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    Default Here we go again. Turning tables at the club

    OK, here's the scene.

    Friday night, slower than usual. The gawkers are out tonight and not tipping, so instead of three or four dancers at my table, I have about six. This works out as long as they watch the clock for the dance rotation. We have a really good table going and I'm taking care of the tipping.

    So a lone guy finds the one unoccupied corner of the table and announces that the dancers at the table have "nothing to fear because he's gay." Yeah, right, that's exactly they are worried about. Just what they need on a gawker night -- another non-tipping customer.

    So the guy zeros in on me, which is exactly what I was expecting (I am straight, but the body language was unmistakable). He launches into this rap ("so what's this guy got going on that all these girls are here; I love your voice, are you southern?") and the dancers start smiling and squeezing my leg under the table. I am the host, so I figure throwing "I'm straight" back at him would be rude and dismissive, and frankly, he could not have been more polite, so we had a really nice chat for a while. Funny guy. What was slowly dawning on me was that I was now in the position that the dancers are often in. So this is what it's like to have customers who are not your type (ahem) come on to you, and still have to be polite, diplomatic and even encouraging. And dance for them!

    Now that's work!

    This is the third time that this has happened to me in the club over the last few months. I'm not complaining at all because it's always a party and we always have fun with it, but this is the first time I've found myself in an "aha" moment with the dancers. Now I know. Or at least I think I do.

    I'm curious to hear what the dancers think about this.

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    Default Re: Here we go again. Turning tables at the club

    I thought your post was funny! Your analogy to what the girls go through was great! it is what I have heard it was like.......

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    Default Re: Here we go again. Turning tables at the club

    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner
    What was slowly dawning on me was that I was now in the position that the dancers are often in. So this is what it's like to have customers who are not your type (ahem) come on to you, and still have to be polite, diplomatic and even encouraging. And dance for them!
    in short, "i know exactly how you girls feel because i get hit on by men all the time."

    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner
    I'm curious to hear what the dancers think about this.
    and i'm curious to know why was this post moved from CC in SW to SCJ? obviously, this post is intended to generate a response from the silicone enhanced members of the opposite sex. at least, i think that's the intent. otherwise, his post should be directed to sandy. he's...er...she's...er... it's...is into that kind of scene.

    you know, i was afraid something like this might happen when pryce merged the sites. in the past, we avoided many of these types of obsequious posts because not many people knew about SCJ and SW made a good lighting rod for these types of posts. has SCJ become a dumping ground for these types of posts now?
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    Default Re: Here we go again. Turning tables at the club

    Just to throw in my two cents, this moderation needs some moderation. Personally I don't want a seemingly happy why-cant-we-all-get-along facade at the expense of outright and overboard censoring.

    Jeez, if people can't take some comments, just stay at home and crawl under the covers.

    The boards (both the pink and blue) are much too touchy feely lately, and it feels like the mods are editing and deleting just to justify their existence.

    We understand a flame war is not needed, but this was barely a spark in the tinderbox.

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    Default Re: Here we go again. Turning tables at the club

    Quote Originally Posted by mr_punk
    and i'm curious to know why was this post moved from CC in SW to SCJ?
    Me too, considering TOO never directed the question at us, and it didn't exactly fit my idea of a TR.

    Assumably, one of our mods moved it here. Explanation?
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    Default Re: Here we go again. Turning tables at the club

    I moved the thread here not JZ. I screwed up and unchecked a box in the edit tools which would have left a trail that I moved the thread. Im still learning the new board stuff. I wasnt around yesterday or today to take the heat for my decision.

    To me TOO's post sounded more like a mini TR with the "question" to the dancers as an afterthought. I made the call so I moved it...no hidden agenda on my part.

    Im deleting CP's most recent post. I understand that he's pissed but there is no reason for name calling. I hope he reconsiders his decision. We enjoy his posts.

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    Default Re: Here we go again. Turning tables at the club

    I didn't read the TOO comment as a suck-up question. When you have the Cheers factor going, a loner might come over to be part of it. I had one come over and tell me it was his Bday, so we had an impromptu party for him.

    I once had a pretty lesbian ask to watch me do champagne. I didn't know her, but I let her get into it with the dancer. No extra charge, more fun.

    I've had gays buy me drinks. What they hey, they have interesting insights about dancers. When a girl is off my defined lovemap, she might as well read me as asexual.

    Gay or otherwise, some interlopers aren't who you want to hang out with. It gave TOO some empathy for dancers. I undertood his point.

    I think maybe CP was just busting Sir Sean Connery for being too gracious.

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    Default Re: Here we go again. Turning tables at the club

    JZ and FBR, I just logged on today and saw what happened.

    I took no personal offense at CP's post, FWIW. He had a good point -- my posting was written for a dinner party and was it was moved to a locker room (God bless us in the locker room). I would have written it differently for SJC, if for no other reason than audience and tone, even though the central point is the same. Not surprising that it would elicit this kind of response here.

    If it makes any difference, my preference would be to restore both posts (his comments and my reponse) and move on. There is something to be said for thread integrity. CP didn't know me and half the reason for his flame is that he was irritated by my potential trollness. Hell, I LIKE flamers -- they keep the blood pure and the emotions true.

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