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    Default Hand sanitizer + letting customer finger you?

    Hopefully this will shock you as much as it did me.

    I go into a vip room with 3 customers and once they're seated I run to grab 2 other girls. One girl is new to the club, but she always remembers my name and says hi (a big deal in our huge & cliquey club). The other girl is older, clean and also a nice girl.

    After song #1, dirtygirl opens her purse, takes out hand sanitizer, puts some on her hands, some on customers hands, and proceeds to allow the guy to finger her for the next two songs. I'm like 'holy fuck what the fuck is going on here' in my head, but I don't say anything. Meanwhile, my customer sees what her customer is allowed to do, and he starts trying to poke me in my pussy and I'm like 'no way man, don't try it or I WILL kick you in the face'. So, instead of keeping me for the hour as he said he would, he says we're done after 3 songs, loosing me $220!!!! The other cleangirl who would not let the custie finger her also got the boot.

    Later I see the dirty dancer picking up her $300, and I'm like 'you know, I lost my customer because he wanted to finger me. She's like 'do you let them?' and I say 'no', and she's like 'oh, whatever you're comfortable with I guess'. I was so mad and we were in the middle of the club so I just walked away, but it's been on my mind for the past week (i've been off work since then). I've pretty much decided that when I see her tonight I'm gonna tell her off and possibly kick her ass.

    I used to make so much $$, but now my club has hired so many new dirty dancers, I can really tell the difference. Things like this happen sometimes with the new girls and I hear through the grapevine, but have never been actually involved.

    I am not a violent person but she basically messed with my money, and ever since I've been trading a little bit of my sexuality for cash by dancing, it makes me enraged to have someone unjustly take money out of my pocket. Especially since I hooked the customers and brought her into the booth after it was a done deal - lucky her hight?

    PS dont tell me to talk to managment since they couldn't care less.

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    Default Re: Hand sanitizer + letting customer finger you?

    That's totally fucked up. YOU hooked her up with a VIP and she fucked it up for you and the other girl! She needs a serious talking to, Maybe she just doesn't understand because she's new. Set her straight. I don't advocate resorting to physical violence, but I can see why you'd want to.

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    This seems to be more common lately. Even my club which had the reputation for being clean has now deteriorated. Alot of the girls let guys touch their pussies. How can you compete with that? I mean I give awesome close sensual erotic dances. But it is hard to compare that to a girl who is giving it all away.
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    This shit pisses us all off, but what exactly do you think you will accomplish by fighting her? You could get hurt to the point it AFFECTS YOUR MONEY or get fired which also AFFECTS YOUR MONEY.

    If you really think managment doesn't care, leave the club. If you really want to stay there I guess you could just gossip about it and talk about it to the point it makes her uncomfortable to work there.

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    i'm with emily on this one. unfourtunaltly this is becoming the trend around the country. more and more girls are willing to do more. management doent care about anything but the bottom line. dance clean or leave the club. i dont think spreading rumors will make a dirty girl leave, it will just make you look like a shit starter.

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    LOL OTB!

    I gotta say,the fact she wiped the guy off with a wet nap is fucking incredible to me.
    how bold is that??

    Move clubs,and do it fast.Specially if your convinced that MGRs wont care that this crap is going on inside of their club.

    In the clubs i work in,the girl would be fired on the spot.If an ABC agent was the guy getting his hand wiped off,the club could have had its booze permit removed for a few weeks and a huge fine.The girl could have been taken out in cuffs.(and should have imo)

    Entertainers are not the yellow pages.
    If you want to let your fingers do the walking,call an escort.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM
    LOL OTB!

    Entertainers are not the yellow pages.
    If you want to let your fingers do the walking,call an escort.
    LOL...hilarious!!

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    Man this very thing happened to me a few days ago, but to a lesser degree. I hooked a guy for a dance but two other girls latched onto us as we went to the back... why, I don't know! But the other two girls involved were getting really freaky with the guy and pulling out their breasts and such. I was doing no such thing so the three of them began calling me "timid". Then the guy took my hand and tried to place it inside of one of the girls' shorts and I refused to go there, so the guy kicked me out and danced with the two other girls and I got only one dance from the guy I'd hooked while they were upstairs chatting at the cashier's booth! I totally feel your pain, but I wouldn't do anything about it but chalk it up as a loss and continue making your money... extra drama does not equal extra money in any case IMO.

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    I read the post again and one thing stuck out at me....maybe he didn't stay the hour because you threatened to kick him in the face. HOWEVER, that's not to say that there aren't lots of missed opportunities for clean dancers lost to dirty dancers. I'm thinking you just could have handled this situation differently.

    and Goldclubbing.....there are definitey guys that want to pay to finger us.

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    Default Re: Hand sanitizer + letting customer finger you?

    Get medieval on that ass.

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    Default Re: Hand sanitizer + letting customer finger you?

    Quote Originally Posted by goldclubbing
    I'm to sure why a guy would pay to stick his fingers in a girls puss. Once a dancer started giving me a handjob while we were making out in a corner and it just naturally happened but it was hardly planned...
    Maybe you didn't plan it, but I wouldn't assume she didn't.

    Furthermore, dancers who give handjobs in a stripclub also make it much more difficult for the clean ones to make money. This is no different from a dancer letting her customer finger her--in fact, it is if anything worse.

    Guys who acheive sexual release in the stripclubs quite naturally encourage the view that these are in effect whorehouses--a phenomenon that is in serious danger of ruining the industry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Emily
    why?

    this is a legitimate complaint among many dancers
    yeah, I'm with you Emily. The only thing different is that I've never heard of the hand sanitizer thing before! But I think this is an issue we all deal with on some level.



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    Default Re: Hand sanitizer + letting customer finger you?

    Well...

    at least she cleaned his hands.

    Ew. Anyway, yeah, I agree completely with Emily's posts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigGreenMnM
    LOL OTB!


    Entertainers are not the yellow pages.
    If you want to let your fingers do the walking,call an escort.
    LMAO!!! Big Green, you always know how to make it a hallmark moment!


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    A simular thing happened to me recently - I was so pissed off. I did a show with another dancer for a bunch of guys who booked us for half and hour. Where I work there is no touching by Law and we don't do lap-dances we do stage shows and have to stay on the stage once we are fully naked. Anyway the other dancer who was (a) drunk and (b) doesn't speak much English was letting the customers touch her legs and rub her crotch with their beer bottles, she also masturbated which is strictly not allowed. Another dancer had told me how the same girl had let customers lick her once but I assumed that the rules had been properly explained after that! Anyway, because of what was happening I got almost zero attention (usually I get told I do the best shows in the club, so I was pissed off!!!) also the other dancer was taking up over 3/4 of the stage because of what was going on so it was almost impossible for me to do dance. After I tried to explain to her that she was breaking the Law and club rules I walked out which was fucked because the customers thourght I was being a bitch and a wowser. I did say that I would finish the show afterwards and alone if they wanted, but they were pissed off and complained to management before they left.
    Anyway, the other dancer still doesn't know what she did wrong and she was upset because we were friends and she didn't know why I was so pissed off... apparently anyway. It really shits me because it is really bad for buisness and for the other dancers. Besides there are many places where she could work and do all of those things legally in the very same street as our club! Grrr!

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    Quote Originally Posted by 242_fair
    ....... but it's been on my mind for the past week (i've been off work since then). .........................
    I am not a violent person but she basically messed with my money, and ever since I've been trading a little bit of my sexuality for cash by dancing...
    So, if you've been off for the past week...how are you now trading your sexuality by dancing??

    I'm sure this kind of stuff happens in clubs but something about this post doesn't sound right to me.....

    Anyway, best of luck to you. I'd say something to her and to mgmt...if they don't seem to care, you might remind them they could lose their license and get a huge fine...

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    wow, im speechless.

    That is crazy!!

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    no kidding!!!!

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    Real or Fake...it's a crazy situation.
    Last edited by VenusGoddess; 10-13-2004 at 06:30 AM.

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    Seems more and more clubs today are willing to let dancers to anything they can get away with, as the dancing business does not seem to bring in as much money as it used to.

    If you wrote this message 2 years ago i probably would say tell management, but today whats the point. Maybe you can move on to another club.

    Stay away from her, it was 1 night, and she is just nasty. There are still guys out there who dont want this crap in a club, seek them out as best you can. Sounds like the club will be heading for a bust if this keeps up, really. Be careful.

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    One of the reasons I quit dancing is because most guys that go to clubs around here expect mileage and most of the girls I worked with would give them what they wanted but I didn't want to do any of that shit.

    Find another club but I'm not sure it will be much different.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Muyaha
    <edit> or am I just jaded and crazy?
    I can assure you that this shit really happened.

    THIS IS A FORUM FOR US TO SUPPORT EACH OTHER, TO LIFT EACH OTHER UP, NOT TO CALL ONE ANOTHER <edit> NAMES.
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    Ok...this thread has gone on for long enough. I am locking it.

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