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    Default Friends or Business partners?

    I finally know what I am! I am a PDOM!

    You can be friendly with a dancer that accepts money to rub her body all over you but "friends"? I don't think so. If you really see her as a friend you will naturally become uncomfortable with the whole process of her taking money out of your hand and then dropping her dress and climbing on your lap. If she really sees you as a friend she will feel the same way.
    One of my closest friends is my now retired ATF. We are friends because we trust each other. A couple of years ago, when she was still dancing, I offered to help her with a computer problem she was having. After knowing me for almost two years she had no problem trusting me with her address and having me in her apartment even though I regularly payed her vast amounts of cash to rub her unclothed sexy parts all over me. Instinctively, I knew nothing was going to happen and she knew I wasn't going to try.


    The next time I saw her at the club after that night of playing computer repairman I sensed that something had changed between us as she was dancing for me. The next time after that, as we sat down in the booth, somehow the words "you know, you don't really need to get undressed, let's just talk" came shooting out of my mouth before I could stop them. WTF??? WHAT am I saying???? I dunno, it just seemed like the right thing to say at the time. After that day neither of us ever viewed our relationship the same way again. When she decided it was time to stop dancing I was one of the only people she knew who didn't try to talk her out of it.

    The point of this babble is this: True friendship is based on trust. Nothing else. Lap dances, outside activities of a sexual nature, shopping trips, dinners, trips to the beach: They may be fun but they are all just business trips if they are based on you paying her for her time. Now, there's nothing wrong with a "friendly" business relationship that involves a hot naked woman. God knows I’ve entered into many. But sadly, I see too many guys with empty wallets thinking that they can buy something that isn't for sale.
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    Default Re: Friends or Business partners?

    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us
    [I finally know what I am! I am a PDOM!
    congrats! have a cohiba.

    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us
    [True friendship is based on trust. Nothing else. Lap dances, outside activities of a sexual nature, shopping trips, dinners, trips to the beach: They may be fun but they are all just business trips if they are based on you paying her for her time.
    i couldn't agree more, yoda. if some PL is doing that for a dancer. at best, he's just buying a piece of ass to sit on his balls. at worst, he's getting nada in return. in both cases, i don't think you could consider the stripper to be a friend. there is a certain degree of reciprocity that comes with friendship and most PLs are unlikely to find it in an environment with a woman who makes her living exploiting the weakness of PLs. especially, if the both parties can't see beyond that environment,

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    [Now, there's nothing wrong with a "friendly" business relationship that involves a hot naked woman. God knows I’ve entered into many. But sadly, I see too many guys with empty wallets thinking that they can buy something that isn't for sale.
    agreed. unfortunately, many PLs (and a lot of strippers) confuse the two issues.
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    Default Re: Friends or Business partners?

    I understand Yoda's point, but it never happened to me. No matter how I connect OTC, it's always the same inside. And it doesn't make any difference what the OTC connection is outside the club.

    Minority opinion, I know, but that's just me.

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    Sporty, It's all good as long as everyone's eyes are openned and nobody gets hurt.
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    yoda, I want you so bad it aches in the swimsuit area.
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    Double team! 2 latinas with big tits!!

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