This may sound silly but, how do you girls give female customers lapdances? I know it may be different than giving them to guys. Any good advice? What do they like? How to make them at ease? I have no clue on how to arrouse women, lol.





This may sound silly but, how do you girls give female customers lapdances? I know it may be different than giving them to guys. Any good advice? What do they like? How to make them at ease? I have no clue on how to arrouse women, lol.
Last edited by Vyanka; 10-09-2004 at 12:44 PM.





The best way I learnt is two fold:
Go to another club and get a lap dance.
Watch the dancers at your club give female customers dances.
Actually, it isn't so different to dance for a female than a man. I just make it more sensual. It also depends on the female customer herself... some are in it for the fun.. so make it a more fun dance (as you would for a male customer who is in it more for fun)... others are in it more for the sensual/sexual nature... so dance for them in that way.
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I agree, I had gotten a couple dances myself and the girls did it very light and sensually.... no grinding... just a brush of the knee to the box or so![]()
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Whenever I give private dances to women, it's always the girls' birthday or stagette and bought by a friend, so I don't go for overt sensuality...I talk and make jokes and tease them, while doing my regular private dance.
I've never done a dance for a woman on her own who actually wanted one...I guess I'd just do the same as I would for a guy.
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AGreed on go get some lapdances done, always helpful. Also, try to feel out the situation. If they are getting it as a gag, or are nervous about getting the dance, be gentle, be less sensual or sexual, and be a touch comedic. If its for sure that they are really into it and/or are turned on by getting dances, get sexay! I'm always way more into the dances I give to women, it tends to be more enjoyable for me.
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Lapdances for females is an entirely different experience - I personally let myself get more sensually charged and kinda HAVE to inorder to relax the female client. i am slower, really close, strong eye contact with a disarming smile and really try to invoke feelings of intense sexuality - i really want her to feel as aroused, or more so, as a man feels when he gets a dance from us. i have had women continue dance after dance - pull out creditcards to enjoy just my body dancing close to her for minutes upon minutes. I am not a lesbian, and i work in the cleanest club in Las Vegas - so nothing sketchy - I just OOZE sex to her and make her and I feel it. So much fun.
i won't do it. i feel stupid if i have done as i have in the past.
All I can say is, she better be wearing underwear under that short skirt!
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I can't wait to give my first lapdance to a woman! WOOHOOO! I need more lapdances from my friends at the club for sure! (Swoon!)
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I give lap dances to females quite often. It's really not much different. If I can tell they are enjoying it, I become even more sensual. I may brush my knee against her box, soft kisses on her neck, grab her by the back of the hair and pull back softly, press my breasts against hers......The girls always love my dance. I try and make her feel as comfortable as I can. They usually start begging their boyfriend for another.![]()




very nice!!!Originally Posted by VADEN
It's ladies like you, VADEN, that keep gals like me coming back to the clubs every week.
Now if I can just figure out a way to get to Florida....![]()
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Hhhmm, very nice. I'm gonna have to remember that!!Originally Posted by VADEN
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same here.. I love dancing for girls... I have been in VIP with many girls, and they are always fun and very nice.Originally Posted by VADEN
(I live in Miami, and TONS of girls here are very open and sexual)
I received my first lapdance at a club in Toronto. It was my first time in a club, and I must've looked quite nervous. She was the same age as I was. She made me feel totally at ease just by talking to me while she was dancing, and it was a great experience.![]()

I love dancing for girls and many like me dancing for them. Their boyfriends/ husbands get turned on watching us really getting wild. LOL maybe that's why they keep coming back. It's great dancing for girls as well as it is for guys. They both get the very best dances equally and they tend to tip just as generously![]()
I just gave my first dance to a girl last week. I basically just brushed my leg on her, and rested my hands on her boobs. It was the easiest dance ever, now I'm going to go straight for the girls rather than the idiot men in there.
I stick my face in their boobs![]()
They love it!
Just watch out if they're razzed up (and maybe a little drunk)! They'll be more grabby than the old, nasty man learking in the dark corner of the club! They know they can get away with it. ....but sometime's that not a bad thing![]()




I gave a dance to a girl last night after her friend bought her one. She was so shy at first, so I talked to her for a few minutes and said I'd be gentle with herShe loved it! She was so into it, and it was way fun! I do stuff like brushing my boobs against theirs, touching their faces and necks softly, running my hands down their legs... It's a much different experience for me than dancing for a guy but it is a fun little novelty.
Women can be an easy way to get an extra dance here and there, but don't rely on them for your income, since they very rarely buy more than one dance. The exception I've ALWAYS seen to this has been dancers who come and buy dances for themselves and/or friends.
A lot of women are scared to have us dance for them, since they assume we're all stereotypical crack whores with major cooties, but I always take a very slow and sensual approach with them. VEry non-threatening and non-grabby.
Though I can say that I have seen a few tanked up freaky types that go over the line. I think most of us that have been dancing for more than a few years can relay our own version of a story that involves dancing for a chick who makes it abundantly clear that she's not wearing any panties! Yikes!
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exactlyyyy...thats what I'm talking about! Those are the kinds of dances i like. Good timesOriginally Posted by lopaw
Although, I've had a couple dances that were ROUGH. I was like "slooooow down, I'm fragile.", lol.
Vaden, PM me the directions to your club. hehehe...
Originally Posted by sandi_g
Correction they THINK they can get away with it. Now, I'm usually not offended if a GIRL wants to touch me softly here and there, but something happened to me the other night that just royaly SUCKED! I was coming offstage, and I went up to this girl who was holding out a dollar. I was wearing a tube top, and she grabed me by it, pulled it down then honked my boobs as hard as she possibly could as she stuffed the dollar in my shorts. WTF? I was totally taken aback. I just gave her a serious look, and said not cool!
As I've said before, the very worst behavior from female customers is usually not as bad as average male customer behavior!
I spent $100 on a dancer at another club couple of weeks ago....it isn't huge bank, but some girls WILL spend!!!
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Tell that to my empty wallet!!![]()
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