A friend of mine knows a girl who is a very popular dancer at a club. She is like the "star" dancer of this particular club and she told my friend she goes home with clients ALL the time, gives them sex whenever, gets expensive gifts from them, etc. My friend told me that if I want to be a dancer this is pretty much "the way dancers are" and that if I hold myself to any higher standards that is not the norm for the industry. I disagreed with her because I like to think being a dancer or entertainer is just that - DANCING/ENTERTAINING - I still feel it is wrong (not to mention illegal) to give extras to the clients. I guess whatever that "dirty" dancer does in her private time is not considered having to do with the club, but it definitely puts off a bad image for the club where she works and makes patrons think that all strippers are whores or easy. (Also I think it's scary to go home with clients anyway.) I am no prude, but please - I have standards!!! This is something I have dreamed of all my life (dancing) and now that she told me this I am SO frustrated! What is the deal on this? My friend seems to think b/c I'm college educated and not a druggie or easy that I could not succeed in the world of stripping - that basically I would be shunned because I'm not "dirty". PLEASE let me know about any thoughts anyone has on this. I know you people on here sound like you are totally against that illegal "dirty" side of the industry so I thought you might be able to help me. I am really sad tonight b/c I just missed out on a stripper job that I was hoping to get. Now I am thinking that I don't have what it takes to be a stripper b/c I refuse to compromise myself or do illegal things! I just want to DANCE - entertain, have fun, and be sensual while making good money - is that wrong? Someone please let me know your thoughts on this...I feel like my dreams have just been shattered and I need to know if it's worth pursuing my dream of dancing or just throwing it away. Are there any clean clubs out there? Thanks in advance everyone for letting me vent!
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A friend of mine knows a girl who is a very popular dancer at a club. She is like the "star" dancer of this particular club and she told my friend she goes home with clients ALL the time, gives them sex whenever, gets expensive gifts from them, etc. My friend told me that if I want to be a dancer this is pretty much "the way dancers are" and that if I hold myself to any higher standards that is not the norm for the industry. I disagreed with her because I like to think being a dancer or entertainer is just that - DANCING/ENTERTAINING - I still feel it is wrong (not to mention illegal) to give extras to the clients. I guess whatever that "dirty" dancer does in her private time is not considered having to do with the club, but it definitely puts off a bad image for the club where she works and makes patrons think that all strippers are whores or easy. (Also I think it's scary to go home with clients anyway.) I am no prude, but please - I have standards!!! This is something I have dreamed of all my life (dancing) and now that she told me this I am SO frustrated! What is the deal on this? My friend seems to think b/c I'm college educated and not a druggie or easy that I could not succeed in the world of stripping - that basically I would be shunned because I'm not "dirty". PLEASE let me know about any thoughts anyone has on this. I know you people on here sound like you are totally against that illegal "dirty" side of the industry so I thought you might be able to help me. I am really sad tonight b/c I just missed out on a stripper job that I was hoping to get. Now I am thinking that I don't have what it takes to be a stripper b/c I refuse to compromise myself or do illegal things! I just want to DANCE - entertain, have fun, and be sensual while making good money - is that wrong? Someone please let me know your thoughts on this...I feel like my dreams have just been shattered and I need to know if it's worth pursuing my dream of dancing or just throwing it away. Are there any clean clubs out there? Thanks in advance everyone for letting me vent!

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I don't know why your friend said that to you but she's not helping by spreading this stereotype about strippers !





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