459
    Now I'm wondering if she is working somewhere else or what... If she is working somewhere else - I would like to find her...
    <sigh> another PL dies in a hail of SS. oh, the humanity, will they ever learn?
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    LOL MrP...where the hell have you been hiding.

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