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    Default Re: Dominating, Submissive, or Both?

    Both, Gotta keep things interesting! Tied up,Tied down,Tongue tied, whatever.I'm not into being degraded like some men are though. You know Woman: "Bark for me like a dog!" Me: "No Thanx" lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cranky
    I am dominant, or Domme to use proper terminology (Dom is male, Domme is female)
    You are dom to Beta male and beta female only.

    I tried being submissive a few times but the giggles I got when someone else tried to control me totally ruined the effect.
    Its because you tried to submit to beta male,it just doesnt work if your Alpha female.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM
    You are dom to Beta male and beta female only.
    Only if you believe that whole theory. My preference is for females, but I havent met a male yet who wont bend to my will after a bit. Im a persuasive Top

    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM
    Its because you tried to submit to beta male,it just doesnt work if your Alpha female.
    Refer to above, I dont "do" males, dont get me wrong love them to death and some of my best friends are male, just no attraction sexually or relationship wise. But I have no qualms about using my feminine wiles to get my way darlin.

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    Dominating..... somthing about controlling a guy just makes me feel all warm and tingly..


    little bit of smacking around can be fun to.... heh.


    i can do submissive.... but i prefer holding the torch

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    Hmmmmmm.......I like to be in control most of the time but I make it seem like I'm submissive. Then when he thinks he's got me under his thumb, I turn it around and make him beg to be able to cum.

    Or I beat his ass till he's bruised.

    Or I stick vibrators where the sun don't shine.

    It all depends on what I had for lunch, how dank the buds were that I smoked earlier, if I'm in comfy shoes, what day of the week it is........I'm a wild card.

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    Default Re: Dominating, Submissive, or Both?

    submissive

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    It depends...at work, I'm dominating: "You're handing over your money whether you like it or not." But, at home, I am more submissive, "If you want to give me your wallet, I would accept...please?"



    Seriously, I am both. On the nights I feel frisky, then I am more dominating...on the nights I feel "not as frisky", I am more submissive. Sometimes, I'll start being one and then the mood strikes me to be the other...I'm unpredictable that way. LOL

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    At work and in life, I am very dominant and assertive.

    I LOVE being submissive in bed, but find it hard to find a partner more dominant than me, for real.

    I like to be "playfully" dominant in bed, but its for fun, doesn't get the juices flowing....

    I like to be abused in bed, but I am pretty much fucked in the head, so standard for psycho chix like me LOL

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    What ever it takes!
    "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."

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    Default Re: Dominating, Submissive, or Both?

    seriously, when i first thought about this answer i was wondering if... and when i read your replies i found it interesting that so many of you are more submissive.

    definitely i also am. in the sheets i like to be owned and used. the dirtier the better.

    is it that being on stage gives me the control i need? i get my share there but when it comes to sex i am more like "get on your knees... suck... ass up... i wil this and that...."

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    in the sheets i like to be owned and used. the dirtier the better.
    It took me (or is still taking me) so long to become accustomed to this sort of mentality. Initially, I feared that being "dominant" would be intrusive and disrespectful. After much discussion and reading books like "Women on Top" I have come to see how being sub is actually very much dom in many respects, while also allowing the sub aspect to be a tremendous release.

    ...hey...works for me!
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    Fuck being submissive! Is that an answer?
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    Default Re: Dominating, Submissive, or Both?

    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy
    Fuck being submissive! Is that an answer?
    Yes it is an answer little one,just not the correct one.

    Im afraid you will now have to be punished for the errors in your thinking.

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