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    Default Do you say that to all the girls...???

    I'm new, and I found this site while surfing the web. Since then, I'm pretty much addicted to it. :-D I'm not a dancer, but I'm thinking about doing it. The only thing that's stopped me so far is that I never thought I had what it takes, especially now that I have a "baby belly".

    Anyway, my question to you all is in regards to some comments I've been getting from the dancers at the clubs hubby and I frequent. We go about once a month to the full nude club down the street, and the girls there are more chatty with us now that they know us better. The last 3 times we've been, a few of the girls we got dances from or were talking to by the stage asked me if I've ever considered dancing. At first it caught me off guard, because I never expected someone so gorgeous and perfect to ever think I could ever be in the same league. Anyway, they've been suggesting I come do amateur night, and I've been thinking about it, but here's my question:

    Do they really mean it, or are they just being nice? Do they get some kind of referral bonus if I show up to amateur night, are they trying to thank me for buying a lap dance or make some extra tips by stroking my ego? If any of you girls ever suggest that to a female customer, do you really mean it? As you can see by my picture on my avatar thingie, I'm not in perfect shape. Do you think I should wait until I'm a little more toned up? I know that ultimately the decision is mine, but the last thing I want is to make myself look foolish. Any input is appreciated, and sorry for all the rambling. :-D I'll shut up now.

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    Default Re: Do you say that to all the girls...???

    As for the baby belly, I have one also...as you may have seen in other posts, dancing is an awesome way to get in shape. There is nothing wrong with having a softness, it can be very appealing to some men.

    Every girl in every club is different. Take it as a compliment and if you really feel comfortable audition or do amateur night. You will never know how you truely feel about dancing and everything that comes with it until you try it. Accept the compliments graciously as a customer becuase if you become a dancer around the same girls, the compliments may or may not abruptly end.

    Good luck with whatever you decide to do and keep us posted.

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    Serendipity - I think you look great! I have a bit of a baby belly too but I am going for this. I have seen dancers in clubs here that are MUCH bigger than me. I saw one dancer who had just had a baby a few weeks ago, had a bit of a baby belly, but she looked great, smiled and had a great stage persona - men loved her and she was tipped well! So don't worry - you will do fine and sometimes men prefer the curves I think! Best of luck!



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    Default Re: Do you say that to all the girls...???

    Is that really your pic? If so, then you've got less "baby belly" than a LOT of dancers I've seen. Heck, I've seen headliners with more "baby belly" than you!!!

    The clubs where I worked we were always on the lookout for girls who had their act together and could dance. There were always a few f--ked up girls in the dressing room who everyone WISHED the manager would fire but he couldn't cuz he didn't have enuf girls with their acts together.

    It's a real pain in the ass when you'd RATHER be out on the floor doing table/lap dances and making the REAL money but some ditz is back in the dressing room crying cuz her b/f just dumped her or she's strung out or something and so YOU'VE got to do double duty on the stage and make $3 in tips in the same time you could have made $40 doing private dances.

    So, when we meet a girl who seems to have her act together and wants to dance, we're all over her. Ya get it????

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    Default Re: Do you say that to all the girls...???

    Honestly, yes I do say that to all the girls. Well, all the ones who don't sit next to their husbands/boyfriends and glare at me the entire time. When female customers talk to me 9 out of 10 times they mention wanting to be a dancer, or that they would love to be thin enough or self-confident enough to do it, or something along those lines. They're customers, so I tell them what they want to hear: That yes, they are pretty enough. That they would do great as a dancer. And so on. Usually it's bullshit, I know they're never going to actually audition, they've just fallen for the fantasy of glitz and glamour and loads of cash.

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    Do I say that to all the girls?? Nah, just the ons's i think are cute......not all of them.

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